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Her Royal Spriteness
we actually get our news from the Daily show. if you look past the funny (and omg, he's hilarious) it's really good up to date, unbiased, if satiric, coverage of real stories, some that don't even make it to the big news networks. it's pretty much a daily requirement at casa de sprite.
Her Royal Spriteness
oo oo! me first! ok, this isn't going to be the norm for answers, here, i think.
nostalgia.
i grew up in a mixed neighborhood. from time to time, i get that urge, i'll go right out and say it, i want to be with a black man. part of it is nostalgia. i knew some beautiful black men when i was younger (i still do, btw, but i'm married and kind of more into girls these days) and they were good guys, fun, full of life, laughter, a little crazy, omg, beautiful too - just like some people prefer brunettes because of their darker look, or what have you, the physicality of skin so black it's almost blue is beautiful to me.
as far as getting into a relationship because of color, that's silly to me - like you said, i am attracted to people. i've been with a wide variety of different ethnicities and it's always because of who they were, not what they looked like, just like i wouldn't just date blondes - i might be attracted to certain people because of their looks, but there needs to be something beyond that to get into a relationship with them.
btw, i don't write in the interacial catagory, simply because it never really occurs to me - i will tag stories as interracial, but it's an afterthought - to me, they are men, or women, and the color is secondary. that said, i will find myself looking at pictures of hot, sexy, black men on the internet and drooling sometimes.
also, i am in an 'interracial relationship' with my wife, who has enough latina and filiipino blood to pass as a full blooded chica if she wished.
ps - Kate (my girl) adds that white girls turn HER on, cause we got cute little "wannabe" titties and asses.
nostalgia.
i grew up in a mixed neighborhood. from time to time, i get that urge, i'll go right out and say it, i want to be with a black man. part of it is nostalgia. i knew some beautiful black men when i was younger (i still do, btw, but i'm married and kind of more into girls these days) and they were good guys, fun, full of life, laughter, a little crazy, omg, beautiful too - just like some people prefer brunettes because of their darker look, or what have you, the physicality of skin so black it's almost blue is beautiful to me.
as far as getting into a relationship because of color, that's silly to me - like you said, i am attracted to people. i've been with a wide variety of different ethnicities and it's always because of who they were, not what they looked like, just like i wouldn't just date blondes - i might be attracted to certain people because of their looks, but there needs to be something beyond that to get into a relationship with them.
btw, i don't write in the interacial catagory, simply because it never really occurs to me - i will tag stories as interracial, but it's an afterthought - to me, they are men, or women, and the color is secondary. that said, i will find myself looking at pictures of hot, sexy, black men on the internet and drooling sometimes.
also, i am in an 'interracial relationship' with my wife, who has enough latina and filiipino blood to pass as a full blooded chica if she wished.
ps - Kate (my girl) adds that white girls turn HER on, cause we got cute little "wannabe" titties and asses.
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Quote by lovewhenuswallow
That's pretty much the sort of respone i was looking for thank you. As for the rest of your response, i just scrapped that for lack of relevance.
I never called or said anyone here was unnatural for the way they live thier lives. Perhaps do a self check on your reading comprehension instead of trying toto something that isn't there.If you don't care for the way something is worded then just stay out of it and don't post anything if it upsets you. FYI people are gonna say a lot of things that you don't like or want to hear, oh well that's life.If something said upsets you maybe ask for clarification instead of jumping the gun and getting irked over nothing.
when i think of two guys engaging in any type of sex, just seems so unnatural to me.
that's what you gave us to work with - my reading comprehension is, i am not too modest to admit, above average. last i checked, Lush was a place that people could share their opinions. you shared yours and i shared mine. telling me to stay out of it if it upsets me isn't really the way to go. and yes, people are going to say things i don't want to hear. i am used to that. it goes both ways, tho. people are going to say things that YOU don't want to hear, as well. that's life. have you noticed that i haven't once 'attacked' you? i am treating this as a discussion to show my POV, experiences, and side of the story. you can either listen and learn, or not. your choice. yes, maybe i took your statement and ran with it, but if you don't want that to happen, next time, make a clear, concise statement that gives no room for mistunderstanding. perhaps it's your writing comprehension that needs to be worked on, seeing that a large percentage of responses have 'misunderstood' your post.
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Quote by lovewhenuswallow
I read the article on him sprite. It was also said that those 2 went and got into a confrontation with 2 hispanic men after doing what they did. What might have happened had there only been 1 hispanic man?. Ever cross your mind that if they didn't murder him for being gay that they might have murdered him for another or any old reason that they could justify in thier minds for doing so.
How do you feel about gay people that flaunt thier gayness in an attempt to get a rise out of people that are not gay? that happens.I've been hit on by gay men and i've made it verbaly clear that i'm not interested in men. Yet they are gonna sit there and tell me that i don't know what i'm missing and how they can make me forget about women all together. Then i have to get up and leave. WTF is that?
After his death Shepard was promptly made an example of by the Right Reverend Fred Phelps of the Westboro Baptist Church in Topeka, Kansas, who claimed divine retribution had killed Shepard for the sin of being a homosexual. Phelps and his flock picketed Shepard's funeral on 17 October 1998, holding signs proclaiming "GOD HATES FAGS" and similar slogans, later installing a "memorial" on the church website which proclaims: Matthew Shepard has been in hell for 2102 days. Eternity - 2102 days = Eternity.
I was 16 when he died. actually, it was a few weeks after my 16th birthday. i'd just recently discovered my inclinations and come out to a few close friends. it's burned in my mind, and yeah, it's part of how i see the world because of it. the world doesn't want people like me, or at least enough of the world to make life uncomfortable at times. i didn't really want to turn this thread into what it is becoming, but so be it...
i censor my behavior at times, dependng upon where i am - perhaps not consciously, but i do. i have learned to be wary of how others might react if i am open about who and what i am. not everywhere, not always, but there are times when i recognize that it is a hostile enviornment. my best friend was once beaten half to death for 'being gay in the wrong place'. its a lesson that is always in the back of my mind. every day there are examples of this. the word 'faggot' is as bad as the word ' ' and yet, it is still socially acceptable. i've heard both, btw, and used with vile. 'gay' is now commonly used as a put down, so much so, that people don't even register it anymore.
"that's so gay, you're so gay, he was so gay."
fairly innoculous and harmless, perhaps, but it shows a mindset.
yes, i know the trial well. i know that there were questions about it being a simple robbery, about it being all about drugs, not him being gay, but in MY mind, what is burned into MY psyche and many gay people, is the image of what could happen - that image will always be associated with the very real danger of being gay.
and yes, some gay men/women are assholes and jerks. Just like some straight men. i have been in situations where i've been hit on by straight guys and when i've told them i'm a lesbian and not interested, they go on about me needing to try it with a real man, about how they can show me a good time, about how i just need one good cock to turn me straight and made it uncomfortable enough for me to get up and leave as well.... not too long ago i got into a physical alteration with a drunk guy at a bar - i was there with my wife, my same sex partner, and he kept hitting on me despite me making it clear i wasn't interested, i was gay, and that i was there with my partner. it took physical violence, something i am not proud of, to get him to back the fuck off, triggered by a comment that i will NOT quote here on the boards....
do i think all straight men are assholes because of that? no. either scenario, the one you described, or the one i did, is wrong. i won't make excused for what you experienced, but it's also not typical. most gay men would find this kind of behavior unexcusable as well. somehow, tho, guys think its ok to do that stuff to girls, but if a gay man comes onto them the same way, it's a huge issue - ever stop to think that, perhaps same gay men do that kind of stuff in response to watching yet another girl get harassed like that? maybe it's to give them a taste of their own medicine.
these posts, btw, mine, aren't meant to belittle you - only to make people think about what they say, about the power of thoughts and words, about how it effects others. i believe the statistic is that 10% of the world's population is gay - on Lush, there is a larger percentage of women who identify as bisexual. take that into account when you make statements that same sex attraction seems unnatural - you might not be comfortable with it, but don't make us feel like pariahs because of that - once again, this is YOUR issue and one YOU need to deal with. don't make it someone elses.
do i have a thin skin about this? yes, sometimes, i do. think about why that might be. think about what it's like to be gay and maybe you'll understand a little better.
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Quote by Poppet
I'm a switch, as is Jamie but there is no need to be THAT picky, if we have the choice to at least have the D/s we can be fair to Gav. Let's give him a break! I can't wait to see if it changes. I really hope it does!
Gav had a break in 2011 - i think he's not due for another 4 more years
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Quote by Willow
Actually I thought lovewhenuswallow's question was a valid one. He said it 'seemed' unnatural to HIM, not to everyone, and asked what it was about licking another female's vagina that turned you on. It seems to me he is trying to see other people's points of view on the subject....
Sometimes the reason we form certain opinions is because they were foisted upon us by our parents and/or religion. I was raised as a catholic and as an adult, it was very difficult to accept these relationships were not 'wrong'. I think some of you are being a little harsh....
this is why he got the fairly nice replies instead of being smacked around - you have to understand that many of us who identify as bi or lesbian or gay have withstood much worse then being called unnatural. we've been victims of bigotry, hate crimes, unequal treatment by our own government, bullied, etc.
yes, i do understand how someone's background colors you to having trouble accepting our relationships, but that is your issue. let's put it this way. exchange gay/lesbian/bi for ANY other minority, and how would it sound? A black man having sex with an Asian girl, why, that seems unnatural to me. Would that be acceptable?
While the replies might seem somewhat harsh to you, i can assure you that i and my same sex partner have been subjected to much worse simply for daring to show normal signs of affection - i'm talking fairly innocent kisses and holding hands here, not going down on each other - in public in less metropolitan areas. i have good friends in the gay community who have gotten much worse treatment.
sorry, yes, at times i feel the need to get up here on my soap box, but sometimes you have to growl a little louder to be heard - i don't like having to do it, but i feel that it's important to make people understand that we, as homosexuals, should be treated with as much respect, no more, no less, than any other human being. most of you are lucky, you will never know what it feels like to be afraid simply because of your sexual preference, something that IS written into your dna, btw. it's not a choice. i'm not sure anyone would CHOOSE to make their life as difficult as it sometimes is.
i'll end this with a name, something i often do, so that i can remember, so that he is never forgotten, so that others really start to understand what being gay can be like still.
Matthew Wayne Shepard.
I suggest you look it up.
ok sorry to get so serious, but it's a serious topic for a lot of people, and a lot of them are here on Lush.
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Quote by Poppet
I think if your profile is of Female it should be "Mistress of" and if Male it should be "Master of" ... We should have the choice of having owned or pet a lot of people prefer certain terms. Us BDSM folk can be a bit picky...
Otherwise, Hell yes we should have it!!!!
It was after all my idea... **Grins**
i beat you too it (and yes, what a picky bunch of people, wait until the switches start adding suggestions!)
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Quote by Kimasa
In the scenario set out by the original question I would have to go through her personal belongings without her knowledge or consent to find her toys in the first place, I would then be using her toys under the same circumstances.
Those being: Dishonest, deceitful, disrespectful and it's also borrowing something without permission which is equal to theft in my opinion
So be it sex toys or any other item of someone else’s private property my answer would be…
No… never
this says it perfectly. i use my wife's toys, and she uses mine, but there is consent there.
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Quote by Nikki703
I had one once. Actually it was for a halloween costume (dont ask, lol). But it isnt something I would wear or want to wear often. They can look sexy but as CD said, there is so much sexier lingerie available.
It really wasnt all that comfortable and can be a real pain in the ass when "nature calls".
ok, consider yourself asked
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Quote by Phaypi
I don't go in the chat rooms very often, but like Sprite, I try to greet every person who joins the chat after me. Coguy could probably attest to that... however it is rather exhausting and I find myself holding multiple conversations, and they begin to drop in value once there's 5 or 6 people who started talking to me. It takes something extra for that starter to become an actually interesting conversation... and then once I'm into a good conversation it's hard to keep up with more new chat members...
That being said, one would have to note I only ever go into the lounge and occasionally member owned chats. I don't cyber post images etc.
What really confuses me is when there are people in the chat that aren't talking to anyone... are they randomly whispering to people? I guess that's what you call "lurkers" but I'm not really a chat person so I wouldn't know...
that - if your're friendly, you also get a little overwhelmed at times and it become a chore to keep track of everyone talking to you to the point of you just start giving up on the less interesting conversations - for the record, i don't do sex chat - if someone wants to talk about something that catches my interest or ask questions, i'm great with that, but the whole 'hey babe, i'm bored and horny' stuff usually won't get a response.
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i always try to say hi to everyone coming into a room if i'm there. that said, it's not always possible. sometimes i am afk, or there's too many coming and going and i lose track, or i am in conversation with someone else and i just don't notice them - i DO try to answer anyone who says hello tho - there's a little bit of personal responsibility there - if you don't say hello, maybe people figure you're a lurker - and if you don't say hello specifically to me, well, i keep track of who is addressing me by when my name shows up in RED font - anything else, if it's moving fast, i am going to miss
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Quote by lovewhenuswallow
So what is it exactly that turns you on about licking another females vagina?Granted from a straight guys perspective it's pretty hot but, when i think of two guys engaging in any type of sex, just seems so unnatural to me.
why would either seem unnatural? sex, by it's very nature is natural. love is natural. yes, perhaps gays and lesbians are in the minority, but that doesn't make them unnatural - red heads are a rare breed too, but i certainly wouldn't look at two red heads making love and think it's unnatural. that kind of thinking leads to bigotry and homophobia, LWS. it leads. don't perpetuate it. embrace it. love is beautiful. what turns me on about licking another girl's vagina is the same thing that turns me on about sucking a guy's cock. it's fun, it makes them feel good, it's sexy, it gives pleasure, and in the case of my same sex partner, it's an expression of love.
