Clum tastes great, fyi. also, good for you.
the number one thing, is communication. talk to her about what she wants, what she is comfortable with, what YOU are comfortable with. she might just be looking for a get together where you just take the lead, as you said. there is no one thing that subs need/want. it's like any sexual partner - everyone has unique tastes.
a real girlfriend finds you a Mistress, cause she knows you're into bdsm and she isn't.
Fuck. it's also the word for yesterday and the word for tomorrow.
What if Sheena was a glam rocker?
get your guldanged dates right, ye wee bastard bampots!