may i suggest, if you are being bullied here, to report it to the admin and let them look into it? Lush is a community, and although we squabble at times, we stick together. report it. i know it's not something that the site would want to see continue.
favorite event so far. woman's volleyball! how can you not love a team with a member named 'Destiny Hooker'?
most of the men here, the ones i have gotten to know, the ones who have become part of the community, are nice - they're fun, sexy, sweet, and they are respectful - like any other on-line community, there are those who just troll, looking for cyber, or whatever, but they are easy to weed out without a lot of drama and i've never felt the need to to all man-hater in my profile. in fact, i think it's kind of silly.
never let down your guard. the moment you do, someone will find a way to fuck you up.
not in a particular order:
in a relationship
married
it's complicated
in a love triangle
in love
i want my life back. i want to be able to step outside and not be paralyzed with fear. i want to get through just one hour of one day without crying. i want to have normal conversations about normal things. i want the hurt inside to fade like the bruises. i want someone to tell me it's going to be better and believe them. i want to laugh and not having it sound like it's forced. i want to turn back the clock and change everything that happened. i want to stop hurting so much. i want to be able to breath again and to not jump at every sound or touch. i want my life back.
i don't like using the term 'slave', thought my reasoning is a little different than some of yours. growing up in a predominately african-american neighborhood, i associate it with a something a little different. that doesn't mean i don't have the greatest respect for those of you who use it, but for me, it's got one too many meanings attached. i have always used the term sub, and always will - it's just more comfortable for me.
Sasha and Digweed's Northern exposure series have always been my go to for good Trance CDs. May i suggest starting there?
this isn't very good. i didn't spend very much time on it. i needed to write it, though. it doesn't really have a place on the front page, it's not a Love Poem, just some random thoughts. thank you DD for inspiration. i hope i can repay you some day.
If you’d asked to kiss me I might have said yes
Gotten past the peanuts and the curry on your breath
Maybe made an exception for the scratchiness of your beard
If you’d only asked
If you’d asked to buy me a drink I might have thought it over
Although I might have spent the evening talking about my lover
But maybe we could have been friends, one can never know
If you’d only asked
If you’d asked to walk with me I might have said all right
I’d parked out behind the bank again, under the only working light
And after all, it was very late, and there are monsters in the night
If you’d only asked
I am super girl (I’m going to have it tattooed on my wrist
Or perhaps across my fingers, so that when I make twin fists
There will be no doubt at all about who or what I am)
I am super girl and I can do anything.
you really do have 3 black boxes to impress me. btw, i don't do cyber here, but i do converse. if, by the third box i'm bored, i'll start looking for an excuse to say 'later'. don't use 'lines' on me. don't ask me about the weather. say something witty or original or creative or interesting. read my bio first, figure out what we have in common. don't ask me about the weather, tell me you are horny, or just lead with 'wanna chat?'
oh, and don't cal me "babe".
the question you ask is "is it wrong?" Depends. are you planning on asking him how he feels about it or keeping it a secret? omission of truth is the same as lying and fucking him once or 20 times, it's still cheating. and let's be honest here - if he fucks you and you really like it, you're going to want to do it again. it's rarely a one time deal. just my opinion. and really, if your asking anonymous people on the internet you already know the answer and are looking for validation.
but really. I fantasize about spell check 
