Sorry I thought I posted this after the Gal's one. I understand this is the Guy's section, but I'll give my 2 cents as promised yesterday, as a female who has unwillingly experienced receiving unsolicited prick pics.
Whether it's through the Chat PM, Lush email, or album invite (showcasing "their" unprepossessing genitalia), in my perspective, unbidden venereal things can be appalling. Be it the prick pics, nasty GIFs/pics, or lascivious messages, it's disrespectful. No one in their right mind texts random people with their noodle and ask things such as "Do I like it? How do I rate it? Would I like to suck and ride it? Would I like him to do (that) to me?" NOPE.
The only attention it ever received was a disturbing moment of total disgust before it was deleted. I tell the perp that it's offensive and he has unacceptable behaviour followed by reporting and blocking.
They're nonchalant with assertions especially when no one else sees it. If they push their small dick energy, I address them in the open room, especially when I can't reply in PM because I ran out of juice. But even when I can reply to the PM, the open room is a more effective venue. I learned from experience that they'll repeat it unless they're called out in public. Some perps stop probably because of embarrassment that other women and men will know about their sick tricks. Their rubbish line saying I caused that (boner) is hysterical. Those images have been sent to other women with the same line, as confirmed by a bunch.
A few resorted to aggression, calling me rude and cruel words for not getting their desired response, as if they were to be revered for letting me see their unsought fugly penis. They should be ashamed of their repugnant transgression. I give credit where it is due.
Oh, and it's not only men. Some "women" also similarly send unsolicited sexual stuff. If anything, that's cringey.
It's unfathomable why some people do it. A few articles mentioned cyberflashers do it for either power play, pleasure, or praise. They crave control and feel empowered that they can do it without serious repercussion especially to the victims who appear vulnerable and helpless. They like knowing that certain people saw their picture or act and take pleasure from it, even if it offends the involuntary party. Furthermore, they enjoy the slim chances of praise (or in some instances, humiliation for some submissives) when someone likes what they sent. Unfortunately, in this digital age, places that have passed cyberflashing into law are limited and quite poorly implemented.
Being an exhibitionist is not an excuse to cyberflash anyone. Worse, some even send another guy's stolen dong photo. Smarmy, unctuous comments (if given) in one's allusion for credit are false praise, making them pitiful, horrible and flowing with small dick energy.
I appreciate that there are people proactively standing up, who do not condone this malicious act.