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Her Royal Spriteness
i could very easily write pages and pages based on this question, especially since the two people who have taught me the most about myself as both a sub and a switch have already chimed in, two whom i am honored to call friends as well as Mistresses past and present. really, tho, in my mind, there's really only one important thing here, and it has nothing to do with training. whether you are a Dom, a sub, or a switch, it's all about giving the other what they need. it's selflessness, and not selfishness. surprisingly, it's even more important in a Dom/me - that desire to give your pet pleasure, to take care of her needs above yours, to keep her safe and protected and happy. i have never done any kind of training. i identify as a sub, but the same tendencies within me that allow me to be a sub, also allow me to be a switch on occasion.
remember this - if anyone wants to become a Domme as a power trip, or they think it's just about sex, they're doing it wrong. it's not all about having someone under your thumb and using them - it's taking care of their needs, usually before your own. being a Dom/me is much harder than being a sub. subs simply react. Dom/mes need to guide and be responsible and to be in control at all times. i have nothing but respect for good Dom/mes, and zero for a bad one.
remember this - if anyone wants to become a Domme as a power trip, or they think it's just about sex, they're doing it wrong. it's not all about having someone under your thumb and using them - it's taking care of their needs, usually before your own. being a Dom/me is much harder than being a sub. subs simply react. Dom/mes need to guide and be responsible and to be in control at all times. i have nothing but respect for good Dom/mes, and zero for a bad one.
Her Royal Spriteness
Quote by gunshopgirl
Maybe I'm weird or paranoid but I clean the litterbox often. I never know when he's going to want to mess with it and I don't want him finding cat food!! If we didn't do it very often that would be different but he'd play 2x a day or more if he could.
if you're putting cat food in your vagina, yeah, you really would want to douche regularly.
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Quote by ChrissieLecker
It's not that, it's us singing "moonlight shadow" and, uhm, mooning the audience in between which has me concerned. You do remember that, don't you?
why? if i recall your moon got a standing ovation... the rest of the night is, admittedly, blurry.
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Quote by ChrissieLecker
Uhm. *blushes* You? Please don't tell everyone what we did with that left-over cucumber and the hot chillie sauce later... *blushes even more* *hides*
you're embarrassed about making doing a re-enactment of a Gwar show with veggie puppets? wow... and i thought i knew you.
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Quote by ukperv
I had a dream the other night where I pissed all over my sister in law and I never really thought about it before, but it was extremely arousing.
Now my sister in law is very attractive, but for obvious reasons i'd much rather attempt this with my wife.
Any ladies in here ever been pissed on? Did you want to do it? How did your partner pursuade you?
I need help on how to hopefully persuade her to give it a go
simply sit down with her and tell her about your fantasy and ask if it's something she'd be willing to experiment with. she's either willing or not. if she's not, something like water sports is probaby not something you can talk her into.
Her Royal Spriteness
The free bird leaps
on the back of the wind
and floats downstream
till the current ends
and dips his wings
in the orange sun rays
and dares to claim the sky.
But a bird that stalks
down his narrow cage
can seldom see through
his bars of rage
his wings are clipped and
his feet are tied
so he opens his throat to sing.
The caged bird sings
with fearful trill
of the things unknown
but longed for still
and his tune is heard
on the distant hill
for the caged bird
sings of freedom
The free bird thinks of another breeze
and the trade winds soft through the sighing trees
and the fat worms waiting on a dawn-bright lawn
and he names the sky his own.
But a caged bird stands on the grave of dreams
his shadow shouts on a nightmare scream
his wings are clipped and his feet are tied
so he opens his throat to sing
The caged bird sings
with a fearful trill
of things unknown
but longed for still
and his tune is heard
on the distant hill
for the caged bird
sings of freedom.
~
thank you for your inspiration.
on the back of the wind
and floats downstream
till the current ends
and dips his wings
in the orange sun rays
and dares to claim the sky.
But a bird that stalks
down his narrow cage
can seldom see through
his bars of rage
his wings are clipped and
his feet are tied
so he opens his throat to sing.
The caged bird sings
with fearful trill
of the things unknown
but longed for still
and his tune is heard
on the distant hill
for the caged bird
sings of freedom
The free bird thinks of another breeze
and the trade winds soft through the sighing trees
and the fat worms waiting on a dawn-bright lawn
and he names the sky his own.
But a caged bird stands on the grave of dreams
his shadow shouts on a nightmare scream
his wings are clipped and his feet are tied
so he opens his throat to sing
The caged bird sings
with a fearful trill
of things unknown
but longed for still
and his tune is heard
on the distant hill
for the caged bird
sings of freedom.
~
thank you for your inspiration.
Her Royal Spriteness
i'm offended that it's assumed that, because of my gender, i can't throw. i can probably out throw 50% of the guys here, maybe more. also, why do men have to be tougher than girls? i'm not into stereotypes. i know some pretty damn tough girls. i know some pretty damn tough men. i know some very gentle souls of both genders.
Her Royal Spriteness
things i will do without asking a writer's permission (i'm a mod). fix obvious misspellings or typos. fix obvious incorrect punctuation. the alternative is to send the story back with an list of every single instance those changes need to take place in the hopes that they will fix them themselves.
things i will not do. replace or change words or alter their story in any way - i might give suggestions, but that's it. this is pretty much standard for all the mods. we'll fix little mistakes. we won't do heavy edits or change your story in any way, shape, or form without permission.
that's an official stance, btw.
things i will not do. replace or change words or alter their story in any way - i might give suggestions, but that's it. this is pretty much standard for all the mods. we'll fix little mistakes. we won't do heavy edits or change your story in any way, shape, or form without permission.
that's an official stance, btw.
Her Royal Spriteness
Quote by stephanie
I Remind, (if I need to?) that for those following the Comp Entries there ARE entries under both "Supernatural" *AND* ALSO "Fantasy/Sci-Fi" categories.
MOST entries so far have been 'filed' under SUPERNATURAL but there are some cracker contenders under FANTASY/SCI-FI...
For those who are following the Comp, if you CLICK on the Comp Announcement on the Home Page and scroll down, you will see an index of stories submitted so far.
xx Steph
Nicola: "They knew that..."
Me: "Fuck You..."
when are you going to submit one, Steph?
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Quote by Weavindreams
Sorry to have ruffled your feathers, that was neither my meaning or intent, nor was I trying to be critical of you and your efforts. I was in reference to those who ARE caught using numerous phony profiles. At no time did I suggest that you should sort thru profiles one by one. Because, I DO well realize that it would be a monumental task. Again, please accept my apology for failing to make myself clear on those points. That said, it in NO WAY alters my opinion of those who DO utilize methods sufficiently underhanded and deceitful that they are clearly proscribed in the TOS. Or, my opinion in regard to those who are already SERIAL offenders. Thank you for the job that you and the other mods DO in trying to deal with the multitude of tasks this site necessitates.
To the lady below her, the question was asked, after trying to give SOME insight with regard to that I stated my opinion regarding individuals who are multi count offenders. I'm sorry if reading it was either a waste of your time or boring for you.
fyi - anyone caught using multiple profiles (and we do catch them quite often) has all but one deleted and is given a warning. usually that solves the issue. next time they do it they take a short vacation. if there's a third time, they're out of here.
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Quote by Possibly
1. I would love to see a grouping or list feature for friends. When sending PMs, we have the option of sending a mass PM or sending messages by typing in members one at a time. It would be nice to be able to create lists or groups.
2. Also, is it possible to add a feature on the 'follow author' selection that allows the reader to select whether they want to follow an author's stories, poetry, or both?
Thanks!
if i recall, this one is already being looked into by Gav as something we'd like to implement - not sure where it stands at present?
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Quote by Weavindreams
ct ANYONE who chooses to defend such obvious scamming or it's perpetrators as I suspect them of having their own ulterior motives for so doing.
Sadly, the mods seem to be considerably more lenient in dealing with these people than I would. In my own opinion, EACH bogus profile should be viewed as a separate violation of the TOS. IF Admin wants to clean up the needless drama and conflict around the site their FIRST move should be to get rid of as many of this variety of trouble making scum, as they can as fast as they can! Too many GOOD people have already been run off of the site in anger, sorrow and/ or disgust by their ruthless shananigans!
plenty of people who aren't fake stir up enough drama to keep us busy. also, there are 242,866 members here. if you'd like, we could to thru their profiles one by one instead of verifiying stories? this is an adult web site. we kind of expect people to behave like adults; we can't police the internet. that's really impossible to do, even if we had the time and resources to do so. now, if you'll excuse me i have 34 stories to go read and verify.
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Quote by knobby
Cause in the end you are no joke
And as you can see
I'm a nice kinda bloke
Standing firm like a tree
So I gave you a poke
I don't charge a fee
Your fires I could stoke
And it's absolutely free
"and its absolutely free"
was what he told me, but we all know
that everything comes with a price
i am not old enough to recall
but i read about it all
in the 60s fee love was all the rage
now they keep it in a cage
and only let it loose on saturdays
to prowl the streets
like some age worn beast
so sad he wasn't invited to the feast
shot gun wedding, what a way to go
no wonder the bride wore black.