Quote by JamesLlewellyn
Rach, I'm straight, and always have been. I grew up steeped in the "gays are different and bad" tradition, and had the usual concerns, heard and told the usual anti-gay jokes, and was fundamentally afraid that I'd be exposed to gay men.
Then I met Marshall Goldman at university.
We were staging a production of "The Wizard of Oz". I had the title role – which caused one of my friends to say, "You're playing Dorothy??"
Marshall was doing the makeup, and as the Wizard, I went through a number of makeup changes, so we worked closely together. Marshall was also out of the closet, and a prominent member of the Gay Liberation Front at my uni. He was also incredibly funny, and just all-around fun to be with. And he liked my taste in clothes – he said I screamed.
As we worked together on the production, I relaxed and found that here was a gay man that I was glad to know, and happy to call my friend.
And that was about all it took. I never again felt threatened by gays and was much more open-minded afterwards.
Recently, my university, in their alumni magazine (sent to shake down alums for money) had an article about the GLF. I wrote in to tell them about my experience with Marshall, and to comment that the GLF had not merely been about liberating gays, but also straights, and that I was grateful to Marshall and the GLF for my own awakening.
I got a very nice reply from the editor. They published my letter, but they also told me that Marshall died several years ago. It hurt.
I stand with my gay & other friends.
everyone's situation is different. i was lucky, my family were very cool about it when i came out...
So... I'm dating Kate... like, seriously... i'm gay...
no duh. and thank god. your taste in men is horrendous.
seriously, i think that they liked her better than they did me - like FINALLY we get a daughter/sister that doesn't kind of suck