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theweeman
Over 90 days ago
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Tottenham.
Amongst all the City's, United's and Rovers there is only ONE Hotspur.
And it looks like we are about to win the world cup too... Trippier Dele Harry Dier & Rose v Alderwiereld Jan & Dembele.
Cant believe Southgate would rather play a right footed Young at left back than Danny
Amongst all the City's, United's and Rovers there is only ONE Hotspur.
And it looks like we are about to win the world cup too... Trippier Dele Harry Dier & Rose v Alderwiereld Jan & Dembele.
Cant believe Southgate would rather play a right footed Young at left back than Danny
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Whilst I agree that Neymar is too busy cheating and diving to be taken seriously, against Mexico he WAS stomped on and the Mexican should have seen a red card.
Russia have had the benefit of a few dodgy decisions so far - not least against Spain who were denied a clear penalty in the last minute of their match.
Croatia v Russia is about to start to complete the final 4.....hoping that Croatia win because Russia arent good enough to beat England in the semi...
This has been a fantastic world cup. It seems like every team in every game is out there to try and win...apart from that Denmark v France carve up in the group stages!
Russia have had the benefit of a few dodgy decisions so far - not least against Spain who were denied a clear penalty in the last minute of their match.
Croatia v Russia is about to start to complete the final 4.....hoping that Croatia win because Russia arent good enough to beat England in the semi...
This has been a fantastic world cup. It seems like every team in every game is out there to try and win...apart from that Denmark v France carve up in the group stages!
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Of the two I would prefer a paddle, however two other implements are my favourites... Firstly the bare hand.... nothing makes me feel more loved than being naked across my Mistress's lap, and feeling her bare hand spanking me. There is an intimacy that cpmes from the touch of flesh on flesh. Secondly, the riding crop. I love the sting of it, i love the marks it leaves and love it when Mistress gently runs the leather tip across my balls. One of the joys of life.....
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love those Germany memes!
Though I love Messi I was gutted that Argentina scraped thru - they definitely did not deserve it. They are seriously a shite team.
Currently watching England deliberately lose to Belgium......They think they will beat Colombia in the next round....LOL
Spain v Belgium final
Espana to win it....
Though I love Messi I was gutted that Argentina scraped thru - they definitely did not deserve it. They are seriously a shite team.
Currently watching England deliberately lose to Belgium......They think they will beat Colombia in the next round....LOL
Spain v Belgium final
Espana to win it....
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when I was 22 i was seduced by my married midweek tennis partner - she was 39 at the time. The affair lasted 6 months and was wonderful.....I played tennis with her husband on weekends. If he had found out he would have killed me... he was much bigger and stronger than I was.... I moved overseas and that's when it ended.....but i did hear that he found out after I had gone. I have been counting my blessings ever since
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It has been a fantastic tournament so far... everyone loves Iceland of course but they are as good as gone now unfortunately..... unless some teams show a dramatic improvement it looks like Spain or Belgium to me.... don't write Harry Kane's England off yet either.....
Interesting watching Argentina v Hrvatska yesterday... i always like watching a good spanking.... rather be on the end of one though!!!
Interesting watching Argentina v Hrvatska yesterday... i always like watching a good spanking.... rather be on the end of one though!!!
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It depends how open you are in talking to each other about your sexual wants desires and fantasies. If you are open with each other, perhaps bring it up in general conversation.... "i love how he/she dominates her in that tv program/movie.." see what the reaction is a gauge from there....
For all it's faults and unreality, the 50 shades series allows us to open up bdsm discussion. eg "You're a bit like that girl in 50 shades are you?" etc
For all it's faults and unreality, the 50 shades series allows us to open up bdsm discussion. eg "You're a bit like that girl in 50 shades are you?" etc
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Yes. Like anneread, i have always known it to be treating a sub as a urinal. It does belong in the bdsm world as it is a (severe) form of control and humiliation. Like many fetishes, it isnt for everyone, but clearly it has and is something that some enjoy.
My undersanding is that drinking urine, from a health perspective, is relatively safe. It snt somethng that i personally have done though
My undersanding is that drinking urine, from a health perspective, is relatively safe. It snt somethng that i personally have done though
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It is quite likely different for females than it is for males. When i had my Mistress, she had trained me somewhat not to cum unless she gave permission. As previously suggested, this was done by bringing me to the edge and then slowing down. I was also forbidden to masturbate unless in her presence, which meant that I sometimes didn't cum for a fortnight or longer. I couldn't honestly say that she would command "cum" and i would cum, but often once given the command i could cum with just a couple of strokes.
Of course part of my training in this area was severe punishments if i did cum without permission, and i often returned home with a purple bottom, for being such a naughty boy.
Of course part of my training in this area was severe punishments if i did cum without permission, and i often returned home with a purple bottom, for being such a naughty boy.
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I've always known I was submissive but never knew what that really was. That is, I always allowed others to have their way and I recall, as a teen, being turned on by older women "looking after me".
As I grew into an adult I kept a desire to be dominated hidden, even from my wife, though she playfully spanked me a couple of times. Eventually (around the time i was about 40, I started looking around online and met a wonderful Mistress who I had an 8 year relationship with. She taught me so much and brought so much of my inner self out, encouraging me to be open with her about my fetishes and desires, which I was.
As I grew into an adult I kept a desire to be dominated hidden, even from my wife, though she playfully spanked me a couple of times. Eventually (around the time i was about 40, I started looking around online and met a wonderful Mistress who I had an 8 year relationship with. She taught me so much and brought so much of my inner self out, encouraging me to be open with her about my fetishes and desires, which I was.
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I love to be spanked but my favourite is the crop. My preference is to be naked with my Mistress fully clothed. I do like to be across her lap, however the use of some implements makes it more practical for me to be on all fours on the bed, so that a full swing can take effect.
When it starts I am nearly always fully erect. The spanking really starts to take effect though, once the erection has subsided. At that point it is the pain kicking in and not the sexual arousal, although for me there is always some sexual arousal.
I love to feel the crop being gently rubbed across my buttocks in between sets. I love feeling it gently dragged between my cheeks until it touches my scrotum. I love that I know this will lead to more punishment. I love the feel of new implements be they wooden spoon, table tennis paddle or leather strap. I have not yet been caned - we were always fearful of leaving too long lasting marks (since our relationship was illicit) - but I am keen to feel that pain the cane provides. But despite all that my absolute favourite is feeling Her hand caress my burning cheeks.
When the spanking is over and the tears are still in my eyes i love - I absolutely love - being cradled by Mistress and watching whilst she releases a breast for my mouth to suckle. Lying across her lap suckling after a hard painful spanking is when i feel most at peace.
When it starts I am nearly always fully erect. The spanking really starts to take effect though, once the erection has subsided. At that point it is the pain kicking in and not the sexual arousal, although for me there is always some sexual arousal.
I love to feel the crop being gently rubbed across my buttocks in between sets. I love feeling it gently dragged between my cheeks until it touches my scrotum. I love that I know this will lead to more punishment. I love the feel of new implements be they wooden spoon, table tennis paddle or leather strap. I have not yet been caned - we were always fearful of leaving too long lasting marks (since our relationship was illicit) - but I am keen to feel that pain the cane provides. But despite all that my absolute favourite is feeling Her hand caress my burning cheeks.
When the spanking is over and the tears are still in my eyes i love - I absolutely love - being cradled by Mistress and watching whilst she releases a breast for my mouth to suckle. Lying across her lap suckling after a hard painful spanking is when i feel most at peace.
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I am naturally submissive to Women, but would be comfortable being a sub to a man.
Whilst I am definitely submissive there is a streak in me that would like to explore switching, at least as far as spanking a woman, though I don't think i could adequately dominate.
Whilst I am definitely submissive there is a streak in me that would like to explore switching, at least as far as spanking a woman, though I don't think i could adequately dominate.
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Obviously, because we are all different, we all have different needs or wants from our Dom/mes.
For me it is important that I am spanked often and spanked hard. I equate spankings with love. That is, when my Mistress spanks me, it is then that i feel She loves me. When I am not spanked I feel She doesn't care. It is the one thing that sets us apart from other couples. Without the discipline we are just good friends... very good friends, yes, but just friends.
As a submissive i am offering my body up to her to use as She wants and She takes that offering and uses it because She loves me. If She isn't taking the offering, then where is the love?
For me it is important that I am spanked often and spanked hard. I equate spankings with love. That is, when my Mistress spanks me, it is then that i feel She loves me. When I am not spanked I feel She doesn't care. It is the one thing that sets us apart from other couples. Without the discipline we are just good friends... very good friends, yes, but just friends.
As a submissive i am offering my body up to her to use as She wants and She takes that offering and uses it because She loves me. If She isn't taking the offering, then where is the love?