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overmykneenow
8 hours ago
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Maybe the stories you commented on have been deleted - the author left lush? If this took your comments back below fifty I guess you could lose your badge again

Why not comment on some of my stories just to make sure smile
What about those mucky girls who wipe their asses by reaching through their legs rather than reaching around the back?
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oh, that again? we had a discussion about that about a month or so back. not going to happen here. as OMKN says, it's NOT a dating or a hook up site. it's primarily an erotic story site. we are not about to put our resources into IDing 180,000 plus members when we have 30 plus new stories to verify on a daily basis.


If it were to be implemented it would have to be purely on an opt-in basis and would need to be managed by a third party unless you want to get involved in a load of Data Protection crap from all jurisdictions of the globe.

Chat sites I've seen that use this put the emphasis on the user to sign up for it - they also charge users for the pleasure of using it. Maybe a useful extra revenue stream for the site from people who feel the need to prove who they are.
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One Improvement Or Feature I'm Sure Would Be Good Is: Verified Identity!


Tough to implement globally and would prove quite unpopular amongst many casual users.

Systems like that used by NetIDme require a home address along with a passport or driving license number - the sort of information people wouldn't like to give just to have a little fun on lush.

If Lush was a dating site, where the express intention is to meet up with people then this might be advisable to add an extra layer of safety but for stories and a bit of chat it seems a bit OTT.
People who lay guilt trips on you when you log out

Me: I'm off, chat again soon
AndTheyreLike: oh... cry
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The hilarious ideas have started forming in my mind, not that a male is EVER going to win this. Alas, I can't afford not to try.


The most visited profile on the site is a male, Reeb - that is until Dancing_Doll takes that title in the next couple of months or so and goes on to be the first to break 1/4 million views

Pointless lush stat of the day: 122 profile views - the point where there are more lush women than lush men.

Male Lush users: 123,161
Female Lush users: 57,671

Male lush users with 122 profile views or more: 16,246
Female lush users with 122 profile views or more: 16,258
Toilet etiquette? Is that when you put the seat back down after a piss?

Or making sure you never, ever use the urinal next to the lower one
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I feel that there are lots of users intentionally trying to deceive which I personally feel is wrong and dilutes the site


In my experience these people are usually looking to connect with other hot 19 year old bisexual girls
This has been discussed before many times - as has the idea of a "name and shame thread" - the argument tends to boil down to what is acceptable fantasy and what is deception. If someone wants to come on here and pretend to be a porn star who are you to spoil their fun? Fakes are usually easier to spot from the way they act rather than the way they look.

It's not as straightforward as it at first seems. There are many reasons why someone will use a fake and unless you know exactly why, it won't help matters if they're name and shamed. I know exactly how much women especially are pressured to put photos up; putting up fakes just makes life easier for some people. With reverse image searches you can't really hide behind a fake picture for long. We all have to go in with our eyes open as well as our minds.

On the flip side - knowing how hot some of my friends actually are - sometimes I wish their pics WERE fake! Would make life a hell of a lot easier.
Someone on Twitter described looking forward to the new Star Wars film as being like "expecting a baby that you already know is going to be ginger"
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Fixed that for you, silly Sprite.

I should totally write a mathematics-themed story. Or maybe ALL my stories should be mathematics-themed. I think I had an idea for one once, actually...

It's an up-and-coming genre, I tells ye!


I think Maths stories would only appeal to the lowest common denominator
Kegels are good for men too.

Doing the occasional Kegel while you have your cock in someone can give a little extra to the experience for her
Surely you'd just get everyone who is into golden showers asking for a leek badge.
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Hmm. I counted 21 mod stories, 20 non-mod stories. Perhaps you can recheck?


I counted 20 but there are at least three ex-mods as well from a total of 43
Percentage of Lush authors who are moderators = 1%

Percentage of Recommended Read badge holders who are moderators = 46.5%

Well played!
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On the contrary. Debate is one of the healthiest pursuits of the mind.

What I am saying is that no thought has really gone in via this debate to the creators.

Somebody designed the mark, They were probably quite proud of it. It was then probably approved by some other people....Who lets face it, probably help run this site without getting any wages for doing so. Gav then had to spend some time coding, to allow the badge to be used. We are already talking probably over 12 man-hours worth of work. It just seems a little ungrateful to me that it is now being run down by a select few.

This site is a community but not a democracy. The site is Nicola's.....And long may she continue with it.


I see, so debate is a healthy pursuit of the mind but only as long as it doesn't include opinions. This isn't a democracy but 4649 votes for beats 6 against (or is that economics?)

I can't see this conversation going any further and I'm not going to stick to see which one of your statements you're going to contradict next.

I'm out of here
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Currently there are 4655 active users on this site!

So far there has been in this thread around five or six people complaining. Would you change your software on the basis of a what a handful of users do not like, or would you look at the 4649 who have found no cause for complaint?

The economics are obvious.

The team here very obviously DO care, or they would not keep making improvements to what is a very well put together site.

Sometimes you have to just realise that some people do not like change. No matter what improvements you make, These people will still find fault.


What you're saying though is that we shouldn't even presume to debate the subject.
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I dislike myself doing this, but..
Of course we are and don't you think they/ she knows that? Don't disrespect them thinking they are ignorant. However, lushstories.com is Nicola's business and how she will aproach, analize and increase its growth and development it is her business. This is sex site, it is I believe a tad different to handle than grocery store, it is up to her how she wants her site to visually looks like, her rules. We got spoiled, she was asking us and giving us too much librety in the past about decisions she should make, and now we think we own this place just because we posted few poems. Please.


Why would you dislike yourself for having an opinion on something?

My beef isn't with lush or its development. However we should feel free to comment on developments in the site as freely as we comment on the stories we provide for it. It's Nicola's choice to take those suggestions on board or dismiss them as she sees fit - much in the same way it's an authors choice to take any criticism on board to improve their writing.

I've already said I like the idea, but I'm also willing to accept that some people won't
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It is never in the remit for the testing. They are interested in whether the product works, Not in whether or not it is aesthetically pleasing.

The same thing applies here. We are not being asked to comment on whether or not we like the symbol. The Lush admin and design team designed, coded and have voted to use it. Who are we to question them?



Who are we? We're the end users! Without end users there isn't any point to development.

If this how Google put stuff out for testing, no wonder they fail so spectacularly whenever they try to launch their own social networking tools
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No silly, its an age old solution for "butterface" ;)


Ah yes - BOBFOC
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I do a lot of beta testing for various bits of google software. I would never think that it is my right to question their logos, buttons or reasons behind the software....I do it, because it is an honour to be asked and I appreciate the fact that they are trying to make peoples online experiences a little better.


What's the point of giving it to you then? When I hand stuff out to testers I want them to tell me how everything about it works for them - even at beta testing stage. And if there's something wrong with it for them - no matter what it is - they should tell me. It's then up to me to decide whether their concerns are valid or helpful. User experience is holistic, it's not just if a button does what it says it should.
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not a search I need to make I'm afraid.

Actually, I do. the "mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm" should certainly receive a fresh look with an eye on editing.


While you're at it, there's also a "fuck" with 23 "U"s in it
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(Bwahahaha, evil laughing!)

How about a "Ridiculous" category for those stories that really ARE!

(i.e. the first time story about the young girl who chooses a gang bang with three 12 inch cocks as her first sexual experience, or maybe the stories with "ALL CAP DIALOOOOGGGGG!")


There are ways of finding those ;)

"mmmm" 1827 results
"mmmmmmmm" 169 results
"mmmmmmmmmmmm" 26 results
"mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm" 7 results
"mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm" 2 results
Isn't reverse cowgirl just one of those porn video inventions that shows the female off really well while hiding the male?
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I suppose it's really about what the "focus" of the story is. I've read stories in the Toys category, to use your example, which were most definitely about the toy(s) and how the characters explore and experiment with them. I have also read stories in other categories that involve toys but it's not a "key" part to the story.

To be honest, the majority of stories fall into several categories and that's why tags are important. Really, we could potentially strip it back to just a handful of categories and put more emphasis on appropriate tagging.

However, I think adding more categories only makes the matter worse. The majority of people are not looking for something so specific as "college stories" or "workplace stories". And if you are looking for Age Play stories, for instance, a quick search should bring them all up and you can choose them from within whatever category most appeals to you.


Mistress_Of_Words did a fair attempt of categorising the categories for a forum post, with mixed success in my opinion.

http://www.lushstories.com/forum/yaf_postst16811_Guys-ONLY--what39s-your-favourite-category.aspx