About
As my screen name implies, I believe a proper spanking should hurt. If done properly, the spankee should be left with a bottom that is uncomfortable to sit on and a tear stained face.
I only spank consenting women who ask me to spank them. I don’t spank men (sorry boys, there is a disciplinarian out there for you, I promise.)
Spankings are not the only form of pleasure that I seek though, spankings are just my main kink, I have many “kinks”, and I would love to share them with you.
As for my tastes in stories, I gravitate towards true tales, so if you message me, please feel free to tell me about one of your encounters, I would love to hear about it.
And if you were wondering about some of my other kinks…I would say that right up there with spanking, I love forcing orgasms. 😏
The majority of photos in my albums are things that I fancied and found through other Lush Members or Online. Some of them are mine though. 🫣
It seems the trendy thing to do is post your BDSM Test scores here, so here is my scores:
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Switch
100% Exhibitionist
98% Rigger
98% Voyeur
95% Non-monogamist
94% Sadist
94% Experimentalist
94% Brat tamer
93% Dominant
91% Degrader
86% Daddy/Mommy
74% Master/Mistress
57% Submissive
45% Owner
34% Primal (Hunter)
22% Rope bunny
16% Degradee
15% Vanilla
8% Brat
If you made it this far, my Avatar is indeed me giving a friend a well deserved and requested by her, spanking with my belt and the cover image is after I gave an “impromptu” paddling.
I guess tipping is now a thing in Lush. Though I do not expect any tips, if you do enjoy my content, please feel free to tip.
TL:DR Section
It seems odd to be writing this but here are the nitty gritty details about me that I seem to get asked all the time and it seems to be beneficial to put here.
1. Yes my relationship status is complicated. I am in a sexless relationship and have been for almost 10 years.
2. No she doesn’t know that I am here.
3. Yes I have played with other Friends outside of the confines of my complicated relationship. No she doesn’t know about it. I am sure she suspects it, but she doesn’t know anything concretely. If my activities are a problem for you, I understand and hold nothing against you for it, some people are not comfortable with it and that is ok. I still would like to be platonic friends. If you’re ok with my activities, cool! Know that because of my complicated relationship, I don’t drop everything to play. I am careful, for not just me, but for you. No one wants to be blindsided like that, so I play it close to the vest always.
4. I am a “Single Male” within the confines of the Swinger community.
5. I am not Bisexual. I am not offended by the presence of another “dick” in the room and/or incidental touching, but I am not into HJs, BJs, or ZJs.
6. I do not pay for companionship or interaction. I am here to play with friends, make new friends (whether we play or not), and have real relationships (virtual or otherwise). This does not mean that I won’t help friends out financially, because I will, but we have to be friends, like actual friends, and, this part is important, I have to have the financial means to do so at the time. Sometimes I can, sometimes I can’t. I have a house of 5 adults that I support (I am the only one gainfully employed, thus I am responsible financially for EVERYTHING in my household for 5 people. Shit ain’t cheap anymore). This applies to contact outside of Lush too, either in person or on another chat app/site.
7. I am absolutely abysmal at cyber sex or phone sex. If you are into that, cool, I am not a good cyber-fuck.
8. I am a switch. I sometimes like to take what I dish out. I love being pegged (among other things).
9. I am a very poor writer. If you’re looking for a James Patterson style erotic story, I’m not your man. I write stories about my adventures mainly. Most everything is a true account, with some embellishments to make a better story, but pretty much everything is a true tale.
10. Yes, I want to spank every one of my female friends that I have met here. Some of them I have spanked! So, if you want to, I will.
11. I travel for work, so I have friends all over. If you are a friend with me here, I will probably let you know that I will be in town.
12. If I message you asking if you want to meet for pie/coffee/drinks, I am not expecting anything other than pie/coffee/drinks.
13. I have ADHD, so I get all the fun quirks that come with that, like hyper focus. So if we are engaged in a conversation and I keep going down a path that you no longer want to travel…tell me, otherwise my ADHD brain will fixate on the path that we are on. It’s just a weird brain thing.
14. I am an open book for the most part, if you want to know, I’ll tell you.
15. I love looking at vaginas. All vaginas. I also love watching homemade porn. Some of the videos here that people are passing off as their own homemade porn bums me out. So if you really do have home porn, I would dig on it. 🥵🥵🥵
Interests
Seeking