I'm looking forward to trying anal with xxxxx (you know who you are) really soon but I absolutely love the idea and the passion of it. It requires so much trust!
For a body pleasing orgasm then I love coming in her mouth. It's so wonderful to think she's doing something just for my pleasure.
For the complete experience though, sweaty bodies entwined and eyes staring in to each other, pussy is the real deal for body and mind!
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sbp
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 44
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Being completely honest - it would drive me crazy - I'd hate it. Even if I was better looking, richer etc.
But it'd be my problem not hers and the most important part of a relationship is trust so if I couldn't get over it then it's probably not ever going to work out. I'd still recognise that it's my issue and I should probably just grow up, but you can't help how you feel can you?
But it'd be my problem not hers and the most important part of a relationship is trust so if I couldn't get over it then it's probably not ever going to work out. I'd still recognise that it's my issue and I should probably just grow up, but you can't help how you feel can you?
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I was 'given' my GFs best friend once as a birthday present and we had MFF sex throughout the night and the morning. We were all friends before and remained so after and repeated it a few times before I split with my GF some time later for completely unrelated reasons. I'm still friends with her best friend 12 years on ;)
I think that's pretty rare though from the conversations I've had with other people where things get to wierd and jealously sets in. I guess the old casino addage is true in this instance too, "Only gamble with what you're prepared to lose".
I think that's pretty rare though from the conversations I've had with other people where things get to wierd and jealously sets in. I guess the old casino addage is true in this instance too, "Only gamble with what you're prepared to lose".
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There are way more important things to worry about first.
After those aspects attractiveness and beauty are much more about a woman's confidence. How she feels about herself and how that comes across in her personality.
Having said that and as the hilarious Tim Minchin put it 'Fu** I love boob though' curvy through BBW all the way.
After those aspects attractiveness and beauty are much more about a woman's confidence. How she feels about herself and how that comes across in her personality.
Having said that and as the hilarious Tim Minchin put it 'Fu** I love boob though' curvy through BBW all the way.
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Well I agree with several things said above -
First - there shouldn't need to be rules or an agenda - do what feels right
If I *was* planning (see above) I'd go with the following:
Oral on her to climax
Oral on me to climax
Oral on her to climax (also my recovery time)
Full on Sex until she comes
Oral on me
I may be odd on this - would be interested to know - but I prefer oral to sex and cum much more readily this way - I think it's all in the brain and a BJ feels much more intimate to me - any thoughts?
First - there shouldn't need to be rules or an agenda - do what feels right
If I *was* planning (see above) I'd go with the following:
Oral on her to climax
Oral on me to climax
Oral on her to climax (also my recovery time)
Full on Sex until she comes
Oral on me
I may be odd on this - would be interested to know - but I prefer oral to sex and cum much more readily this way - I think it's all in the brain and a BJ feels much more intimate to me - any thoughts?
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For me, mental attraction and trust come first.
I love boobs - I'm definitely a boob man, and I'd go bigger rather than smaller every time up to a point. But rather than size I think it's about the proportion to the rest of the body. DDs on a size 6??
I've personally always preferred the short curvy Mediterranean type with a full bust and curvy hips but it's each to their own and anyone fitting the above list above to the letter wouldn't do it for me unless she was first smart, funny and kind.
I love boobs - I'm definitely a boob man, and I'd go bigger rather than smaller every time up to a point. But rather than size I think it's about the proportion to the rest of the body. DDs on a size 6??
I've personally always preferred the short curvy Mediterranean type with a full bust and curvy hips but it's each to their own and anyone fitting the above list above to the letter wouldn't do it for me unless she was first smart, funny and kind.
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Quote by LittleMissBitch
oh i disagree here. why not have it be the last guy you sleep with? and i for one had a really great experience that i do remember fondly and have given thought to. and for some it can fundamentally change you...its a big responsibility to take on.
my thought are it should be more than spreading beautiful legs and taking a deep breath shutting ur eyes and saying "ok just do it!". it should be about more than making some guy happy...it should be more than light hearted. it should be taken seriously, IMO, so my advice is to take a deep breath and decide for yourself what your first time means for you and what you want it to be. given randomly or will you make a memory that can make you smile when you are 41 like me..
Couldn't agree more - he MAY not be forever but if you go into it KNOWING he's not then why bother? Remember that sex is different from 'doing it'. You want to give him your mind as well as your body and importantly, trust that he's doing that too.
Trust is a massively important part in letting go IMHO.
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70% 
No way.
Your score indicates that your mind is on its way to true dirty status. You'vepassed the test, but there are some things you could work on. You appreciate dirty things and you wouldn't call your thoughts pure, but you haven't gone completely dirty. You don't have a hardtimethinking dirty,butyou're probably less driven to do so than someone with a true dirty mind.
I think those that know me may disagree ;)
No way.
Your score indicates that your mind is on its way to true dirty status. You'vepassed the test, but there are some things you could work on. You appreciate dirty things and you wouldn't call your thoughts pure, but you haven't gone completely dirty. You don't have a hardtimethinking dirty,butyou're probably less driven to do so than someone with a true dirty mind.
I think those that know me may disagree ;)
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This made me laugh. Thanks for sharing. Makes me remember....
How to impress a lady:
Listen to her,
Try to understand her,
Care for her,
Talk to her,
Spend quality time with her,
Remember little things she says,
Compliment her,
Sacrifice some time for her,
Comfort her,
Take the time to caress her.
How to impress a guy:
Show up naked,
Bring beer.
We men are such simple creatures
How to impress a lady:
Listen to her,
Try to understand her,
Care for her,
Talk to her,
Spend quality time with her,
Remember little things she says,
Compliment her,
Sacrifice some time for her,
Comfort her,
Take the time to caress her.
How to impress a guy:
Show up naked,
Bring beer.
We men are such simple creatures
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It's a double edged sword.
Not picky enough leads to to wasted time and effort. Too picky and, well, you know what they say "A life lived in fear is a life half lived"
As a nice guy who got turned down more than his fair share of times I can only say that now I'm older I'm glad I got turned down rather than having my heart trampled on more than it was. If you know at the start that there is no future - let the poor sap know up front - it might be a wrench to start but he'll apprecaite it in the end!
Not picky enough leads to to wasted time and effort. Too picky and, well, you know what they say "A life lived in fear is a life half lived"
As a nice guy who got turned down more than his fair share of times I can only say that now I'm older I'm glad I got turned down rather than having my heart trampled on more than it was. If you know at the start that there is no future - let the poor sap know up front - it might be a wrench to start but he'll apprecaite it in the end!
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Quote by Kimasa
My humble advice on this would be to address the situation away from the bedroom.
Whilst having a nice evening meal in a restaurant lean over and whisper in his ear "I'm feeling very naughty, I want you to cum in my mouth later. Have a think and later you can tell me what to do to please you. I can't wait to feel your cock exploding and your hot cum hitting the back of my throat".
Not that I've ever said that to a bloke before but a friend of a friend may have told me in the past that when you're feeling very naughty it works well to exercise the mind and imagination before the physical.
Without a doubt - this would work!!!!!