something that i feel the need to add. i've been pretty careful about not posting in this particular thread much for the simple reason that it's a pretty emotional topic for me and i think that, at times, our logic goes right out the window and we simply react. i have real issues with the spat of hatred that the Trans community has been dealing with - a natural reaction, being human, is to lash back at anyone not give their 100% support to anyone labeling themselves as Trans, gender fluid, non-binary, etc. I don't think that furthers the debate much, honestly.
that said, i do have to wonder why people can't simply say 'hey, i don't get it, it doesn't apply to me, but i don't like the idea of anyone having to deal with hate or discrimination, and who am i to judge what they feel is hurtful and what isn't. also, think about it, when you're being assaulted on a daily basis with verbiage and actions (In 2023, so far, anti-trans bills continue to be introduced across the country seeking to block trans people from receiving basic healthcare, education, legal recognition, and the right to publicly exist. here's the count as of today: 549 bills in 49 states. 71 passed. 376 active. 102 failed) it's easy to see why people who ARE affected are very sensitive to anything that can be viewed as Anti-tran. i mean, just mention gun control and the gun folk get all whipped up and angry - how is that okay and this isn't?