I've been lucky enough to have had at least one girlfriend who was absolutely open about her sexuality and was entirely accepting of mine, and actually some of the stranger aspects she found arousing. We've since moved on and I'm actually deathly afraid of being as open to anyone else as I was with her.
So this brings me to my questions: How important is sexual openness in a relationship? To what extent would you be accepting of/willing to try some of the kinky things your lover likes? And finally: What are some of the strange things you like? (Adhere to Lush rules, please)
I'll tell you a little story about me. When I was young, I was a gymnast. I participated for a few years, and I got pretty flexible. This was before I even knew what sex or masturbation were, but one day I got curious I decided to try to put my penis in my mouth. Long story short, I was able to suck myself off before I even knew what masturbation was. I told this story to the girl I was with my senior year of highschool, and to my surprise, her reaction was "I want to see." (At that point I was less flexible and could only lick the head) Apparently girls like that sort of thing, because she told a friend from her hometown that her boyfriend could lick his own dick, and she responded: "Lucky!" It's something special when your dirty little secrets are a turn-on for your significant other.
So let's here your stories.
