*bounds in at time speed, skids to a halt across the linoleum floor and smile, purring, looking a little dizzy* did somebody call me? *playfully circles kitten dancer, eyes sparkling* a little kink? sometimes more then a little! *giggles*
i like it. it's nice to get recognition - admittedly, this is from someone who ends up on it a lot - in my defense, i haven't whined about it since the 3 bombing era - it's a nice ego boost, even if it's only for 20 seconds, but right now, to be honest, i'm sort of finding that stuff like this doesn't really matter - you write, people read - it's only stories.
Going shopping today, grocery shopping, and i... *blinks* why is everyone looking at me? *giggles*
ok, sorry, but yeah, here's the thing, sometimes topics get played out after a while, everyone involved has said what they need to say and it's just repeating stuff over and over a bit, then someone pops in, sometimes even months later, sometimes that same day, and banter with someone for a bit - honestly, i find it entertaining, even if i'm not involved, and yeah, it's easy enough to get the conversation back on track if you really really want/need to, or at least in most cases.
that said, it DOES bother me when it turns into a flame war, that's a whole different subject - when there's a public spat between two members going on, that has no place in the threads, but when it's just light hearted playfulness? doesn't bother me a bit - of course, that might be because i'm an occasional offender *blushes*
Ok, first off, hi Miss Kitty Meow! one thing i've always thought: guys get the short end of the s stick - i mean, i may be shy about sharing this side of me, but i can get away with being 'cute' and kitteny and wearing ears a lot easier then guys can - they're supposed to be manly, or at least not 'gurly' so yay! *hugs*
and thanks, Kitten, for sharing how sexual this is for you as well, i wasn't sure if i was the odd kitten out there - it's not all about sex play, but yes, sex play does come into it quit a bit and of course, me being me, kitty sex play often comes with kitty bdsm... my sexuality is kind of heightened when i'm kitty girl, i get easily aroused by pretty much anything.
free your inner kitty! *pounces on yarn ball and wrestles with it*
*giggles* and so begins the Lush Kitty Network! thank you kitten, for starting this! oh, and for the record... hi, my name is rachel, and i'm a kitty =^.^= there. if i wasn't officially out before, i am now!
ok, here we go. i'm married (not legally as some of you know - grumbles about the unfairness of it all) and i have had sex out side of the relationship. we have an open relationship to a degree. here's the thing. my wife is aware of it. i am aware of when she sleeps with someone else. we talk about it. it's one thing if it's sanctioned, but if you're going behind someone's back, then it's called cheating. i think, as Nikki said, the pertinent question is: do you love your wife? if the answer it yes, don't do it - this will hurt her. if the answer is no, then break up with her. then, if you want to, you can sleep with whoever you want - that said, if it's with her mom and sister, it's still going to hurt her.
oh, and if they are sending you naked pictures and suggesting you sleep with them, they're just as much to blame as you - doesn't seem like an act of a caring family. also, something to think about - ever ponder if your wife knows, if it's all a conspiracy to catch you with your pants down and divorce your ass and walk away with a smile, all three of them laughing at you as they spend 50% of your income? *evil grin*
there is enough room in my heart for more then one... maybe not true love, but there are more kinds of love, and often, the line blurs enough to include others beyond the woman whom is my soul-mate, and hers does as well, something i am not only comfortable with, but encourage.
