Unfortunately the binary choie true /false does not help.
Marriage is not natural. Humans evolved long term (8-12 years) mating patterns as a part of natural selection (reproductive success). Many times, however this can be parlayed into a lifetime relationship, other times it simply will not work. Marriage (as opposed to long term mating) developed largely to handle property, support and inheritance issues because those things did not work well with frequent changes.
I am on my third marriage. The previous two simply ran out of steam and we mutually agreed to let go. Unfortunately societal and legal pressures tend to work against that more reasonable approach to marriage.
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realz
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There are a couple of angles to this.
For one thing, if a woman sends you a pussy picture, it's very different from seeing one on the internet. There is a feeling of something very personal, intimate and sharing about it. I have never shown others pussy pictures that have been sent to me personally because they have a special status.
For you ladies out there, you may have noticed that what pussy pictures do for men is not the same thing that you might experience looking at a cock. It goes back to our mammalian sex drive, which works very differently for females and males. Deep down our primal brain 'knows' that's where we have to go if we're going to be part of the human gene pool, and that target is the pussy. Yhe attraction is strong and targeted to push us along (be honest, now, you women generally make us work hard for it one way or another). Because of this (and other factors) there is no focused center of attraction for women. They're sexuality is already attracting the male and she gets to set back and see if he's worth the trouble, too much focus on a cock would interfere with her objectivity.
For one thing, if a woman sends you a pussy picture, it's very different from seeing one on the internet. There is a feeling of something very personal, intimate and sharing about it. I have never shown others pussy pictures that have been sent to me personally because they have a special status.
For you ladies out there, you may have noticed that what pussy pictures do for men is not the same thing that you might experience looking at a cock. It goes back to our mammalian sex drive, which works very differently for females and males. Deep down our primal brain 'knows' that's where we have to go if we're going to be part of the human gene pool, and that target is the pussy. Yhe attraction is strong and targeted to push us along (be honest, now, you women generally make us work hard for it one way or another). Because of this (and other factors) there is no focused center of attraction for women. They're sexuality is already attracting the male and she gets to set back and see if he's worth the trouble, too much focus on a cock would interfere with her objectivity.
Tease includes so many things, from looks to words, to clothing.
Clothing that moves around just enough for quick peeks is most erotic, because you kind of have to keep looking to catch the right moment. And when you're lucky, you have to freeze the image in memory. Short flouncy skirts, just loose enough tops... these get my heart pounding.
What about attitude? You could do the innocent thing, like you have no idea this is happening. or you could do the naughty tease where he suspects you know exactly what you're doing. Both are hot, but the naughty tease can really send me up the wall.
Clothing that moves around just enough for quick peeks is most erotic, because you kind of have to keep looking to catch the right moment. And when you're lucky, you have to freeze the image in memory. Short flouncy skirts, just loose enough tops... these get my heart pounding.
What about attitude? You could do the innocent thing, like you have no idea this is happening. or you could do the naughty tease where he suspects you know exactly what you're doing. Both are hot, but the naughty tease can really send me up the wall.
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But you'd chuck her straight away if you found her with another man yes?
Ugh men
Not clear if which post you're responding to.
But if it's my post, the assumption is not correct.
Simply having sex with someone is not a deal breaker as far as I'm concerned. Sometimes sex is simply diversion, or a way to feel that one 'still has got it',. Psychological dynamics had much more to do with the demise of previous relationships. I never tried to stop my 2 ex wives from having sex with other men and they did (of course I then had no requirement to remain monogamous).
I have no problems socially with gay people of either gender.
My ex wife was openly bi ever since she was a teenager and admitted it to me when we were first dating. To be honest, the concept of two women can be sexy if they're strangers, but a bit uncomfortable if one is your partner. During the time we were together I was always much less threatened if she ogled or flirted with guys than with women.
My current wife is no prude but quite straight, an I'm more comfortable.
My ex wife was openly bi ever since she was a teenager and admitted it to me when we were first dating. To be honest, the concept of two women can be sexy if they're strangers, but a bit uncomfortable if one is your partner. During the time we were together I was always much less threatened if she ogled or flirted with guys than with women.
My current wife is no prude but quite straight, an I'm more comfortable.
If by 'bad girls' you mean women who are not afraid of their own sexuality and knows that a vagina is a key to getting things done, who've had enough men to know exactly how to press your buttons and make you beg, whose body is not a temple but a tool, who can leave you breathless in bed, and paint her nails while you recover, who just might do your friend while convincing you it was your idea .. but also one you don't have to play mind games with, who understands that it really doesn't take that much to make a guy happy.
Yeah, I like bad girls
Yeah, I like bad girls
This question came up when I was reading post by a woman who finally told her husband about her previous lovers and he became jealously upset.
I started thinking about this. I know about how many lovers my wife has had, and it doesn't bother me at all (nor do I have a strongly prurient interest in knowing... it's emotionally neutral as far as I am concerned). She is a little more jealous, she knows my 2 ex wives (we're still friendly) she does not realize that she knows another one of my past. I have not problem with telling her but I wouldn't unless she really wanted to know. I've never pushed her for too many details about her previous liaisons, though I can hardly imagine getting jealous over it.
So all that long windedness comes to this. Do you know about your partner's previous lovers? Do you care? Are you jealous?
I started thinking about this. I know about how many lovers my wife has had, and it doesn't bother me at all (nor do I have a strongly prurient interest in knowing... it's emotionally neutral as far as I am concerned). She is a little more jealous, she knows my 2 ex wives (we're still friendly) she does not realize that she knows another one of my past. I have not problem with telling her but I wouldn't unless she really wanted to know. I've never pushed her for too many details about her previous liaisons, though I can hardly imagine getting jealous over it.
So all that long windedness comes to this. Do you know about your partner's previous lovers? Do you care? Are you jealous?
It's up to you how you handle it. To be pragmatic, it depends on what you are expecting, but don't expect miracles.
I knew my first wife was having sex with some other men, though that in itself did not distress me that much. Physical sex can be for a lot of different reasons, and to me physical 'cheating' is not necessarily the same as emotional cheating. Eventually, though, she actually fell in love with one of these guys and that only started to hurt when she decided she'd rather be with him
Probably for the best, however, 25 years later she is still with him, and I've got another wife. We are probably both better off.
I knew my first wife was having sex with some other men, though that in itself did not distress me that much. Physical sex can be for a lot of different reasons, and to me physical 'cheating' is not necessarily the same as emotional cheating. Eventually, though, she actually fell in love with one of these guys and that only started to hurt when she decided she'd rather be with him
Probably for the best, however, 25 years later she is still with him, and I've got another wife. We are probably both better off.