Quote by TheDevilsWeakness
This entire thread peeves me. You bunch are entirely too judgmental. Myself included. We really need to grow up and not let something or someone on the internet bug us.
Quote by Kristind
Alright...here I am trying to understand this lifestyle...and failing miserably. Contract? Does the contract come with a money back guarantee? I totally understand the trainees apprehension to have to deal other subs. I kind of like the "exclusive" aspect of my relationships, myself. And I kind of have a hard time calling anyone "Sir" (besides the traffic cop that pulls me over). As much as I try to understand this lifestyle....I guess I'm just not cut out for it. I have read the posts that say it takes a real strong person to enter the dom/sub lifestyle and I guess you're right cuz it's going to take a real strong person person to put up with the humiliation and physical abuse dom's seem bent on dishing out.
*Sighs*...I guess I'll just have to be satisfied with my guy using his brains and sensuality to seduce me, his animal instincts to satisfy me and his love to bond with me as we lay in our pool of vanilla bliss.
Oh...I would take out an insurance policy with that contract, honey. I'm sure Lloyds of London can help you with that.
Quote by AvaMarieex
Hmm interesting. I knew people liked it, but I would have never thought it was actually the most popular category...
Quote by Dancing_Doll
Totally! I'm thinking we both pledge the sorority and go into undercover-bitch mode and fuck it up. We'd have her in a straightjacket by spring break.
(ps. this plotline would make a great teen flick movie!)
Quote by Dancing_Doll
If I went to this school, I would make it my life's mission to fuck up this girl's shit. It would be so fun (and so easy). That girl is strung tight.
Quote by BlackTalon
Not to bump heads with sprite who I usually agree with, but...
Yes... some can be, but looking from the outside it would appear that ALL of our relationships are unhealthy to vanilla people. To view it from outside puts your own views on another relationship. We are each unique and as such each relationship is as well.
The degree of control is determined by the person giving it... what you may view as unhealthy may be exactly what that particular slave wants. As always there are many views in this lifestyle and if there were set rules to fit any relationship, we wouldn't be here having this discussion.
Quote by Dudealicious
I've seen that in porn before and always was wondering if it would be easier to go down on a glow in the dark pussy. Especially when the lights are off.
Quote by slipperywhenwet2012
Oh definitely the abusive guy. Who needs manners and chivalry when you can go out with a douchey & disrespectful wad of fuck?? I mean no self-respecting woman would ever put up with a guy that showed her the utmost respect. That's why it's called SELF-respect...we have enough for ourselves so other guys don't need to bother respecting us.
And as far as my best experience on a date? Well we went to McDonald's, and he got me the best meal the Dollar Menu could offer...and then he forgot his wallet, so I had to pay. After we got in MY car, he looked over at me and said, "You're cute. Let's fuck." And I was like, "Cool. Your place or mine?" He said my place because he lived with his mom, who locks him out if he stays out past his 10:00 pm curfew...so he ended up sleeping over because he knew she wouldn't let him in. And then we both got to my place, and stripped naked. He saw my boobies, so he came a little in his undies. But I have to give it to him, he was trying really hard not to, I saw it in his face. So then we finally got down to it...best 15.3 seconds of my life...well his life. One and a half pumps and he was done. He rolled over on his side, farted, and sucked his thumb...and about 5 seconds later I heard snoring. It was the cutest thing ever. The following morning (since he had to sleep over because mom locked him out) I woke him up with a BJ. And he said the sweetest words I've ever heard: "I'd return the favor baby, but I just don't do that." Of course it was just fine with me. I cooked him breakfast. It was intended for the both of us, but his appetite was ravenous after our rigorous lovemaking the previous night, so he didn't bother to leave any for me, which was so thoughtful because I was trying to lose weight. After that he asked me for my wi-fi password because he ran out of data on his cell phone. And he played on his phone for a while, totally ignoring me...and then I gave him a ride home. I thought everything was magical, but he never called back. But I call him every single day and send him text messages, but for some reason he hasn't received any of them. I assume this because he never responds. But I just know he's the one for me, so I'll let fate handle the rest. BEST. DATE. EVER!
Quote by faady
Would you like to go out on a date with good guy, who opens door for you and do other nice things to make you feel special.
Or you prefer bad guys with "i dont give a F**k" attitude and kind of a abusive behavior.
Also tell us your best experience on date, and AFTER IT... ;)
Quote by Dudealicious
I'm not so sure about that. I have heard many women comment on how they have snuck into the men's room at a concert or something and were amazed how clean the men's room actually was.
Quote by Kristind
Thanx for being so nice Sprite. I feared that I was going to be bombarded with insult because of my unsophisticated post.
Quote by lindseyaggie
I had a guy piss on me while I was tied up in the woods. It was disgusting. After he let me up I jumped in the lake. I could swim faster than him. After we were far enough out I swam back to shore and jumped in the car and took off. When I was far enough away I stopped and got dressed. I had his clothes in the car with me. I told him not to do it or he would pay. I guess he didn't believe me when I was staked out.
Quote by Kristind
.mostly because I don't understand the mentality of so-called subs that would allow themselves to be controlled so completely by another.
this caught my eye. from an insider's pov, and i know this is fairly impossible to see from the outside, but as in insider, you'd be surprised at how much control the sub actually has - as a matter of fact, a lot of women are drawn to such relationships because of the need to have control. the sub helps set the limits of what occurs, how she is to be treated and, ultimatly, she is the one being catered too - it's her needs that the Domme caters to. she also has the ultimate power of putting a stop to whatever is happening with a single safe word. honestly, i, as a sub, can be incredibly controlling, even if it appears that i've given up control - the fact that it is MY CHOICE to relinquish control is very important. also, the fact that i have the power to take it back if i wish at any point in time. 
Quote by DanielleX
In light of other replies, I think I should qualify what I said in my original reply. I wasn't suggesting that I make value judgments from one friend to another. I love all my friends.
I think my situation is a bit unusual because so many of my friends since college have been lovers to one extent or another.
I suppose I was also drawing attention to a certain semantic anomaly in the question. That was probably my inner geek. I was in a weird mood last night.
