I find nipple play to be very erotic. Though I love my nipples sucked, bit, licked, and pinched, I trend toward the more severe, i.e., to have Your Mistress place nipple clamps on you (max pressure), and oh my, the eventual release is beyond explanation. So yes ladies, play...play...play with my nipples, I simply LOVE IT!
Vanilla sex, vanilla lifestyle, etc is a basic term used for what one does when not participating in a D/s (Domination/submissive lifestyle). For example, many who are into BDSM or various aspects of kink or fetish play also have a vanilla life...it could be a family, your profession. therefore the term vanilla is used in the context of instances when not participating in a D/s lifestyle. for those who live their kink 24/7, T/they do not have a vanilla world, they are lifestyle players. within my experience in a D/s lifestyle, this is how the term is used and defined.
I personally enjoy the feeling of satin, lace, and silk. I enjoy mixing a male silk shirt, with panties, garter belt, and nylons. it brings out a very sexy side in me. That's is were I stop, I choose not to become a female...dresses etc...just a bit of a lingerie fetish to bring out my submissive side and to enhance the sensual experience, with the women I am with. It is so much fun when we both dress in sexy lingerie. very hot and passionate.
i am submissive, hopefully i can help. first, set limitations and share what E/each of Y/you expect. also remember, You referred to having a slave, which within the D/s world refers to one without free will. so, i think Y/you should both define what that means, perhaps this individual also has no idea, perhaps this individual only is service orientated. Y/your question is actually very deep and there is so much to be said. so, if i can be of help, please contact me.
i love red satin thongs. it is for the best to expose as much of those spankable cheeks, as possible! red cheeks and red panties, what a delightful combination.
black floral lace thong panties...thigh high black seamed stockings, and nipple clamps.....hmm
