As I tip toe through this minefield let me offer this.......
I am married to two women - metaphorically speaking.
I often leave early for work and get home late so the woman I see most is the one getting ready for her own day at the mill or the relaxed dressed down one when I get home. Ho hum, nothing special there. Wife #1.
On many occasions I have come home from work to find my beloved wife still in her office work attire (it matters not whether it is intentional) which for me is an instant testosterone shot. Like it or not, I drag her to the bedrrom, put the "Do Not Disturb' sign on the door and ravish her. Wife #2.
I prefer to date wife #2, but wife #1 is less demanding.
Try to find somewhere in the middle ground.
Now, has anyone seen my club? I need to get back to my cave.
I love the idea of participating in a MMF, so, whilst I cannot offer any advice on this occasion, I would love to know what happens and how you make it happen.
I adore the chick sat in my lap scenario for comfort, but also thoroughly enjoy walking up behind my standing wife and fondling/smooching her when she least expects it.