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I have no idea where the line is really drawn. I think saying 'vanilla sex' is basically what people term as anything below their particular kink level. It's kind of like a casual insult with a solid dose of arrogance - "pffft - you're so vanilla and I am way kinkier than you". And then, of course, anything more extreme than what they're into is deemed as freaky or fucked up, so everyone who uses that term thinks that they're at exactly the right level of 'cool kink'.
Even though it's used in the BDSM world, there are also various levels within that community as well. I'm sure someone who takes BSDM to a fringe extreme also thinks there are plenty of 'vanilla BDSM'ers' as well. And maybe those who enjoy the things that are forbidden by Lush rules would think that all of us, including the BDSM crowd are vanilla.
In a way, it's kind of like sexual elitism.
Quote by SereneProdigy
Hello to you,
The time that appears listed next to the forum posts do not correspond to my time zone. I already selected the right time zone in my options, but it doesn't seem to help.
Is there any way I can fix this?
Thanks!
For those of you who don't know, while the use of song titles in a story is ok under Fair Use laws, using song lyrics is not; Song titles are fine, lyrics are covered as 'creative works' (unless in the public domain). Yes, I know I've done it before without realizing it, but it's not ok unless you have permission from the song's writers (as opposed to the performer).
Just a heads up.
http://annerallen.blogspot.com.au/2013/03/so-you-want-to-use-song-lyrics-in-your.html
Quote by slipperywhenwet2012
They're all like people, when you think about it. All animals have their unique personality traits that they may share with people.
Quote by MadMartigan
I love a girl with flat, toned abs that show her fitness off. I don't dig "man abs" by any means. Like some softness on a girl as well.
They aren't a requirement though. Subtle curves can be attractive as well.
Quote by RumpleForeskin
BTW, speaking of 'checking something out',are youse guys saying some folks actually check out the prfiles of other Lushers? Funny, no one ever seems to bother with mine. Probably just an oversight or maybe a problem with the link or....
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Quote by MadMartigan
Maaaaaan.
You're telling me I have to slut it out to be interesting?
I'm building your deck and you don't even pay me in baked goods.
Quote by simply_sweet
bahahahaI have some of your extra nice messages still
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I don't know if I should keep you as a favorite mod though...you have threatened to spank me...on multiple occasions...![]()
Quote by simply_sweet
Well, *Sprite* verified my first story, and most of my stories afterwards...maybe even all of them (I'd have to check) but she always had nice things to say, and constructive criticism that I still keep in mind.![]()
As for other mods, Liz and Lisa were very helpful when I started ''modding'' but the entire story mod team has been really awesome with answering questions that I've had. Also, they're all hilarious.
Another favorite mod is Simplyjohn, he's my skunky servant and one of the most awesome people I've met on hereRacking and Zina are great too!! Hugs to all!!
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