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Since we decided not to go with "The Buz" or "The Buzby" I decided that I'm going to break my rule of 'no mods' this once and award Buz an Honorary Awesome Badge seeing as how he inspired this program in the first place.

Buz joined us in March of 2011. He was all the things I couldn't conceive of in a friend; a 'good ol' southern boy' from Georgia who talked endlessly about his Georgia Bull "Dawgs" and tailgating. A jock. a frat boy working in the corporate world. And he kept sending me PMs wanting to get to know me. It was annoying!

I think it took about 3 PMs before I put down my preconceptions and realized that this guy was genuinely nice just for the sake of being nice. Looking around the site, I saw him reaching out to help people with stories and edits. He loves to read and write (he's good at it too), and spends a lot of time encouraging others. He's got a huge heart and regularly reaches out to people he knows are going through rough times, even when he's going through the same, and never asks for anything in return. Really, if i could have picked a big brother, it wouldn't have been a contest. he's up on the top of the list.

Please, feel free to show him the love here. I know I'm not alone from reading the comments in the other thread.

Once again, Congratulations Buz for being the nicest guy on Lush and for being totally AWESOME!
Quote by nicola
I am utterly surprised by the continued dialogue and fascination about co-written stories.

I agree partly with comments that several good authors, working on a piece, would be very unlikely to displace one of our site's rockstar writers (you know who they are). However, their effort, would likely better one written by a good author working alone.

Competitions are meant to be for individuals to compete against each other. They aren't meant to be collective efforts.

Head to any other story site, and you'll notice that every one of them, either directly stipulates, or heavily infers, that submissions should be individual efforts.

I have no desire to discuss the subject of co-written stories, further. They are not accepted in normal competitions, end of story.

The first post in this thread, has been amended, to sum up where we're at. I'll keep this thread open for comments for a few more days, then close it off.

Now you've all got me thinking it might be fun to have a competition specifically for co-written stories... Competition title ideas; "Ruined Online Relationships", "Forever Unfriended", "Never Again", "One's Company" "Creativity Quashed" "Coming Together" Joking aside, it could be fun if there's enough demand.



so, it's cool if we co-write comp stories then? that's what i got out of all this. honestly, i stopped paying attention after the first few words. all sort of blah blah blah after that.
Quote by MadMartigan


Do I gotta pay up front and can I use my body as payment instead? I'm super cheap.


letting that one go... smile
Quote by CumGirl


No, I can't sprite.

So you want to enter the competition 20 times with 20 different writing partners ... great.

And, I don't even mind if you win.


it just seems against the spirit of a comp. in all honesty, tho i know going into comps that i have a decent chance of placing, for me, it's never been about winning - i just like the challenge of writing something i might not have otherwise. personally, i like seeing a level playing field as much as possible, tho yeah, i know some of us have the advantage of experience going.
Quote by browncoffee
so if it was a comp. where you specifically HAD to have a co-author, I expect the prize would be split 50/50 so each party would have to be satisfied by their co-writer's contribution before entering a piece. I presume entries in the 'Masturbation' category would be disallowed *dab*


fuck that. i'm all about the negotiation. Now, if i'm writing with someone of your Caliber, 50/50 would work for me, but if i'm writing with Joe "i've never written a story in my life and this is my first week on lush" Dingle we're talking 95/5. and you can bet i'm going to co-author with as many writers as i can - DD, Liz, Ravenstar, Burquette, Buz... see if i can get my name on every single comp entry - nothing like free money smile

the point is... well, you can see why a co-authored comp might be a bad idea. smile
Quote by Liz


How does your suggestion of allowing co-authored stories address Nicola's concerns regarding new members without many friends or a support network having a fair shot at competitions?


Just so everyone knows, for a non-refundable fee of $25 i am willing to co-author comp stories. Just putting that out there.
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I came out when I was 14. My parents and twin brother took it very well seeing as how they said they pretty much knew all along, all I did was confirm it. My relatives also pretty much knew and were surprisingly relatively supportive, to verying degrees anyway. I had a ton of guy and girl friends before I came out, once I did come out all the guys who were truly my friends stayed my friends and the ones who were just my friends because they wanted me split, and all but 2 of my girlfriends dropped me immedietly. I was crushed for a while I lost so many friends until my brother convinced me anyone who didn't stay wasn't a friend anyway. My parents were initially just ok with it and over the last few years have grown to become very accepting and supportive and my brother always has been and still maintains he knew as soon as I did because we share our thoughts anyway.


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Might I offer a suggestion? LOL!



lol - loving this. smile
Quote by kinky_girl
I like the idea a lot. There are so many valuable members who go above and beyond. I think they deserve to be appreciated formally!

I'm backing the 'awesome' badge. I'd also like to throw in the 'gold star' badge in too. At school when you're well behaved, kind, do good work etc. you get a gold star. Much coveted, relatable and fitting for this I think, after all, it is to be awarded to the stars of Lush. Something simple like 'Lushest Lushie' could also do the job and reflects that this is tied to the core values of our little community. I shall keep thinking too!


where i grew up, gold star was a bit of a derivative. i do get the reference, but yeah, it would be weird for me to go with that one. that said, i like the 'star(s)' idea. Superstar might be kind of cool too. smile
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What's a "Malta?"


like a shake, only thicker?
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Milik and I were talking about a name for the badge. We feel if it is being made in Buz's honor. Why not name it "The Buz". I think it's a great name.


that was my original vision. Nicki and i had a convo about it, tho, and it was her call (and i agree with her, tho reluctantly lol) that tying it to a person might confuse someone who comes along in 4 years after Buz has gone on to be a famous novelist and goes, what the hell is The Buz? calling it something that tells you exactly what it is makes more sense.i mean, can you imagine if the Author's badge was named Fred? people would just go 'what the hell?' smile
Quote by hayley


Actually ... often the first ideas can be the best... and as I share your opinion of Buz why not keep it ... as the "BUZ Award"... or just "BUZ" ... with that awesome blue background.

Whatever you do not everyone will agree... but it's a neat thought.


Nicki very rightly pointed out that when Buz becomes president of Georgia in 2068, his association with such a badge might come back to haunt him. smile
as a test, i just sent one to Gav. let you all know how it turns out.
Quote by LYFBUZ
Cool idea. How about we call it the "ICE" badge? Reflective of a number of things such as 'cool' Lushie, like an iceberg 90% is what you don't see. (I think the award would usually go to someone who is not just superficially involved with Lush and had many contributions to Lush that many of us what not be aware of. I = Involved, C = Compassionate, E = Excellence?
and the badge is an iceberg, like this example but hopefully not so crudely rendered:






i kind of like this one. it's actually in the running.
Quote by Emerson501
This might be difficult to fit on a badge, but the word WAS invented because something was so great that there was not yet a word to describe the magnitude of its greatness.




lol - i like it, though it does sort of make me think of 'scum' and 'scrotum' a bit. smile
Quote by Wilful
I really want to see Hidden Figures.

Lion too. I'm just finishing up the book now.


both are at the top of my list too, as well as Fences and Moonlight (and legobatman when i need something a little lighter).
Now that i took my horse out of the race, this is getting kind of entertaining.
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Feel special. She's never asked ME to do that.


...yet
Quote by littleduchess
Love some of these ideas!

I thought maybe SuperLushious or SuperLush could work. It could apply to anything that makes them an exceptional Lush member.


what about supercalifragilisticexpialilushious? (sp?) lol smile
Quote by MsDirtyLittleSecret
or maybe just the "Heart" Award? Something simple to recognizes generosity and the goodness/kindness of their heart.


*nods* one of my thoughts was actually a simple heart, nothing more, nothing less. the word 'heart' is probably a better choice, tho. smile
Quote by MadMartigan


That's kind of the thing here. It's a good faith rule. It's not sports cheating where you can test for PEDs. You can't test for PEE (performance enhancing editors). Especially if it's just say, an offsite friend/SO, etc. So, the writers who do show good faith are subject to those who don't. Which renders the entire premise for the rule kind of... empty?

Like I said. If you've having someone craft your entire story, all one need do is look at past entries or recent stories. Vast changes in style show up. They do. Every writer has a style you can pick out from a crowd imo.

And I mean....You CAN supply someone a story idea too, but the writer still has to be able to use that story idea for something that's original.

I like having people look over my competition entries. I rarely if ever get an edit from those eyes. Usually I'm just asking an honest opinion if it's worth posting. Or if a title works. Or if a certain scene works as is. Usually they're Y/N answers and I'll go back and tinker.

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Anyway. It's not like I'll stop entering. I'm usually too busy to think up story ideas and competition prompts serve as a drug to spark the imagination.

Just think the rule is kinda meaningless. The argument of good editor/bad editor is kind of moot when you have good writers/bad writers.



actually, if you could pee in your usb port for me and then hit send, i'd be eternally grateful. smile
Quote by MsTrib
Felt like it was, but maybe I'm just a bit tetchy today. Apologies if I'm misguided
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my whole weeks been like that. only one day is pretty damn reasonable if you ask me. smile
lol - i'm going to share this, cause i hope people will see the humorous side of it and not take it wrong - despite my hopefully somewhat rational responses to these kind of threads, what goes down in print is a far cry from what comes out of my mouth at times, for example.

fuck them, fuck them all, ungrateful little bitches, they don't like the way the comps are run, fuck them all, no more comps. i'll show them, show them all, make them sorry they ever pissed me off. do they not know who i am? i am SPRITE! queen of the universe! i'll delete every fucking comp story here, ban all winners, find out where they live and burn their homes to the ground and piss on the ashes! I WILL ERASE THEM FROM THE EARTH! THEY WILL RUE THIS DAY!!!! *thunder clap*

that said, we really do want to make these accessible to EVERYone, no matter what their 'talent level'. we want it to be a fun thing, and yes, we do take all the comments into consideration and yes, i do bug Nicky about reading the feed back (when she hasn't blocked me, something that happens on a regular basis). so basically, we'll see. normally, i am not involved in comp stuff - i don't judge, don't come up with themes, any of it, and yes, i will be upfront, i have had people point out typos for me in the past and it's been helpful. never had a full on editor, but then, i don't normally for any of my stories. still, a second pair of eyes has benefited me from time to time.

hope this helps with some of the comments?
Quote by Verbal


I think this is a great idea for a badge. And I like Frabjous! Callooh! Callay!


reason #43 why i love you. smile
Quote by MostPreciousLittle
Great idea! Has anyone mentioned me yet?



lol - not even going there. i'm already putting up the walls for when i pick 'the wrong person' or i don't pick 'the right person'. i mean, my hate mail folder is already taking up an entire server all by it's self.
Quote by Verbal


I think this is a great idea for a badge. And I like Frabjous! Callooh! Callay!

Since it is kind of a whimsical award, perhaps it doesn't need to be the same every time. You could change the name every time! Or ask the winner what they'd like to call it. The winner gets to name the badge!

That probably makes way too much work for Gav, a new badge to design every month. But I love the idea of a sort of randomly named badge showing up for people who are good citizens of the Lush community.


*nods* Gav will kill me - he's already tried several times, but i think he might put extra effort into it if i did that to him smile
Quote by MsDirtyLittleSecret
you could just use a synonym for awesome too. Like, marvelous or wondrous.


Frabjous also comes to mind! smile
Quote by browncoffee
dear me. this has turned nasty. perhaps i'll be the only entrant in the future. will this mean i get all three prizes?


am i alone i seeing the irony of trying to launch a 'most inspirational member' of the month award during a week when i've seen some threads just take a complete down turn? funny thing is, we get complaints if people use an editor for help, so we ask them not to, and so we start getting complaints about not being able to use an editor for help. not really sure what the middle ground is...
Quote by MsDirtyLittleSecret
Xenia is the Ancient Greek concept of hospitality. You could call it the Xenia award? (Just throwing ideas out there, lol)

Kindness, friendliness and generosity are all synonyms for hospitality so this could be another idea.


lol - i love the idea, but i do have to say, first thing i thought of was Xenia, Warrior Princess. smile keep 'em coming, got several days before i need to settle on something, tho i think we're going to keep Liz's suggestion of a unique color. i quite like the idea of it standing out a bit. smile