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Her Royal Spriteness
Quote by stephanie
FUCK All Y'All... I've never talked properly to Curly Girl in my life!!!!!! (And I might never talk to Clum or Sprite again...) I don't know Annie and I don't know Tashetgo...
SERIOUSLY... The competitions are High End WORK... Like I said, we've all watched these writers blossom... SOME are personal friends of mine... That CAN'T enter into a decision about quality or placing... YOU JUDGE THE PIECE... ("It is the tale, not who tells it...")
you made me sad.
and yeah, seriously, i think it would be hard to judge these things - i was every asked, i would probably turn it down, cause it's hard to separate that stuff, sometimes. (next time, i make the bribes bigger - apparently, you can't get much for $1 these days...). 
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Quote by SweetElle
1. When men get fussy because I don't want to engage in sexy chat and they ask, "Then why are you here?"
2. I guess when people ask in general why I'm here on lush, that annoys me because what's it matter? I'm here aren't I? Read my
profile already.
3. When people incorrectly assume that just because I have an interest in sex, and that I'm on a site like this...that I want to
have sex with them.
4. When people ask a thousand questions, I understand getting to know someone, but really...
5. Ok, last one, when people's first question is, "So what do you look like?"
so... would you like to cyber with me? what? why the heck not! this is a sexy site, you know! what's wrong with you? no, really, come on, you know you want too... just once. i'm really good, i swear. so, what do you look like, anyways? and what are you wearing? something sexy i bet. oh, come on, don't be like that, just tell me. what's your favorite color, btw, and what kind of music co you like. wanna pvt? why not? please? i'm really bored. and horny. it won't take long, i promise. wait, come back! what did i say? stuck up so and so...
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been flashed a few times. usually, it's harmless, and i just laugh it off. usually just guys out for some laughs. there's a notable difference between fun hi jinx (which i've done myself on occasion 
) and creepy sexual predator flashing. time and place for everything, i suppose.
) and creepy sexual predator flashing. time and place for everything, i suppose. 
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Quote by naughtynurse
The mod who verified my first story is no longer active, but her posts are still tagged and used by all of the verifiers: MagnificentRascal
I would like to the thank the academy, errr, I mean entire mod team for putting up with me and my idiosyncrasies!
and spanking you when it's appropriate? ;)
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i don't remember who passed my first story here - i looked it up and they are, apparently, no longer a member. that said, when i joined the modding team, Gypsy Moth and Magnificent Rascal were the women who guided me, and i am forever indebted to both of them for their encouragement and help. as for a favorite among the current mods, i don't have one. they're all hard working, helpful, and dedicated to the job. they all have different strengths which, when combined, create an amazing team that i'm proud to be part of. oh, and i should point out that Nicola slips in from time to time, when things are crazy, and verifies on TOP of all the stuff she does for the site. not sure when that woman sleeps, honestly. best boss in the world, and no, i'm not just saying that to suck up to her. she's always had my back, even when that means threatening to ban me from the que if she thinks i'm taking on too much.
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so, you know one girl, happens to be muslim and, omg, she masturbates once or even twice a day and you think that's a lot AND that it's representative on an entire culture? dude, you need to meet more women. white girl here, raised catholic, who masturbates once or twice a day on slow days. anyone else want to chime in? LOL
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we all, to some extent, have a physical ideal. that's not a flaw inside of us, just something that we all have. it's like with anything else, visual. you might like green, i might like pink, John might like red. doesn't mean we can't appreciate the other colors, but if give a choice between a red, pink, or blue car, i'm going to pink the pink one, right? same with people. yes, personality matters. if someone doesn't excite you personality wise, if there is no spark there, you probably will move on. same thing physically, much as we hate to admit it. we all have a type. some guys like blonde girls with big boobs. as other said, that doesn't mean they'll be attracted to a girl like that if they have nothing else in common, but those are the girls that will draw their attention, right? and we all do it, men and women both. and sometimes, we find someone's personality so attractive, that it doesn't matter, but really, first impressions are often all we have to go on; what person looks like, how they dress, how they carry themselves, the sound of their voice, all those things that are visual cues. so saying looks don't matter is naive. saying that they are the only thing that matters, however, is just plain stupid.
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honestly, i'm more into it being strictly on a merit based system rather than votes. i'd prefer that rather than it being a popularity contest. honestly, some of the comp stories i read for this one that i thought were some of the better ones didn't get as many votes as they deserved. oh, and i'm not talking about mine, so this isn't sour grapes, in case there's any doubts. 
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Quote by Liz
I would assume that the 'Quote' button just runs the script to post a reply, then dumps the other users text into the window, inside those pre-defined tags.
I might be wrong, but it's probably the string that triggers the notification.
I asked Gav about that a while back. he said it's got something to do with the trained miniature elephants inside my computer. at the time, i didn't question it, but now, well... i've been stuffing peanuts into my hard drive for a few months now and, of course, keeping a thumble of water in there for them and... either he's been feeding me a story, or they died...
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Quote by AbigailThornton
My boyfriend was very shocked when I did the big reveal about writing sex stories but he got over it quickly enough. Since you're just starting out it could be very hard to survive a strongly negative reaction - you'll lose Lush or him.
When you say 'share' Lush - what do you mean? If you mean reading stories together, just try it out - don't log in; say that you've found a site you enjoy and see what he says. The best way is to talk to him about it and see what his reaction is.
that's because i hear he was the test subject for your story ideas... *giggle*
btw, great advice. i'm kind of in your face blunt about this kind of stuff. Abi's approach is probably wiser than just hitting him in the face with it.
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honestly, it's different every time. sometimes i'm just ready to go off and i do, other times we try to sort of stay in sync and do our best to cum together, and then sometimes she goes off first. it's never a big deal. i get as much pleasure making her cum as i do being made to cum, and if she does cum first it's not like she just rolls over and passes out. sex is about more than just cumming. it's about everything before and after as well.
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Quote by JohnC
Or how about this? Why is it always this or that? Why can't a man be good in bed, have good stamina, have a big dick, look great, have a great personality, etc.? And remember, the same person doing the same thing twice can cause different results. Your mental state has a LOT to do with how satisfied you are, given the exact same circumstances.
I find, no offense intended, so many of these questions to be completely ignorant of how sex and attraction actually works.
because he's a man...? *giggles, runs and hides before the torch bearing, pitchfork wielding mob can catch me*
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well, here's the thing, if you're going to be with this guy for a while you have a few options. you can continue to hide it from him, in which case, it's going to always be in the back of your head that that's exactly what you're doing, or you can tell him about it. honestly, if all you're doing is coming here, reading, posting, chatting with friends, there shouldn't be an issue. if it bothers him, you should talk it out with him and explain that you simply like to read and write erotic stories and that it's been a learning experience that will benefit him as well as yourself.
Now, if you're cybering, that's a whole different story, but i'm going to assume you're not, in which case, you really have nothing to hide (if you are, it's best to either knock it off or be honest about that too, and it if bothers him, cease and desist as well).
btw, my wife and i like to read stories to each other as a sort of foreplay and it also gives us ideas about what we're in the mood to do in the bed room. that might be a good thing to do as a couple, hmm? ;)
i think it's kind of a good litmus test of a relationship to see what he thinks. is he a jealous guy? is he easy going? is he is sexually adventurous? trusting? supportive? understanding of your needs? also, it would be a great way to show him that you trust him as well.
btw, i'm guessing that he looks at porn sites. most guys with internet connections do. point out that you're cool with that and that this isn't really any different.
Now, if you're cybering, that's a whole different story, but i'm going to assume you're not, in which case, you really have nothing to hide (if you are, it's best to either knock it off or be honest about that too, and it if bothers him, cease and desist as well).
btw, my wife and i like to read stories to each other as a sort of foreplay and it also gives us ideas about what we're in the mood to do in the bed room. that might be a good thing to do as a couple, hmm? ;)
i think it's kind of a good litmus test of a relationship to see what he thinks. is he a jealous guy? is he easy going? is he is sexually adventurous? trusting? supportive? understanding of your needs? also, it would be a great way to show him that you trust him as well.
btw, i'm guessing that he looks at porn sites. most guys with internet connections do. point out that you're cool with that and that this isn't really any different.
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i don't actually own any pantyhose. the rare occasion that i need to wear them, i'll go out and buy a pair, wear it once, and then it goes away. i do wear tights if it's cold out and i want to wear a skirt or dress, and i enjoy wearing stockings - the gartered kind is rare - that's only for one thing - wanting to look especially sexy and it means, at some point, i'm going to be mostly naked. thigh highs are just fun to wear, and i will on occasion. mostly, tho, it's either socks or nothing.
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Quote by AbigailThornton
Obviously, I screech in ticklish protest but I love the feel of a warm tongue licking down there (by accident he says - yeah right!!)
sometimes it just slips, or your aim is off, or it's dark and you can't see very well and that stuff happens *nods, knowingly*
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i could never give myself to someone if there wasn't more to it then simply the roles of Dom(me) and sub. that's me, obviously, but i do scratch my head when i see others doing it. this, more then any other relationship, requires SO much trust. it goes beyond just a spark for me. there has to be friendship first. i've been in several bdsm relationships. the ones that work, the one that is working now, that has been working for over a year, is based on friendship and genuine care. the ones that are just based on sex, like most relationships just based on sex, usually fade when the couple finds nothing else in common. if a Dom(me) doesn't genuinely care for their sub, isn't doing this out of wanting to fulfil their subs needs, then it's already broken. bdsm relationships are NOT about being selfish - they are about being selfless. my former Mistress, now my sub, taught me that. she's a very wise little kitty. i'm her Mistress, now, because that's what SHE needs and i do it because i care about her needs more than my own (not that i'm not getting a LOT of enjoyment out of this myself. mmmm).