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Quote by SensualRose



Thank you and yes it does ....kinda smile
Seems you have a great spouse that is very understanding and lovingheart

I still don't see how a sub can be truly 100% submissive to their Dom with a spouse at home or how a Dom can truly be a Dom when their sub has a husband or wife. Or vice versa so I am thinking that maybe the BEST Dom/sub relationship is with spouses or single Dom/subs ...not saying yours or others aren't special I am just thinking that to truly experience the full pleasure and happiness and love of a bdsm relationship both shouldn't be committed to others. Its just my own opinion and I have never experience it myself, I just have seen a lot of them with spouses involved. I hope I haven't offended you or anyone in my opinion or question ...thank you so much for answering smile


hmm... as the the 100%, when we were together online, it was always 100%. and sometimes that would bleed into off line stuff, if there was some sort of 'an assignment' but normally, no. when i signed off, Sprite the sub sort of got put away and 'normal' life resumed. in all honesty, my wife and i tried doing the Domme/sub thing at one point in our relationship, and the concept of doing it 24/7 100% is just a little beyond me. i know some do, but i just can't wrap my head around being in that place every moment of every day.

i would have to agree that we're unique in this, i think, and that yes, it's probably best if it's two single people - the commitment level would probably be higher. also, i'd have to assume that some who do this and are married do NOT tell their significant others and do so in secret?

oh, and don't even trip about offending me. i like good discussion. smile
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Trinket dragged me into this... apparently she's hot for me, which i understand. *clear throat, looks at all the 'offerings, zeros in on Liz* is that a strap on in your leather trousers, or are you just happy to see me?

seriously, i'm married. i don't know HOW to flirt anymore.
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Quote by Dudealicious


If you're presuming, why answer seeing as you don't know?


so, we're only able to answer if we're certain we have the ultimate defining answer? Damn. too much pressure. thanks for putting me in my place, dude. smile

ok, that out of the way...

i'm married to a wonderful woman. before we were married, i had an online Mistress for close to 2 years. it was something that we discussed as a couple and she was ok with as long as i kept her in the loop with what was going on. it allowed me to get a side of me out in a safe enviornment with someone we both trusted and felt comfortable with that went beyond the boundries of what she was/is comfortable with.

would i have done this without her knowledge as well as her permission? no. would i have stopped if she'd asked? yes. am i glad she never did? yes. the thing is, my Mistress was respectful of my RL relationship and knew that, ultimately, it came first - in other words, she did what any GOOD Domme would do - looked out for her sub's best interests. we remain friends - in fact, she's one of my best friends on Lush.

hope that gives you a little insight?
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Her Royal Spriteness
Quote by Buz


I want my Liz Badge!


i have one - it's in a special place, tho, where not everyone can see it...
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Quote by Autumn17
I no longer have a commentator badge, no big deal. It looks like everyone else's is gone as well.


good eye, Autumn, mine is gone as well - looks like a glitch... GAV! get your stormtroopered butt over here on the double! badges is important! *gets out the light saber and goes a-hunting for our resident techy*
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Book marks this thread for later, having had a LOT of experience on the subject and needing to go make dinner and do stuff - promise to get back to it later - as SWW says, an excellent question.
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Quote by Liz


I know someone with over 1,000 - she's a feisty one


*mumbles about sassy english bus dodging lesbians and goes back to being anti-social*
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Quote by gav
Trying to retro fit these kind of limits is always going to be hard *sigh*

Reducing the amount of activity displayed isn’t going to help. In order to show the most recent activity we need to aggregate the activity of ALL friends then slice the top records.

Perhaps 200 was a little optimistic  Maybe a cap that would not affect any of our current users but would at least give an upper bounds and deterministic performance. I think 1000 is reasonable.

I bet there isn’t a social site out there that has unlimited friends. Facebook has 5,000 but they have 180k servers and thousands of programmers





umm... lol - i DO feel for you Gav, but yeah, seriously, i passed teh 1000 mark a long time ago. i'd be happy to weed it down to that, but still, you're killing me here! smile would it help if i sent you more photos? i have some of me with a light saber. that's it, just me and a light saber. and a smile. smile
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Quote by overmykneenow


Having Grooveshark play automatically when you visit your profile is just downright rude IMO. I wish there was a setting on here to block it completely.



that one annoys me as well, since i usually have my own music playing when i'm cruising lush and it's jarring to have something else suddenly playing over the top of it.
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Quote by gav
Another performance tweak I'm working on is capping the number of friends you can add. At the moments its unlimited, which can open up a world of pain trying to aggregate your activity feeds. All the cool sites are doing it, FB and Twitter have limits (although they have got better at it).

So I'm thinking of 200 is a good number, this will impact ~800 of you extreme socialites.









dude... you're killing me here. you've seen my friends list right? as for activity feed, i actually monitor mine so i can keep my finger on the pulse of what needs to happen here. sounds silly, i know, but i actually have a good idea of what's going on here, even with people i only interact with once in a blue moon, and it sort of helps me do "my job" as well as makes me available to authors, should they have questions, comments, etc. just my two cents, but yeah, not liking the proposed changes.
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Quote by little_kitty
For all of the drama that some of the people drag up on here, there are more good people, IMHO.

As a Mod, I get to see ALL kinds of sides of people here on Lush, and believe you-me, it's not all great.

But, for the most part, I couldn't leave. Not only because of my duties here, but because I have several friends here that I genuinely like, and that I'm pretty sure like me.


plus, we fitted her with a chip and i have her gps location. if she tries to leave, i can track her down and bring her back - once a mod, always a mod.
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Quote by Perplexus
Thanks!


not having any luck, sorry - as i said, it might be that she deleted her account, in which case, the story is gone - if i recall they were witches, does that sound right to you?
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your relationships probably don't last more than a weekend, do they?
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Quote by subslut36
. For anyone to question that my master does not have enough common sense to do this is insulting him and therefore me.


or, maybe, we were just being good samaritans and trying to look out for someone we know nothing about, who might be naive, who might not know what she's getting into. so yeah, excuse us for trying to do the right thing. yeah, just assume the intention was to insult you and whoever your master is.
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Quote by MrLongLasting



Can anyone tell me who this "guest" is? Is it the same person each post, or is this a place for any visitor to post? How is it this person's stats never change; as in the number of posts?


please refrain from posting non rage posts in this thread. thank you.
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we allow you to post a single picture with your story, as long as it complies to the same guidelines used in the general forums.
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i should warn you, btw, that you're going to get a wide variety of suggestions here, some silly, some less than savory - i'd seriously suggest you both think this through before committing to it. smile
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i actually recall modding something like this, but i'm scratching my head trying to remember the author or title - word of warning, it will only still be here if they still have an account. if i can find it, i'll send you a link or post it here. smile
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Quote by Mazza


I
I get very few annoying PMs, so I don't see myself ever using this function, but good to know it's there I guess...


let me fix that for you... *runs off to write the world's most annoying PM*
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don't pay attention to anyone else. you're dying. that's the truth everyone is afraid to tell you. sorry, but sometimes, you just got to be honest. it starts with the knees and then, pretty soon, it's your brain and then it's lights out. it's been nice knowing you.
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Quote by Metilda


I read the replies, good question.

I do both. It depends on how much needs to be edited. Sometimes, there are Lush only issues that happen when you save, extra words or a lost line. Glitches. These have to be dealt with in the edit box.

I use the edit box when it's minor.

However, sometimes I write when I'm tired and I really butcher it - fragments all over, sentences out of order. If this is the case then ill rewrite it on my computer.


*nods* if it's minor things, mispellings (see what i did there? lol), a bit of grammar that needs fixing, yes, keeping it to the edit box really is appreciated - that said, if it's a larger overhaul, i usually do the same, i have to admit. smile
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Quote by Kimasa


"Let her know in advance that you are going to cum in her mouth and spitting, in your opinion, is most unladylike"


lol - i love you for this! smile
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Quote by Liz


I knew you had more than one!



you're on my list now. which one, i'm not saying...
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Quote by LadyX


Any straw I use is a crazy straw, by virtue of its user.


not getting any argument from me. btw, i just had a sunkist orange soda slushie (i left the can in the freezer too long) it was kind of good that way.
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Quote by LadyX
Whammy (double grape vodka + red bull, on the rocks, thru a straw)


the straw adds just a little class, doesn't it? unless it's one of those crazy straws they sell...
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i make sure that what i'm wearing matches the day i'm wearing them on. white on wednesdays, for example, or tuquoise on tuesdays. smile
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Quote by Slipstreamer69
Any women wanting to party in Vegas this weekend?


it's Vegas. i am sure there are women there. and some of them will be wanting to party, so yes.
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