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missmollyrose
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missmollyrose
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Appreciate all the ideas, ladies and gents! I have definitely thought about some blindfold/tie action! But that may be pushing it too far just yet.

Progress update: Last night, we were lying in bed (not fooling around), and he asked me, "I hope this isn't rude to ask, but I know you said you liked giving me oral, and I was wondering, if you did that, would you want me to come?" !!!!! I proceeded just exactly how much I would love for him to come and the myriad ways (and places) he could. He seemed very interested in the idea smile
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missmollyrose
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Thanks, Southerner. I am wiling to be patient about this. And as for if it's a deal breaker, only time can tell. Like you said, four months isn't long!
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missmollyrose
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Hey, folks. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 4 months. He grew up in a very conservative catholic household, and has not had many sexual partners before me. Apparently, he used to think giving or receiving oral "was gross". His previous partners also thought so, so he never experienced it (giving or receiving).

I happen to LOVE both. I actually fantasize more about pleasuring him than vice versa, but that's more than welcome, too smile Keep in mind, he is no longer catholic, and is now very interested in learning new things in bed with me. But I think he is very nervous, and maybe still getting over some mental hurdles, because he still hasn't given me any, and whenever I try to go down on him, he either loses his erection or just grabs me and wants to go back to vaginal intercourse.

Now, I am more than willing to admit I need to learn a thing or two about sucking cock, but I've never had anything but rave reviews before. I did buy some books about it, and also tried to have a conversation about what feels good to him. He opened up a little, saying he liked the underside (frenulum, I assume he was speaking about) stroked/touched. I already knew that, but the point is that he was willing to discuss it, which is improvement. I also asked him about his fantasies, and what he imagines when he touches himself. He mentioned basically "wanting to be inside" of me, and that sort of thing. I am willing to accept if he just simply won't ever want to do that, I mean we all have different sexual interests. But I think he just doesn't know what he's missing, and if only I could get him to come once that way, he'd never look back!

I have told him there is no rush in any of this, and we have all the time in the world to learn about each other. But I think he's never going to initiate oral alone, so I need some ideas. How can I get him to be more comfortable with this?
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