Depends on who is saying it and under what circumstance. for the record, i am 30, a woman, and i use the word, not frequently, but in regards to sex, and certainly, it's a favorite when writing erotica. it's a great word, it's dirty, it's a bit , and it's kind of like the N word in some ways - i take ownership of it, it's MY word. oh, and no, it's not something i go around saying in public, but in the bedroom, yeah, it gets used a lot - also, you will NEVER find me calling someone a cunt. i HATE it when used in that regard. it takes a beautiful word and makes it ugly.
hope that helped? by the way, i have a cunt, a pussy, a vagina, a slit, a snatch, a fuck hole, depending on my mood.
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btw, as many of you've found out, the easiest way to deal with it is making use of the block feature. yes, i know sometimes you just need to confront people, but it rarely changes minds. also, if you're being hassled, please report it. this is a free site for EVERYone to enjoy and we do our best to respect the diversity that we've worked hard to engender. everyone is welcome to be who they are and to feel safe in being openly kinky, gay, straight, curious, transgender, etc. respect is the keyword - that to me is what an adult site is about - not the triple X rating, but having respect for your fellow members no matter what walk of life they're from.
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Quote by GingerKitty
As the title suggests, what is the protocol for editing? For short edits, I know it is fine to edit within the box, but for longer edits, sometimes you don't want to edit online, for whatever reason - people poking you, messaging and other distractions, so you edit offline. When finished editing, do you copy and paste the story into the edit box, thus overwriting the old copy, or do you have to manually enter the edits in the box?
you can just copy and paste, if you wish.
from a mods view, tho, here are the pros and cons. if your story was rejected and you edit it in the edit box, we can see exactly what's been edited - that makes it easier for us to review it and quicker for us to publish it after seeing the fixes. if you copy and paste, we pretty much have to treat it as a new story, making more work for us and taking longer to turn it around for you. not that we mind working hard, but it is something to consider.
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Quote by GingerKitty
As the title suggests, what is the protocol for editing? For short edits, I know it is fine to edit within the box, but for longer edits, sometimes you don't want to edit online, for whatever reason - people poking you, messaging and other distractions, so you edit offline. When finished editing, do you copy and paste the story into the edit box, thus overwriting the old copy, or do you have to manually enter the edits in the box?
you can just copy and paste, if you wish.
from a mods view, tho, here are the pros and cons. if your story was rejected and you edit it in the edit box, we can see exactly what's been edited - that makes it easier for us to review it and quicker for us to publish it after seeing the fixes. if you copy and paste, we pretty much have to treat it as a new story, making more work for us and taking longer to turn it around for you. not that we mind working hard, but it is something to consider.
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Quote by MadMartigan
Liz speaks two romance languages and has been up in a hot air balloon.
That makes me super jealous. In a good way.
fine. i'll say something nice... *pouts* umm... he.... he's mad! it says so right there in his name (oh, and he can write. damn, he can write. you guys read his story yet? it's good. not, it's great. it got an RR. plus, he's super nice and funny and he like the Seahawks!).
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Quote by Winterfell
What about Bran? He is going North of the wall, but for what? I am looking forward to see what happens to him. I am currently reading the first book. I have them all and its taking everything I have to not read the last chapter in the latest book. I do love Daenerys she has came a long way since we first saw her. I really want to see how big those dragons of hers has gotten.I hope Sansa becomes more useful next season. The Kingslayer has kind of grown on me a bit. He isn't as bad as he is made out to be other than sleeping with his twin sister
if you don't count trying to kill a child by pushing him out off a tower window and crippling him, yeah, not so bad.
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Daenerys, Mother of Dragons, hands down, best character ever. EVER. EVER.
haven't read the books - my prediction for next season - someone i like is going to die in an awful way and i will learn to hate Joffrey even more than i thought possible, which happens every single time he shows up and does or says anything, or simply exists.
haven't read the books - my prediction for next season - someone i like is going to die in an awful way and i will learn to hate Joffrey even more than i thought possible, which happens every single time he shows up and does or says anything, or simply exists.
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my wife pointed out recently that when Robert Pattenson was cast for Twilight it got the same response - like a million billion petition signatures against the choice, and obviously, it kind of worked out in the end. think they went thru the same thing when Josh Hutchinson was cast as Peta in Hunger Games, too. people need to relax and trust that the person who wrote the book (in all three cases, the authors have had input) know what they're doing. that said, i understand that Henry "Hunk of Steel" Cavell was the first choice for Edward in Twilight?
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Quote by Ruthie
There are also elements of bondage and domination that don't include any pain at all, but the question is about learning to enjoy pain I think. At least as I understand it. I'm really not sure what a painslut is. I suppose that one can build up a tolerance for pain, and part of a relationship is exploring boundaries and experimenting with tolerances. But if a person is really not into pain at all, why would they want to enter into an S&M type of relationship?
That's true, I suppose, but some people like pain and some people don't. It's more of a question of how they experience it. Someone said that it's like hot sauce. Everyone gets the same burn from hot sauce, but some people enjoy the sensation while others don't. I couldn't explain to anyone who hated hot sauce why I like it. I'm not sure that I understand why anyone doesn't. On the other hand, there are some hot sauces that are too much for me.
not that i'm an expert here, but in my personal experience, you either are or you aren't 'wired' to enjoy pain, or to experience it as pleasure, or however it works. btw, i would classify, if asked, myself as a 'painslut' - it's something i enjoy immensely when coupled with physical pleasure. working at building up a tolerance for pain, in my view, isn't the same as actively enjoying it or seeking it out. it would be more like growing used to it rather then truly relishing it, i would think?
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Quote by Ruthie
I can't imagine anyone who is not interested in pain wanting to be either a sub or a dom. Why would they? What would be the point in doing something you don't enjoy? If a person is exploring their sexuality and find that they don't like something in particular, why would they want to continue doing it?
being a sub is not necessarily about pain - i know plenty of D/s couples not into the pain aspect of bdsm, but rather the psychological. although my wife and i are not 'in the lifestyle' we both have a healthy enjoyment of bdsm in our bedroom play - that said, she prefers to keep the pain play light, more of a token thing, during our sessions; nipple clamps, spankings, that kind of thing.
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Quote by shancey
Is there any true story publish here,
there are some, yes. i would suggest doing a story search here: http://www.lushstories.com/search-results.aspx
and enter "true story" so you can get the results of...
http://www.lushstories.com/search-results.aspx
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i just want to post here to show my support for transgendered folk. i've been lucky enough to know a few, and they are lovely people who happen to have been switched at birth by mischievious fairies into the wrong body - it's a raw deal, and hard enough as it is without it being made harder by those who don't want to accept or understand. open your heart and simply accept that the person inside is who they truly are. love you guys and girls. 
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Quote by Tyking85
I don't get it, what's the rule. I thought this was a place to vent?
yes, to vent. this is not venting: "The internet is no place to find love, especially here on Lush! But kudos to those that did find real love, that's AWESOME! Big Hugs"
and this is judging other people's rages: "I'm starting to get annoyed by the amount of people that can't figure out if someone is really genuine or if your friend/crush is a real person. Stop being so naive!!"
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Quote by Tyking85
I'm starting to get annoyed by the amount of people that can't figure out if someone is really genuine or if your friend/crush is a real person. Stop being so naive!! This is the internet, protect yourself at all times! The internet is no place to find love, especially here on Lush! But kudos to those that did find real love, that's AWESOME!
please don't make me post the rules again.
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so, to sum it up...
Oprah's bad for having too much money. Oprah's bad for giving people extravagant gifts. Oprah's bad cause she doesn't earn her money. Oprah's bad cause she wants people to see her movie. Oprah's bad for expecting customer service. Oprah's bad for wanting to see a purse she liked. Oprah's bad cause someone didn't want to show her the purse. Oprah's bad cause she's on tv. Oprah's bad cause at one time she didn't have any money. Oprah's bad cause fill in the blank. ok, we get it. Oprah's bad because she gives an average of 40 million dollars to charitable orginizations a year (look it up - it may even be more). Oprah's bad cause ______.
there we go. nice and tidy.
Oprah's bad for having too much money. Oprah's bad for giving people extravagant gifts. Oprah's bad cause she doesn't earn her money. Oprah's bad cause she wants people to see her movie. Oprah's bad for expecting customer service. Oprah's bad for wanting to see a purse she liked. Oprah's bad cause someone didn't want to show her the purse. Oprah's bad cause she's on tv. Oprah's bad cause at one time she didn't have any money. Oprah's bad cause fill in the blank. ok, we get it. Oprah's bad because she gives an average of 40 million dollars to charitable orginizations a year (look it up - it may even be more). Oprah's bad cause ______.
there we go. nice and tidy.