After I ended my six-year relationship, I did a hard reset on my life. I would focus on my hobbies, explore new things, and do more exercise. I committed to being happy on my own for a while and not pursuing a relationship. I had the romantic idea that if I relaxed and did my own thing, I would meet some new love interests the slow, old-fashioned way. Sure, I met some people and had some flings, but they were few and far...

I’ve always had some interest in women. When I was in college, I would occasionally have a crush on a girl in my class or a female friend. Although I think, on average, women are nicer to look at than men, my interest was never high enough to go beyond a few kisses. Although I was theoretically open to women, it seemed like a daunting task to have to rethink all my assumptions about dating dynamics and strategy, let alone...