For me, it's not a deal breaker. While my wife indulges my bdsm tendencies, for her, it's just sort of fun, not a lifestyle, not a way of being. it's enough to keep me satisfied and not enough to make her feel uncomfortable in a role she isn't fully invested in. we sort of found a place in the middle that keeps us both happy. would i prefer she was a true Domme? yes. would she feel comfortable in that role? No. Does she understand that i "need' to be true sub/pet at times? Yes.
get her a lesbian experience! i'd be happy to donate my wife for a weekend *giggles*
If he really felt bad, he'd offer to pay your medical bills.
i would prefer to stick with Sprite. not a 'true name' i know, but i think it works for me. i hope that's ok?
Personal experience - when i entered into my current relationship with my wife (as opposed to the one with my adorable yet stern and very capable Mistress) there was a certain amount of trepidation. One. it was a relationship changer for us and there was worry that, if it didn't work out, i'd be losing more then just a Mistress. Two. I'd been in BAD bdsm relationships in the past and it's only natural for that to come into play. That all said, i do think that "concern" IS a much better word to insert into the conversation at hand - fear, while perhaps applicable, is fairly strong.
i had no interest in this before i saw the Trailer the other day, and now, it's on my must see list. it looks HILARIOUS! and yeah, i mean, it's Tim Burton (who has only made ONE bad film: Planet of the Apes was painful. it deserved to have poo thrown at it).
you can't have mine! *sticks my tongue out and goes 'nyah nyah nyah'*
i want story with my porn - it it's just a bunch of sex, it's boring. i want to get invested in a story and in the characters and THEN get lots of hot kinky sex.
who are the Beatles? Wasn't that the other band, the one without Justin Timberlake in it? Wait, nevermind, that was the Back Street Boys. Were these Beatle guys at least cute?
so... is she willing to pay YOU for sex, or does she expect you to pay her? that part wasn't quite clear to me. if she's willing to pay, ask her if she likes girls - i could use a little extra spending money. just saying!
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- it is VERY important that there should be no fear! 
) I think we could lose a few members if they found that we were having fun at their expense 