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mercianknight
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 64
0 miles · Evesham

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Wear whatever makes you feel sexy/confident. My wife wore glasses for years and I thought she looked damned sexy in them .... she didn't. Eventually she switched to contacts however, it did her ego a power of good so I'm happy for her
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Friend-Zone charity?

Nope... that's what iTunes gift cards are for.

If they have piqued my interest in the forums or written stories I like then I usually send a PM explaining why I'd like to 'friend' them and ask their permission. A tad selective, but it helps me keep in touch with the Lushies who tend to contribute more and alerts me as to when they submit new stories.

I have had random friend requests and, as others have done, I check out that persons profile to determine whether or not they are merely 'collecting' names before I decide whether or not to accept. Compared to many, I am a shy wall flower in the 'friends' department and hope to keep it that way.
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Welcome to the site.

If you are looking for a mistress in real life, you're better off going to a site like ALT.com.

People generally come here to read stories, participate in the forums, or for a casual chat in the chat rooms.


Two things:

Why is Nic hanging out at ALT.com when she has my e-mail address?

Even more importantly, I feel cheated. I thought this thread was about how a dude could get a piece on the side.

Oh well, back to reading stories.
What the hell's the point of keeping my armour all shiny if I can't use it to check my self out?

Geesh
WMM gets it about right. I have no expectations re my partner demonstrating her participation or enjoyment vociferously. I try to look to other physical indications that I am getting it right. I am not a moaner or shrieker myself, however, I will concede to an immense sense of satisfaction if the lady in question does scream the house the down.

KFC is the ONLY fast food franchise permitted in Bermuda.



They snuck in before they were made illegal in the late '70's.
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Having been married twice I'd say the perfect wedding is getting drunk and celebrating on the day the divorce is finalized.


Priceless...... sad, but priceless
started smoking as a 14yr old kid because it was 'cool', and, although never a heavy smoker, sort of kept it up as the bad habbit I always knew it was.

By the time I was 27 it was just too darn expensive, PLUS, I was changing jobs, country, getting married and thought "What the hell, might as well quit smoking as well"!! Which I did, 22 year ago.

To this day cigarette smoke kills my eyes, ashtrays offend my nostrils and the very thought of smoking ... well ... Don't do it or, if you do, give it up.
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Her response when I told her: "I love you, but I will never approve of your choice!" Then she told me to ask God for forgiveness.


Okay, you've had all the supportive comments that you were looking for and some of the advice has been awesome. Now for a little reality.

Your quoted response from your Mom indicates that she handled this as best she can. The reference to God indicates a deep rooted belief that, at her stage of life, meant your news probably hit her like an express freight train. The good news is that she came right out and said she still loved you so work with that. Keep talking to Mom - not AT her.

I applaud your decision to come out. It is a far better world in which you live now compared to 30 or 40 years ago (your Mom's era) so do not over indulge your perceived victim status and have some consideration for how she might be feeling and how she is trying to cope. Remember, SHE STILL LOVES YOU and will no doubt defend you to her dying breath as all of her like-minded homophobic friends suddenly turn on her whilst you go gaily skipping off into the sunset. Mom probably needs you more than you need her approval so tread carefully and tactfully....

....unlike my response.

Sorry, recently had a friends son 'come out' and they were torn to shreds by our small towns mentality. All I heard was "Oh woe is me" from the poor little lad who decided we should all have to suddenly embrace HIS view on life. Parents stand by their son but OMG.
Beautifully gorgeous sunny day; the bells ringing from the cathedral; the pews packed with loved ones from near and far; the groom, immaculately presented waits expectantly at the end of the aisle with his Best Man.

Finally, the organ begins to play; the groom turns to the doorway, sunlight cascading through the open double oak doors and the bride, respendent in her white gown, steps into view on her fathers arm. The bride begins to walk down the aisle as all eyes turn to her, the suns rays now casting warm tendrils of light around her form creating an ethereal silhouette - it's magical. It is all about the bride.

The ceremony, the words, whilst important, occupy but an instant of this precious day. The couple needed and wanted to solidify their love before everyone and celebrate in a way that will create memories for a lifetime.

Pronounced man & wife there follows a brief carriage ride where, to indulge the groom, pictures are taken atop an ancient fortress that overlooks the tranquil blue waters of their home. A majestic backdrop. Don't dally too long, the guests await you at the feast that goes on long after the bride and groom retreat to consumate their love.

That was my day 22 years ago. It was just perfect.
Warrior

At your best, you are brave, intense, and fearless. You have guts.
You have no problem standing up for what's right and asserting yourself. You'll fight for what you believe in.

You face the abyss head on, an you challenge your friends to do the same.
You have the guts to be who you are. You believe that you are important and special.

Surprised?
Oooooo .... slip a boob out from that lacey bra and tickle her nipple with my mouth .... for starters
voted Pepsi but drink mostly Dr. Pepper on my tranquil isle only because I cannot get my hands on any "Dandelion & Burdock"



- aaaah! Ye best soda ever invented
When I have to listen to the droning of the office chatter go on and on about what they are doing this particular VD (I do like that, hehehe!!) I simply shrug my shoulders whenever anyone is stupid enough to try to engage me in promoting yet another Hallmark holiday and retort by saying something like:

"If you're happy being told once a year that you are loved then good for you. I, on the other hand, do not like to be told when to tell my loved one she is loved and prefer to show my other half that she is loved EVERY day!"


If they do not get that hint, then I have some rather juicy, expletive filled anecdotes to show them just where to stick their overpriced candies and cards.