My late wife enjoyed watching me. It started out guite innocently. We were sitting in our lounge one winter evening, she was on her phone and I watching a program on TV. I had a throw across my lap and legs, I was scratching my thigh under the throw and she looked over and asked what I was doing. I replied I was watching the TV program. She said, no not that, what are doing under the throw? I said I was scratching my leg. She responded with sure you were. I defended myself asserting that I was. She told me to let her see, so I pulled the throw back and showed her that nothing untold was happening. She was disappointed and remarked that she had been hopeful that she was going to get to see a "show". A short while later I asked her if she was serious about seeing a show to which she replied enthusiastically yes. I was encouraged, and managed to drop my pajama pants to my knees under the throw without her noticing. I started to fondle myself and got hard. At that point I started being more obvious with my movements. She looked over from her phone and asked if I was scratching again. I replied with what do you think as I pulled the throw aside and allowed her to see what I was up to. She set her phone aside and stared intently at the action. Per her request I removed the throw and pajama pants completely, turned to face her and spread my legs to give her a private "show". She encouraged me to go slower, then faster, then slower. She essentially had me edge myself for a while until she ready to see me spurt my load. It became a somewhat regular thing from then on, either her asking for a "show" or me asking if she wanted a "show" a couple of times per month. I figured if she was into it and enjoyed watching the least I could do was accommodate her.
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Thx for that, it’s good to hear that we all fantasize about pegging, I know I’ve started to, hence the topic. I’m trying to anticipate /abate her concerns or possible objections , maybe over thinking this , certainly could be relationship challenge if idea is distasteful. Honestly , We are a little vanilla but not done exploring.. plenty of oral, toys, stories as stimulus
I'm not a female, but since you listed stories, to your knowledge has she read any stories with pegging or other types of anal play for the male partner in them? That might be a way to introduce the topic. As you listed toys, another way to introduce her to the idea may be with a prostate massager.
It is a recent development for me. It started about a couple of years ago or so with manscaping, which escalated to a seriously close trim, which has escalated further to shaving around the base of my cock and my balls. Now it is a regular thing... with the full approval of my wife. She seems to rather enjoy the unobstructed view of the manscape.
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So my husband is very apprehensive when it comes to anything that has to do with his asshole. He won't let me lick it, finger it, blow, nothing. He claims down there is "gross" since he shits every day, even though he's a clean guy. And yet, the man would buy a condo inside my ass if he could with how much he enjoys being back there. Have any of you guys not been into anal and were somehow persuaded? I mean I don't wanna peg the guy (okay I really want to fucking peg him while milking him DRY but I can bide my time until he gets comfortable enough) but I just want to give him one of those prostate orgasms really bad
My wife eased me in to it over time. From fondling my balls during a blowjob she would ease down and massage my perineum, gradually over time she would "slip" and graze my hole. Over time she progressed and without a negative reaction from me she increased the frequency and amount of attention she paid to those places. I derived pleasure from her attention so I never attempted to stop her, which she took as passive permission to experiment more and more. Eventually that lead to her giving me a blowjob with her finger in my ass massaging my prostate. Gradual experimentation while in the midst of ecstasy can work wonders... I no longer consider it an exit only hole.