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Quote by DirtyMartini
I think I may have a contest entry ready for submission, but not quite sure...I have it posted over in the mod forum on the blue site, and another place or two...hoping to get some feedback...
It's a poem...and I think it's only fair to warn you...this one's brutal even by my standards...
when did you start having standards?
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quite honestly, sometimes i'm just not in the mood to chat, or i'm very busy on the site doing other things. if it's close friend saying hi, i'll almost always respond, but if it's someone i don't know that well or at all, sometimes, if the mood strikes me i'll start up a conversation, and sometimes i won't - nothing to do with you, just the way it is.
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the reason i decided to become a lesbian was that i couldn't find a man with a decent sized cock who was worth a shit. nothing under 10 inches is worth the trouble, and the guys over are few and far between. seriously size is the ONLY thing that matters, boys and girls.
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i don't really watch a lot of porn. that said, sometimes i just get in the mood. i think, my last porn-a-palooza centered around two actresses that i thought were just fun - for me, it's more about the personality then anything else? i mean, if someone's smoking hot but don't really seem to have a spark to them, it won't hold my interest, but if someone's cute and they just seem fun and really into it, i'm more likely to enjoy watching. with that in mind... Lexi Lamour
and Ally Kay.
and Ally Kay.
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Quote by one_winged_angel
Seeing as there are roughly 30 categories, maybe a badge for 15 or over categories. Could be a challenge for some authors to explore topics they've never tried while still being able to avoid categories that make them feel dirty (not in a good way).
kind of a cool idea, actually, and yeah, or even like 20 catagories, just not ALL of them! lol
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Quote by HighDesert
So, not the kinda stuff that is 50% lesbians and the other 50% is soft core. My wife wants the hardcore straight sex, anal, dp, facials...you name it. She would just like some actual descent plot to go along with it. And I feel for her. I'd like it to. But I just have lower standards and I can get turned on when the wind blows a certain direction.
So the real question: When is Dancing Doll going to open a production company?
as soon as she signs me as her first 'actress'. ;)
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i can't, of course, speak for anyone else. for ME, however, being a sub, is an aspect of my personality, both sexual and non-sexual. it's not the whole of it, but it is part of who i am and it does color a lot of what i do. as does everything else, all those others aspects that i might tag myself with... here, from my bio:
who is rachel?
a writer, a fairy, a rave girl, a hippie, a slut, a wife, a sub, a little sister, a survivor, a friend, a lover, a sexually adventurous woman, an intellectually curious citizen, a voter, an activist, a poet, an artist, a student of tai chi, a vegetarian, a baker, a cook, a pet owner, and, hopefully, a lot of fun.
i think, perhaps, that because this is a sexually orientated site, we put more emphasis on our sexual identity here. also, being one of the few places in peoples lives where they can feel comfortable declaring their sexuality, especially in the realm of bdsm, they are more likely to take advantage of that. declaring yourself a Dom at a family picnic is not something most feel comfortable doing. nor at work, or in most of their friendships, so yeah, it's likely very freeing to be able to finally have a forum to do it in, so they take advantage of it and are very vocal about it.
that's just my thought.
who is rachel?
a writer, a fairy, a rave girl, a hippie, a slut, a wife, a sub, a little sister, a survivor, a friend, a lover, a sexually adventurous woman, an intellectually curious citizen, a voter, an activist, a poet, an artist, a student of tai chi, a vegetarian, a baker, a cook, a pet owner, and, hopefully, a lot of fun.
i think, perhaps, that because this is a sexually orientated site, we put more emphasis on our sexual identity here. also, being one of the few places in peoples lives where they can feel comfortable declaring their sexuality, especially in the realm of bdsm, they are more likely to take advantage of that. declaring yourself a Dom at a family picnic is not something most feel comfortable doing. nor at work, or in most of their friendships, so yeah, it's likely very freeing to be able to finally have a forum to do it in, so they take advantage of it and are very vocal about it.
that's just my thought.
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a few thoughts, one actually. there is a huge difference between a Domme saying/doing things to humiliate their sub because they know it sexually arouses the s sub to be treated like that and a Domme who really means them. Subs are going to know the difference, and recognize it for what is is; the Domme looking after the needs of the sub, feeding that arousal for the sake of the sub, not because of any real need to degrade them. in a way, it's roleplay and the sub knows that they don't truly mean those things, no matter how convincing they might act/sound.
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Quote by gav
Glad you like the new feature. I'll be adding more to this over time.
I've added an option on your settings page to choose an alternate landing page for once you login.
Happiness is restored \o/
YAY! so i can log on and go straight to your bio page, G-man?
mmm... btw, never did ask... what do you think of Lucas selling Star Wars to Disney? 
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Quote by HotBttmInBriefs
John, I agree with you majorly on one point.
And that is the part about letting one thing in your life define who you are. So many of my gay and bisexual friends love to proclaim their sexuality and their pride in it to the point that you don't even know anymore what and who they are because all you think when you think of this is their sexuality.
I used to love Rosie O'Donnel. She was one of my favorite actresses, talk show hosts, etc. Today I just can't stomach her at her all. She just comes off to me as some bitter old woman. I couldn't even stand to be in a room with her for 5 minutes. The lady could have had a great legacy but now she will only ever be known by most people by the fact that she is gay. And she has or had so many other great attributes to give to the world.
Recently a poll on Family Feud asked the question of 100 people what they knew about Rosie O'Donnell. A huge majority like 70% of the folks said she was a lesbian. Everything else got very few votes or responses. I just think that is sad.
I am proud of who I am. I am not ashamed of it all. But in the end of my life or during it I do not want to ever be defined by my sexuality. What I do in the bedroom is just a portion of my life. It is not who I am.
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the problem i have with this is simply this - while i don't define myself by my sexuality, a lot of other people do. i have seen too many people referred to as the gay guy, the gay couple, the lesbian, the , the fag, as if that's all they are. i'm just a girl in love with another girl. it goes both ways. i am so much more than just a lesbian and if people are overly proud of it, perhaps it's because they feel they have to be, they have to be a little bit in your face to make a point such as; yeah, i'm gay, and guess what? i'm still a good person. accept me as who i am, not despite of who i am.
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ok, a few thoughts on the topic as well as the sidetracks. i don't think outing is such an issue anymore, at least in my own experiences, growing up and now living in cities (SF bay area and Seattle) where being gay carries as much as a stigma as it used to? i think the only really outings i recall recently are when someone is vehemently anti-gay and then is outed as actually being gay - usually politicians? in that case, i get it. if you're going to be a bigot, especially against 'your own people' you kind of earned it. that said, celebs are openly gay and really, the public is is, generally, ok with it. if the guy or girl is likable, it helps. Ellen and Portia are cool cause people like them. same with Neil Patrick Harris and a number of other celebs. people thing Rosie is strident and she can be unlikable, so people are less cool with that, so she gets the negative image attached to her.
what i don't like is using being gay as a put down. all those rumors of Tom Cruise or John Travolta being gay to paint them in a negative light. look, if they're assholes, that has nothing to do with their sexuality. they're assholes. don't go making it a gay thing.
now, on to the pda posts. define getting peoples sexuality pushed into your face? yes, there's a decorum to be followed. it's in bad taste being in most public venues for couples of any orientation to be groping each other, sticking their tongues down each others throats, humping legs, etc... notice i said both. i'm cool with it in a lot of clubs where it's just socially acceptable. at book stores, tho, or restaurants, tho? just kind of in bad taste in general. we used to (ok, still do) get pretty frisky occasionally when we're in an atmosphere that accepts it. when not, we're very low key.
That said, we like to hold hands, we like to hug, we like to kiss, not full on 'we're about to have sex' kisses, but we do kiss. it's affectionate. if that's being in your face, then too bad. we're in love. i think it's beautiful when straight couples kiss. i think it's beautiful when gay couples kiss. if you have issues with that, it's really just that; it's YOUR issue.
ok, another thing. gays are the last minority to be LEGALLY denied equal rights, at least in the the USA. let that sink in for a moment and you'll understand why we feel the need to be vocal about it. in same places you can be fired for being gay. you can be denied inclusion (BSA) for being gay, you can't get married, DOMA is still in effect, etc. if gays tend to be out there actively trying to change that, can you blame us? the only way things change is if people stand up and try to change them. if you sit back and let it continue, it doesn't change. wanting to be treated equally - notice that. equally. not better, not having more rights, simply having the same rights, is still a struggle for many of us. not being persecuted for our orientation is still a struggle in many places. being accepted is still a struggle. it's gotten better. Stonewall started it, but it still has a ways to go. so yeah, there are times i am going to get into people's faces IF they give me a reason. i am still aware that, depending on where i am or who i am around, i need to adjust my actions and be 'less gay' or be aware that there might be repercussions. people are still bullied, beat up, or worse because of being gay - yes, it is changing, but it has a ways to go still.
what i don't like is using being gay as a put down. all those rumors of Tom Cruise or John Travolta being gay to paint them in a negative light. look, if they're assholes, that has nothing to do with their sexuality. they're assholes. don't go making it a gay thing.
now, on to the pda posts. define getting peoples sexuality pushed into your face? yes, there's a decorum to be followed. it's in bad taste being in most public venues for couples of any orientation to be groping each other, sticking their tongues down each others throats, humping legs, etc... notice i said both. i'm cool with it in a lot of clubs where it's just socially acceptable. at book stores, tho, or restaurants, tho? just kind of in bad taste in general. we used to (ok, still do) get pretty frisky occasionally when we're in an atmosphere that accepts it. when not, we're very low key.
That said, we like to hold hands, we like to hug, we like to kiss, not full on 'we're about to have sex' kisses, but we do kiss. it's affectionate. if that's being in your face, then too bad. we're in love. i think it's beautiful when straight couples kiss. i think it's beautiful when gay couples kiss. if you have issues with that, it's really just that; it's YOUR issue.
ok, another thing. gays are the last minority to be LEGALLY denied equal rights, at least in the the USA. let that sink in for a moment and you'll understand why we feel the need to be vocal about it. in same places you can be fired for being gay. you can be denied inclusion (BSA) for being gay, you can't get married, DOMA is still in effect, etc. if gays tend to be out there actively trying to change that, can you blame us? the only way things change is if people stand up and try to change them. if you sit back and let it continue, it doesn't change. wanting to be treated equally - notice that. equally. not better, not having more rights, simply having the same rights, is still a struggle for many of us. not being persecuted for our orientation is still a struggle in many places. being accepted is still a struggle. it's gotten better. Stonewall started it, but it still has a ways to go. so yeah, there are times i am going to get into people's faces IF they give me a reason. i am still aware that, depending on where i am or who i am around, i need to adjust my actions and be 'less gay' or be aware that there might be repercussions. people are still bullied, beat up, or worse because of being gay - yes, it is changing, but it has a ways to go still.
