like a few others, my wife and i have a similar stance on sleeping with others. we have a somewhat open marriage which means, if one of us plans on fucking someone else, we discuss it with each other before it happens and, if the other vetos it, then it doesn't happen, simple as that. it's only cheating if you're doing it behind someone's back and if that happened, i think the consequences would be more than either of us want to experience, so we just don't go there.
