i've changed my mind. no.
i try to get into my characters head, their emotions, their thoughts. personally, i find that i am far more invested into a story if i feel i know the character a little, if i relate to him/her. if i like them, or am intrigued by them. as for the sex, yeah, like Doll said, as for as Lush stories go, i like stories that have a great deal of kink in them, nastier, dirtier stories. i can't get plenty of romance else where, or at least vanilla or soft core romance - yes, there can be a great deal of love between the partners in what i enjoy, in fact, i like that, but just because they are in love, doesn't mean they shouldn't be having hot steamy sex, and hey, there's nothing wrong in just enjoying sex for what it is, whether there is a relationship or not.
quite honestly, not knowing the girl, or anything about your relationship, there's no way of knowing - really, we're all just a bunch of strangers on the internet. probably get a lot of opinions on here, but that doesn't mean any of them will be right.
it's very fun and it makes me smile - just his profile makes me think he would be a lot of fun to just hangout with - oh, and there are cats!
so... why is it when the guys ask about cock size, and one of the girls says something other then "oh, it's not about the size, it's about what he does with it, cock size doesn't matter to me" like when she says "small cocks are shit", she gets jumped on and yet, it's ok (and trust me, i do think it's ok) to discuss tight pussies vs wide pussies and be all "yeah, why would anyone want to fuck a loose vagina?"
just me thinking out loud...
if drinking turns you into a douchebag, then you probably shouldn't drink. if you're a douchebag when sober, than you probably shouldn't go to bars to try to pick up on chicks. if you're going to try to pick up on chicks, you should probably NOT try to pick up on lesbians when they are with their girlfriends. and, if you're going to use a line like 'you're pretty enough to ' after you get your ass REJECTED you probably shouldn't be surprised when the cute little blonde girl beats the living shit out of you. even your friends were laughing at you, and you dumb fuck, if you weren't such an asshole, maybe the roomful of witnesses wouldn't have told the cops you'd started it, you dumb fuck. what kind of stupid waste of DNA are you, that you would say shit like that, anyways, and think it was FUNNY? maybe, next time, you'll think twice. stupid fucking cocksucker. and next time you'll remember that it doesn't matter how small a girl is, if properly motivated she can FUCK YOU UP.
if i leave a score, i leave a comment even if i'm not 'forced to' so really, it doesn't bother me at all - i feel that, if i expect someone to vote and comment on mine, i should have the same respect for theirs , and truly, if i read something to the end, it means i enjoyed it and they deserve to know that i did and why i did.