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Her Royal Spriteness
Quote by Magical_felix
I never announce a new story by mass PM, status update or forum banner. I have told a couple friends about a new story I was posting only once and later felt guilty for it. I felt guilty because after I sent the PM I realized I put them in the position of them either voting for my story or them maybe thinking that I would think it was rude of them if they didn't read and vote. One of the reasons I don't like to ask friends to read a story is because I want a more accurate response. I know that if I bug everyone on my list to read and vote, my stories will have more comments and make them appear more popular than they are. Feels like cheating to me I guess.
i've done it a couple of times, perhaps 3, and each time i felt sort of... eh, like i was whoring myself or something, i don't know, it felt a little wrong, and i think i'm done with it - now, i just state in my blog and down at the bottom of my siggy, when i'm not being too lazy to bother, and just sort of trust that people will read it if they want, and if not, their loss, right?
for the record, i would never make an issue of someone not reading, voting, or commenting on a story - yes, i am thrilled to death when they do, but unless i am willing to read and vote and comment on EVERY SINGLE story on the site, how can i get pissy if no one else can, either.
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Quote by Nikki703Quote by Dancing_Doll
No. Most of us have lives to lead outside of masturbation.
It would get very boring, very fast.
Kind of like saying "I like chocolate"... and then asking if someone would like to eat chocolate all day long, every day of their lives. At some point, the pleasure of doing it is going to turn off.
As well, it sounds like this woman has some bizarre OCD like compulsion. I doubt she is enjoying it as much as people want to assume she is.
I totally agree. I feel sorry for this woman. Masturbation should be for pleasure, not because you have an affliction that causes you to involuntarily do it. As with any addiction, it takes control of your life so it isnt a pleasurable experience,
I like to drink and party occaisionally, but I don't want to be an alcoholic or an addict!!
i tend to masturbate a lot, but it's because i enjoy it not because i am forced into doing it. HAVING to do it to this extreme would lead me to resent orgasms. also, can you imagine the humiliation of HAVING to masturbate at work? everyone would know about it, i'm sure, and i doubt their comments would be pleasant to endure. the humiliation alone would create a very uncomfortable atmostphere.
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Quote by bubbles21Quote by spriteQuote by LittleMissBitch
i think i can safely say that ive gotten to try everything ive ever wanted to try at this point..
i do have some fantasies that are best left fantasy ;)
you haven't slept with me yet! seriously, that's got to be on the list somewhere, right?*giggles*
Well Sprite, It's on my list
*giggles* my list is getting kind of out of hand - i think i need to start an excel spread sheet pretty soon
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Sadly, i get into a lot of pretty intense arguments with my editor... and i self edit! i can only imagine what it would be like for someone poor soul to take over the job. In all seriousness, yeah, i can be stubborn - one of the reasons i've never seriously looked into writing for money is that very reason - i don't tend to play well with others when it comes to writing - that said, i've never sat down and really given it a serious try before - i am beginning to rethink that on some levels - it would be an interesting experiment - i mean, i've never even used a beta - yeah, i know, i know, don't lecture me already part of the issue, admittedly, is i am kind of insecure about my writing and i'm not sure i take 'constructive' criticism well - unless it's given out by a paddle wielding woman wearing leather... i wonder if that could be arranged!
Looking for: Domme/editor. Must be willing to tie me down and punish me for grammatical errors, typos, spelling mistakes, and aimless plots. Apply in person.
part of the issue, admittedly, is i am kind of insecure about my writing and i'm not sure i take 'constructive' criticism well - unless it's given out by a paddle wielding woman wearing leather... i wonder if that could be arranged!Looking for: Domme/editor. Must be willing to tie me down and punish me for grammatical errors, typos, spelling mistakes, and aimless plots. Apply in person.
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Quote by LittleMissBitch
i think i can safely say that ive gotten to try everything ive ever wanted to try at this point..
i do have some fantasies that are best left fantasy ;)
you haven't slept with me yet! seriously, that's got to be on the list somewhere, right?
*giggles* 
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pervert:
Noun: A person whose sexual behavior is regarded as abnormal and unacceptable.
for the record, i object to the use of the word pervert - it suggests that the sexual urges and fetishes we indulge in are unnatural. Quite the contrary, they are quite natural and there is nothing wrong with any of us, be we into being tied up, cross dressing, dressing up as furry animals, role playing pirates, being fucked in the ass, having group sex, sex with the same gender, pissing on each other, being spanked, etc. all of that is perfectly normal behavior in my book.
now, if you're asking why there are not more women who are sexually adventurous, may i suggest you just take a look around at the women of Lush? i think you'll find as many 'diry girls' into a wide variety of kinks as you do guys, perhaps even more.
Noun: A person whose sexual behavior is regarded as abnormal and unacceptable.
for the record, i object to the use of the word pervert - it suggests that the sexual urges and fetishes we indulge in are unnatural. Quite the contrary, they are quite natural and there is nothing wrong with any of us, be we into being tied up, cross dressing, dressing up as furry animals, role playing pirates, being fucked in the ass, having group sex, sex with the same gender, pissing on each other, being spanked, etc. all of that is perfectly normal behavior in my book.
now, if you're asking why there are not more women who are sexually adventurous, may i suggest you just take a look around at the women of Lush? i think you'll find as many 'diry girls' into a wide variety of kinks as you do guys, perhaps even more.
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i want to scuba dive. I love watching nature programs about the underwater world - all the beautiful tropical fish and corals and the colors and it's like another world - sadly, i am deathly afraid of the water and i can't swim, but i am slowly working in that direction.