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Quote by delacruzinforjosh




If it's so common, then why is nonsexual D/S so obscure? Why does it seem to be always about sex?

If there was sex involved, I'd nope out of there so fast it's scary. (Sensual things like kissing and cuddling would be okay though.)


if you're looking online, on Lush, for example, most people here are going to be looking for the sexual aspect. i imagine that, if you do a search, tho, there have to be like-minded people. might be a little harder to find, but i assume they are out there. you're not unique in this.
Quote by delacruzinforjosh


I like to think it does. D/S, for me, if I were to try it irl, would be a purely emotional and non-sexual thing. What I would be after is the feeling of being protected and knowing somebody would be there to care for me.


it's different for everyone. for some, it's very sexual. for others, not at all. most probably fall somewhere in the middle. for me, the sex is a huge part of it, but the emotional support needs to be there as well and there are times when we're together that it's not sexual at all. depends on what my needs are. there's a fit for everyone, it's just a matter of finding the right person.
Quote by Liz
No Nazis allowed.

This isn't CPAC.


No, but it could be described as CRAP.
Quote by Stormdog


As I recall, you were the one in the Gestapo cap and shiny black boots (and nothing else...) and carrying the riding crop. Not that there's anything wrong with that!


*checks out your bare ass on the bike and just grins*
Quote by Osman
I recently resurrected my old fetlife acount.

I was amazed at all the new fetishes. Things I never would have thought of. I saw "Wartenburg Pinwheels" and I did a google search.

And they are the devices that I used to use with patients with spinal chord injuries to test sensation. I have seen them on Kink.com but I never really thought of them as a sexual device.

Along with the electrical stuff I would do, now I can see why many of my female patients developed a pain pleasure dynamic with me.


yeah, those have actually been around as 'sex toys' for as long as i can recall. the TENS units and things like violet wands too. my Mistress actually is into the medical fetish scene so I've gotten a first-hand education - that said, i would never go to my physician to get my fix - that pretty much crosses the line on non-consent for me.
Quote by KimmiBeGood
Thank you, Daddy D and James!
Here's two more ... did lots of walking today



those are gorgeous, Kimmi. I am envious. smile
Quote by kistinspencil


double ditto you


and back atcha again, beautiful.
btw, the rest of you guys are all awesome. thank you very much. i love you all.
Quote by firmdreamer012
you people are entirely, too sensitive. I was not putting anyone down. I'm sooooo sorry your sensitive about ancient history you didn't actually experience. "Nazi" is just short for, in this case: someone who thinks ( My apologies dear.) rather than (My apologies, dear.) is some grave grammatical sin. call me crazy but that didn't seem like a concise forum title. I'm sorry I triggered you, snowflake.


i'm sorry. did i touch a nerve? btw, i'm not sensitive about it at all. just calling you out on calling someone a nazi simply because you don't like their "stringent edits" how about if i call you a commie for you improper grammar in your forum post header? and yes, Nazis still exist. nazi is actually short for National Socialist German Workers' Party.

lol yes, i am such a snowflake, mister Omg, the mods are nazis cause they insist on proper grammar! dude. get over yourself. if you don't like how things are run here, go try xxnx - they don't bother to edit for anything, including content.

i'm a little snowflake, short and blonde,
here is my handle, here is my wand,
when you tip me over, words spill out
when you use bad grammar, i give out a shout

*curtsies*
Quote by firmdreamer012
Woah, clearly I hit a nerve. something you hear often? btw capitalize sentences. smh


don't dis my style, mister passive-aggressive. been posting for 10 years in forums without capitalizing, not gonna star now. btw "lush Editor's"should have been written thusly; "Lush editors." no apostrophe. and no, it's not something i hear often but my grandparents were forced to flee France when the Nazi's invaded, so i'm not overly fond of the comparison (she says, being totally passive-aggressive).

ps. "Let's" not "lets". sounds like you could use an editor.
a bunch of fucking nazi's, imo. probably should just get rid of all of them. thanks for joining just to post this. totally made my day after slogging through a dozen stories that needed lots of work cause they couldn't be bothered to run a simple grammar check. you are awesome.
Quote by VioletVixen
Is it possible to update the gender and sexuality options on profile pages? I know many users on here are non-binary/ genderqueer/ intersex etc. Many people also identify their sexuality as queer. Sometimes it's hard to put yourself in an available box. Just putting it out there.


i forget, do we only have M or F now? i think we talked about adding, but i'm not sure if it happened. do my a fav, and PM me a list of what should be added, and I'll see what i can do. just be aware that it might not happen or might not happen quickly. that said, i would like to be all inclusive, so i'll give it a push, if i can.
Quote by Osman


Have you noticed a difference in the categories that they use in Jeopardy?

I find that there is far less fine arts topics like opera and Broadway since Ken Jennings took over.

Over all it seems that the questions are easier than usual. This might be because they seem to only be accepting contestants from California since the pandemic began.


Some of the final jeopardy questions have been really hard. The rest is kind of a mix. The first round does seem a little easier, but not annoyingly so. And Ken was rough at first but is settling in now. That said, it's impossible to really replace Alex.
Quote by seeker4


So, how is it? I was a fan of the books and the first TV version from the eighties (which starred, among others, future Dr. Who Peter Davison) but I have not heard much about the new TV show yet.



i loved reading the books too and, while the series is kind of abbreviated, it's very well cast and keeps the flavor perfectly. highly recommended. smile
currently.

All Creatures Great and Small
Wandavision
Zoey's extraordinary playlist
and, of course, jeopardy.
Quote by purplmunky
West Coast represent!! I love Southern belles though


shout out and big hiya from an ex-East Oaktown girl.
Quote by IMPÜRETHOUGHTS






I have no idea what or who Big Black may be--who is that?



i taught her everything she knows, and yet she ignores me and actually does work around her. impressive. and thank you so much, Tam. You are a treasure, not only as a mod, but as a friend. i am not sure how i made it through my days before there was you. heart
Quote by sensual_pleasures


I totally get the multiple reasons people are here. While I am here for both socializing (specially in these forced non-social times) and writing, I certainly understand other motivations. Know that I am not asking to force those who just want to write stories to socialize. That would not be fair nor appropriate. But from a readers perspective, it would be nice to have at least a more mature/professional presentation of the author. To be honest, there are times when I see a blank profile and I will not even start to read their story. It could be something as simple as an avatar and a statement about their writing. What is the focus (broad or focused). Just so we know something. It does not need to be personal information at all.

Hope this helps. I would never ask to force others to share information here that they are not comfortable with. That can be the beauty of the place. For the stories though, I think it would help to make it a more mature presentation.


people have different comfort levels. for some of us, writing and publishing an erotic story here isn't a big deal, but i am sure that, for some, it is, for whatever reason, and i certainly don't want to discourage anyone from doing so in a way that they are comfortable with if they want to do so in what they consider anonymity. all that we ask is that stories follow the TOS and are of a certain quality. i want to be as welcoming as possible to anyone and everyone that wants to submit their stories here. smile
Quote by Liz
Does anyone make a decent cocktail with Elderflower Liqueur?

I love elderflower.


*pulls the petals off some old flowers, dumps them in a glass of vodka. adds chocolate, serves* don't say I've never done anything for you.
Quote by LYFBUZ
Cream then jam you Philistines. As uxblr graciously explained the cream is in place of the butter. Do you jam your toast first then put on the butter?

This order of construction provides the optimum viscosity of surface (the cream) against the jam to optimize the interplay of flavours between scone, cream and jam. Anything else is heresy.


i do. smile
Quote by IMPÜRETHOUGHTS




Thankyou for the heads up, Gav.

It's 2:52PM PST now.





2:55, actually.9ZCeOddsyoa7J9ki
this is the poem i DIDN"t submit, btw...

Fuck love
Just walk away with your finger up in the air
Fuck love
fuck heart shaped candy and that stupid Vermont bear
fuck love
don’t buy into it, don’t give a shit, don’t care
fuck love
just fuck it all, now get me another beer
cause I got a story to tell…

Down in the hood on a Friday night baby cakes breaking some hearts
Cupid drove by in a 67 chevy with a glock loaded up with darts
Hit me in the side of the head
wish those crazies had left me for dead
next thing I know got me laying up in bed
wedding gown, diamond ring, and all the little angels singing
but me? I got a different song, and it goes like this…

Fuck love
Got myself a blow up doll gonna fuck it all night long
Fuck love
Best girl I ever had, never tells me when I’m wrong
Fuck love
I’m on top of the world feeling like King Kong
Fuck love
Put on that song, pass the bong, and baby, T-rex is gonna bang that gong

Two years latter met a chick into skaters did it in my tricked out van
When Cupid showed up with his finger on the trigger so I grabbed my pants and ran
Hit me dead in in my psychic eye
Not going to sugar coat it and try to lie
Ended up face down slurping on her pie
Wound up in Vegas in a threesome with Fat Elvis, humping velvet pelvis
Dancing to our favorite song, it went like this…

Fuck love...
Quote by TerriMedic


Have heard of 1 hors town and one stop light town. One snow plow town is a new one. Must be quite exciting to see it. Enjoy the 8 inches

T



8 inches is hard not to enjoy. ;) lol i have actually never seen it in action. it's just something we talk about and assume it actually exists.
Quote by noll


Want some?


buttered? or, even better... kettle korn? mmmm.