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best advice i can give is be patient. don't try to her them how to feel, to get over it, or push them in any way. when she's done, things will return to normal. for now, accept that this is the way it is and tell her that you understand and it's ok. a few months is a very short time for a loss that's so difficult to endure. give her the space to grieve without feeling guilty about it.
Her Royal Spriteness
Quote by NickiC
My thoughts too. I don't understand why anyone cares who marries who. I was so happy when my friends could marry because quite honestly their relationships are a lot more solid than many straight people I know. When it was up for the vote in Maryland and Washington I cringed at first because I don't think the general population has the right to vote on other people's civil rights. Luckily, people came through and they did the right thing.
One thing most people don't realize is there is a disturbingly high rate of gay hate crimes or especially transgendered murders that the police don't take seriously. On another forum I belonged to a person with a blog asked me to look at her blog. There was a section on unsolved transgendered murders and the rate was so high I was shocked. Family members even sometimes knew who did it and tried to get justice but nothing.
When I decided to get more active on this issue it was after I saw a documentary on the Matthew Shepard story. I asked a gay male friend who is older than me and he said it was a case that galvanized the community and made a lot of people sit up think. That of course is an extreme case as is the Brandon Teena case. How about that poor man who was beaten and then urinated on by a group of teens.
However, there are the little ways and the snubs that are most insidious. Not many people are homicidal maniacs but there are people who do things that make life harder.
FBI statistics:1,318 hate crimes against a member of the LGBT community. That is 1,318 too many.
i remember the Matthew Shepard murder well. it happened just shortly after i realized i like girls as much as i did boys. it was enough to deal with my sexuality (i was 16 at the time) without having the threat of violence hanging over it... his murder affects me to this day - those two events will be forever tied together for me. Gwen Aruajo should be mentioned as well - her case was similar to Teena's. a transexual murdered at a party by three guys. it happened in Newark, CA. it would be nice to be able to be open and free about who you are, but it's not always safe. coming out takes a great degree of courage and bravery. just look at our culture. 'you're so gay' is an insult. 'faggot' is thrown around still, a term i equate with the N word and it's acceptable. we live with that stuff daily. in some parts of the country it's oppressive.
so yeah, coming out IS a big deal, at least to those coming out.
Her Royal Spriteness
she does have nice nails. 
btw, when i was her age i would have (did do) stuff like that, only i wasn't famous - that's really the key here - EVERYthing she does is public domain. how many of us at that age, given a spotlight, wouldn't have gone crazy and done shit like that, just cause we could? let her have her fun - it's not hurting anyone.
btw, when i was her age i would have (did do) stuff like that, only i wasn't famous - that's really the key here - EVERYthing she does is public domain. how many of us at that age, given a spotlight, wouldn't have gone crazy and done shit like that, just cause we could? let her have her fun - it's not hurting anyone. 
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Quote by NickiC
I never have been. In my mind it is for the following reasons:
I am bisexual and I don't look like what the common stereotype of a lesbian "looks" like. There is nothing butch about me so I walk around and no one would guess my orientation.
I have always lived in socially liberal communities with large, thriving, powerful LGBT communities.
My work environment is extremely open minded and gay people thrive there too.
Age. The LGBT community had already done some hard work on this issue.
However, I know it exists. I know people go through it and I wanted to maybe shed some light on this issue so that people who say that it doesn't are proven wrong. Maybe someone will learn something. I have heard people say that gay people are too pushy or why can't they just keep quiet and in the shadows like they used to be. I have also heard that the thought that gays have been given enough now so they should be happy with what they have.
yeah. kind of like... why are you complaining? we feed you bread and water and suddenly you want a hamburger, right? thing is, we're not asking for more rights then anyone else. we're simply asking for the SAME rights as everyone else. if that's being pushy or having a 'gay agenda', ok, i'm pushy. it took me years to finally be "allowed" to get married to the woman i love. was that really asking so much? tell me, who does it hurt? is anyone worse off because we are legally married?
Her Royal Spriteness
ok, not really, but seriously, all you writers? we've been juggling stories like mad lately with trying to do holiday stuff and all that - i have people that are spending xmas eve trying to get just a few more verified - it would mean a lot to us if you, all you writers, could just take a few days off and hold onto those stories so the the team has a chance to breath and enjoy christmas as well - 48 hours, even - everyone just take two days and not send in a new story? we'd be ever so grateful. thank you and merry christmas!!
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