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Quote by MsDirtyLittleSecret
Xenia is the Ancient Greek concept of hospitality. You could call it the Xenia award? (Just throwing ideas out there, lol)

Kindness, friendliness and generosity are all synonyms for hospitality so this could be another idea.


lol - i love the idea, but i do have to say, first thing i thought of was Xenia, Warrior Princess. smile keep 'em coming, got several days before i need to settle on something, tho i think we're going to keep Liz's suggestion of a unique color. i quite like the idea of it standing out a bit. smile
btw, this is not going to be based on things we already put out badges for. it's not for most EPs, or stories, or views, or stuff like that. in fact, you don't even need to be a writer to win it. wanted to make that clear. smile
Ok, been working on a new program since it's either that or lay in bed and watch game shows. this one, i'm going to need a little help with from anyone interested. here's a little history and the premise.

I was looking for a way to thank Buz. he's probably one of the nicest guys on lush. he reads stories, gives great comments, offers advice and help, he' a genuinely lovely person to work with, and really, i can't say enough good things about him. while i've been sick he's been sending me daily PMs of encouragement, something that really has made a difference in my life, so i thought, he needs to have a 'nicest guy on lush award'. i wanted to call it The Buz. we're not, for reasons that make a lot of sense, but still, in my head, it's gonna be called The Buz. lol

so, here's how it works. it's a little like the mod of the month, only there's no cash prize. sorry, but that's just not doable. there WILL be a unique badge, and i'll be doing a write up of the person chosen and people can add to that if they'd like.

right now, the project name is "the intangibles award". basically, it's not based on one thing, but i'll be picking (and it's more likely going to be weekly, or bi weekly then it is monthly) someone based on a variety of things. what they add to the site, be it inspirational, generous, helpful, funny, thoughtful, etc. i just thought it would be a nice way to give back to a lot of people who make lush what it is - there's a lot of you out there.

just so you know, it's not going to be mods, btw. we have our own thing. that's not what this is all about. hopefully, this will be taken in the spirit that it's meant to be.

now... i need a little help from all of you. first, i need a good badge name. i thought about Spirit, but that's too close to my user name, and this is not all about me, so i tossed that. Tangerine sounds a bit like Intangible, but might be a bit too.... fruity. so please, post or PM suggestions and i'll give credit to whoever comes up with the best name.

secondly, i have a list of people i think deserve it, and it's pretty solid, but eventually, i'll run out of names and while i keep an eye on things, i do miss stuff. also, i'm trying to avoid favoritism. so... if you think someone deserves this, PM me with their user name and a short write up of what they bring to Lush so i can put them on my radar. i don't want someone slipping through the cracks simply because i don't run in the same circle. i don't do chat rooms, for instance, and there are probably some great people who make those a positive experience.

this will probably kick off sometime this week or this coming weekend - i need to get Gav off his lazy ass to create a new badge, after all. i swear to god, the man does nothing around here but eat and fuck. *sighs*

hopefully, this will be fun - i know i'm looking forward to it.

xo
rachel
Quote by Burquette
You know if mods aren't allowed to have outbursts in the forums, and they're expected to explain why a story did/didn't get a RR or EP, all while taking it in stride while they're called unfairly judged (or worse) in competition entries...all this without compensation, why the fuck would anyone want this job?

And if nobody wants the job, who will you bitch about when the world doesn't go as you want it to?


*post of the day*
Quote by adele


but we don't know that at all. we still don't know who closed it or why. sprite unlocked it cause she could not find the reason why. and for all we know, the person who locked it in the first place could come back and lock it again, or as sprite said (and yes I know it was in jest) she was just gonna randomly lock and unlock it.

I am happy it is unlocked. I still think the transparency was sadly lacking on this issue, and that lack led to a lot of unnecessary posting as well as rudeness on the part of some people that should know better. let's hope next time, any similar situation is handled better by those supposedly in charge.


I also choose to accept this as an apology.
Quote by adele


you could still be privy to the inner workings of Lush, so even if you personally could not carry out a threat, you could have knowledge that a threat could be carried out by someone else
. but you certainly just now put yourself in the same league with the rest of the mods, even if you no longer are one.


anyone on my friend's list could be privy to the inner workings of lush. *que sinister music*.

hell, anyone who asks me could be. it's not like it's some complicated machine. people post, people chat, people send in stories. here's the deal. Milik and i don't always see eye to eye. it's just a thing that happened. that said, i will be the first to admit that the man's integrity is above reproach. he wouldn't pull a cheap stunt like that, not even threaten it. anyone who knows anything about him knows that, so really, you might want to lay off that line of accusation. btw, that's not a threat, just a thought, cause in the long run, it's just going to make you look silly.

ps. we stopped employing the men in black after the 'Marylbone incident' of '09.
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First voice of reason I have heard.


ditto.
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even without the or else, "Better leave it alone and move on" isn't exactly friendly sounding (or perhaps he thinks he is Obi Wan Kenobi, and is trying to control my mind with the force, LOL). it was not posed as a question, but rather as a statement and I took it literally, something apparently only milik is allowed to do.

I was prepared to just leave this thread alone, as the thread that prompted this was unlocked, but when mods continue saying things like only an asstard would think he was serious, a definite reference to me, and another mod agreeing with that and adding only an idiot would have thought what milki said was a threat (again me, and perhaps a few others) well, now I am getting a bit outraged. this is not mod-like behavior. I might expect it from some posters, but not from the mods. they are supposed to set a good example. I do think a few of them owe me (and by extension, the others that agreed with me) an apology.


i'm sorry i implied that you're an asstard.
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run for cover before it's too late! the mod squad is gonna getcha, girl!
Quote by Dani


This is also an important point.

The notion that because someone is a mod, they should staunch their self-expression is absurd. As is the notion that any negative opinion or criticism is some sort of abuse of power.

There are quite a few people who I think are turd jugglers. I should be able to express that and have it be a reflection of me. I don't think it's too much to ask for someone to suss out the difference.


no, see, it's cool to censor mods. that's different.
Quote by adele



I take back my adios for one more post. between several mods (and yes I know milik is no longer a mod, but his statement was supported by some), I have gotten condescension, threatened (whether it was disguised as humor or not, it was am implied threat in my perception, and perception is everything) and now am being called an asstard. Not once, have I called anyone a name, and i do resent being called one now by someone that represents, or is supposed to represent Lush. very nice.


i never called you an asstard. i simply said that only an asstard would assume he was threatening you. i had too much respect to actually believe for a moment that you truly thought you were being threatened and took it as a humorous statement meant to cool things down before they got heated up.

btw, as you pointed out, i'm on leave, i don't represent shit right now.
Quote by adele
And they say I got off track..... oh well, it's unlocked , at least until the mod that locked it in the first place or some other mod decides to lock it again. till then, adios.


i've decided to lock and unlock it randomly until Nicky yells at me. hopefully she's not back from holiday for a while.
Quote by Milik_the_Red


Nonesense. I made no such statement. If I did, I'd have NO problem in saying so. It isn't subtext, it's just being paranoid. Nymph was exactly right, but this is what I for displaying what loyalty I have left? Geez!


psst. Clum knew that. he was being facetious. for the record, i appreciate what you said, and anyone reading a threat into it is kind of an asstard.
Quote by clum




just blew your mind, right? BOOM! *drops mic* outta here. fucking pills fucking me up big time.
Quote by clum


The "Or else the Big Bad Mods will get you" was implicit in what Milik wrote. It's called subtext. Geez!


yeah, but what about the subtext implicit in the subtext?
call out the goon squad, cause we're coming to town, beep beep.

beep beep.

fucking miss Bowie. gotta admit, tho, best rock and roll exit ever.
Quote by BethanyFrasier




You sound like Trump... "No one even cares about seeing my tax returns" ...so we never see the evidence of massive and illegal conflicts of interest, and collusion with an enemy dictator.

In this age of cover-ups and secret dealings of those in power, we are subjected to the same lack of transparency on Lush? This is the kind of abuse of power that disillusions and disgruntles the average person towards those in 'unquestioned' power.

Count my bonnet as wasped too!




lol - what kind of power do you guys think we wield around here? that started out as rhetorical, but no, now i'm kind of interested in hearing a reply. smile
Quote by noll


LOL. You really don't see it when you do it yourself, do you?


**thread locked due to plague of rhinos destroying several of our Pheonix, AZ servers. in order to keep service going to chatrooms and 'how big is your cock' threads, something had to go. service will resume as soon as possible. thank you for your understanding**
Quote by noll


This site runs on user generated content. The stories are most important of course, but the forums are user generated content as well. Content for which people come here. Users invest time, and some even money, in this site. If there's a good reason to close a thread it should be fairly easy to state the reason, right? Some transparency might even take away the perceived notion of censorship that seems to plague the forums every now and then.
A statement as to why a thread is closed can also be a good moment to again mark the boundaries of what is and what isn't allowed. That does not work if people have to guess for the reason.

Let me know if you find that other thread.


we ran out of space. it was either that, or the 'show us your boobs' thread. judgement call.
Quote by BethanyFrasier




You sound like Trump... "No one even cares about seeing my tax returns" ...so we never see the evidence of massive and illegal conflicts of interest, and collusion with an enemy dictator.

In this age of cover-ups and secret dealings of those in power, we are subjected to the same lack of transparency on Lush? This is the kind of abuse of power that disillusions and disgruntles the average person towards those in 'unquestioned' power.

Count my bonnet as wasped too!




the Russians locked it.
Quote by simplyjohn
Boxers. Briefs do not have enough room for my tackle.


Quote by John_Doe
Just asking a quickie, but does that rule also mean that when you submit a story that the Mod who reads it and approves it doesn't make any edits to your story - even just cutting a word or two or changing words, leaving it completely untouched but just making sure the content is within the rules applied in the story competition set down, as that is a form of someone else editing your story?

Apologies, I just don't think that small part has not been made quite clear about someone, besides yourself, editing your story? I assume that remains in force, that a Mod can make very minor edits if needed still?

Thanks for answering smile


we've always had a strict rule about editing/modding stories. we don't do it. period. we'll let an author know there are issues, but it's up to them to fix them.
Quote by NymphWriter


What the fuck does this mean? What does it matter... I blocked him... & now he's gone. Everyone is much better off.


*peruses your use of ampersands carefully* or is he...
Quote by Dani
I don't like it, either.

Since we can already disable it to just our friends, why not take it a step further and allow us to disable it in totality?


it will make it harder for me to monitor you if you do that. okay, 10 minutes to eat lunch is more than enough. get back to work.
anyone who doubts that i am actually a viking warrior does not know me well.
Quote by nicola


My mother is reading one of his most recent books at the moment. She says it's a brilliant read (I think it's entitled, "New Life Stories", or it may be his autobiography). I'm going to borrow it once she's finished.

He's perhaps the most accomplished narrator / broadcaster, to have ever graced our screens and airways. Big call I know!


i own a copy of The Secret Life of Birds, both the book and the DVD series. It's a wonderful series - so fascinating. i have always been a huge fan of nature documentaries and he, of course, is the emperor of narrative. he lends so much gravitas to any subject he is involved in.