My wife and I have been married for almost twenty years. Despite getting older, we both managed to keep our youthful appearance. As such, people swear we are both in our early to mid-thirties despite being in our mid-forties.
As a background about myself: I'd always been a traditional guy of Irish heritage. Monogamous, cautious, and not particularly adventurous sexually. Even when opportunities presented themselves in my younger years, I usually played it safe. I’d say I was average-looking, but I was always muscular because working out had been a part of my life since I was around fourteen. As such, I still work out four to six days per week. However, a few years ago, I felt like I was slowing down a bit and becoming generally unmotivated. It was around that time that I decided to start taking testosterone to help with recovery and overall drive.
Within a few weeks, I absolutely noticed the difference in being on testosterone. I got more muscular and stronger than I’ve ever been, despite my age. Also, I noticed that my sex drive went into overdrive. Some days, it’s so bad that I would masturbate up to three times in a day and still have sex with my wife that night. I’ve also noticed that my fantasies were getting kinkier and kinkier. I’d say this is somewhat of an unfamiliar territory for me, as I've probably had a typical sex drive and was vanilla, sexually, in terms of wants and desires.
Also, I’ve always been a bit on the shy side. However, I’d only open up and get confident when I either knew you well or had a few drinks. Even though I wasn’t particularly adventurous sexually, partying allowed me to have some one-night stands, but I never had any threesomes or participated in group sex. For a brief period of maybe a year or so, I had a fuckbuddy before I met my wife. Then one night after we were at a local bar, my fuckbuddy said her friend was interested in me. She wasn’t a complete knockout, but she looked decent, tall, and fuckable. I really wanted to see if they would be down for a threesome. But being the risk-averse person that I am, I was worried that if I pushed for it, my fuck buddy might have taken it the wrong way. So, I figured I'd play it safe because I didn’t want to give up the opportunity to have sex on a semi-regular basis. In hindsight, if I could do it all over again, I would have at least tried to see how she felt about that.
Additionally, since I was always loyal and never strayed, I would have never asked any of my ex-girlfriends about bringing in another girl for threesome, even though I wanted one. I certainly wouldn’t have thought about a threesome involving another guy. The reason is, I’m sure my insecurity and jealousy would have gotten the best of me. In fact, I remember being surprised a bit when my last ex-girlfriend said she fantasized about having two guys at once. I remember feeling a bit concerned about that. But honestly, it kind of turned me on, which kind of bothered me. My inner thoughts were, why did I just fantasize about that? Why would any guy share his girlfriend in a threesome? What if she got more pleasure from the third wheel, which was a real possibility?
How would I feel about that? Maybe it’s because I was in my early 20s, so I probably wasn’t mature or secure enough to handle that. However, that relationship only lasted a couple years as we mutually broke up, but stayed on good terms and even had sex on occasion. But that came to an end as well once I met my wife.
Between the period of breaking up with my ex-girlfriend and meeting my wife, I met my fuck buddy. It was also in that period that I had a few one-night stands but nothing serious. Then I met my wife on an interracial dating site.
My wife was and still is so hot. Honestly, I couldn’t believe she was interested in me. I even felt like she was a bit out of my league. She is a beautiful black woman, born in the Caribbean but moved to Brooklyn when she was twelve and settled in the East Flatbush neighborhood, which is an exclusively black Caribbean neighborhood. I on the other hand was from Bay Ridge (Brooklyn) which was a predominantly Irish and Italian neighborhood. My wife is short, with a killer body and kept her hair in wavy braids. Now, I’ve always been attracted to black girls. In fact, my ex and fuckbuddy were both black girls, but I never held myself exclusive to one race or religion. After a year of dating her, I proposed and we were married ten months later. In the meantime, I finished my MBA and she passed her RN exam.
After we got married, we lived a quiet life. We’d go out to some restaurants and an occasional bar in Manhattan, but we mostly stayed local in Bay Ridge, which has fantastic restaurants and some decent nightlife. Our son was born a few years after we got married, and we lived our lives raising a kid who got into travel sports. So much of our time and money was poured into him, so we didn’t get as much time alone, but that was okay.
Now my wife has a freakier side to her, but she, like me, has always been risk adverse. She has told me that she would do a lot more sexually if it weren’t for diseases and possibly other factors. In the past, she has mentioned certain celebrities that had open marriages as if she might be interested in opening it up or maybe exploring swinging. At the time, I’m not sure I could mentally handle the thought of seeing my wife with another guy, so I just played it off and basically didn’t respond.
As our son got older and into high school, it meant he could do much more on his own and therefore we had more free time. I also noticed that we started having sex more often. In fact, I still get extremely turned on every time she gets naked. The one thing she loves is when I suck on her breasts. Truth be told, I think I like it even more. Additionally, she gives amazing head as she can take me deep in her mouth and is incredible in bed. In addition, she is very orgasmic, so once she starts, she doesn’t want to stop. Honesty, seeing her get extreme pleasure is very important to me. Therefore, seeing her cum turns me on so much.
Now that my testosterone was through the roof, I was always horny and getting a bit more forward. But I still probed lightly, to see how she felt about certain things. One day I told her I had a dream that we were in a sex club. It wasn’t true, but I wanted to see her reaction to get a gauge on her thoughts on the subject. She kind of got excited about it, because she definitely has a freakier side that she wants to tap into. But I could see that she was a bit hesitant once she gave it a second thought. Consequently, she suggested that I do some looking into it. At my earliest convenience, I started my research about the swinger lifestyle.
My internet exploration showed the various swingers club's in New York. More importantly, I also learned the etiquette that appears to be standard in the “lifestyle”. However, when I brought it up, she kind of shot that down as she said she wasn’t ready to see me have sex with other women. I told her it’s not like that. I said we should just watch and see if it turns us on because I have a voyeur streak about me.
She was like aren’t you supposed to have sex with other people there? I told her no. In fact, most people that go there for the first couple of times just go there to watch, and don’t play with others. I also explained to her that even those active in the lifestyle don’t swap every single time in the club. Either way, she kind of shut it down, so I dropped it.
A few weeks later, we are having sex and talking dirty, and she was like I want to take you to a strip club. I mentioned to her that she could get jealous if a stripper gave me a lap dance and therefore a swinger’s club would be better because you certainly don’t have to touch or be touched by anyone if you don’t want to be. She responded that she would think about it , but she sounded a bit skeptical. Not long after that, we are watching porn together. In the scene a woman is masturbating while watching a couple fuck. I asked her if women would really do that because men certainly would. She said of course, then she shocked me by saying if I saw you fucking another woman, I’d masturbate to it. I was so turned on but played it cool, so I wasn’t taking her too seriously. The reason being is she had told me on several occasions that she wanted to give me a threesome, but then said she would probably get very jealous if I was fucking another woman. So, I was clearly getting mixed signals, but I didn’t say anything or bring up the fact that I wanted a threesome as well.
Maybe a week or two later, when we were fucking, I was sucking on her breasts, and she said how turned on she was. Then she casually mentioned how great it would be if another guy was sucking on her breasts, while I was fucking her. I laughed and agreed, but inside my heart was pounding.
A few years earlier that comment would have bothered me. Instead, I spent the next week replaying it in my head. I wanted to open up more to her so I told her that it would be extremely hot. I think she was surprised by my reaction because in her mind most men are very territorial. However, what I didn’t tell her was my testosterone treatments had me so charged sexually that I had been fantasizing about her getting split roasted by me and another guy. I was afraid to tell her because I was worried she might view me differently. Despite that slight ping of jealousy when I fantasize about that, I get that split roast fantasy all the time now. In fact, I found myself watching a lot of MFM homemade porn.
After she told me for months that she wanted to go to a strip club, we finally made it to one. She said it turned her on to see me get a lap dance. She didn’t hide it either because she started rubbing my hard dick afterward while laughing at me. I guess the strip club was an icebreaker because she finally agreed to go to a local swinger's club, but no playing with others was the rule. I was totally cool with that because I wasn’t ready for that either. More than anything, I was curious about what it was like in those places.
Furthermore, I've never seen people fuck in front of me but always wanted to see it. However, I wasn't sure if I'd get turned on or not, or if my wife would get turned off by seeing it. I figured she would like it because he loves freaky porn, especially orgies.
Before arriving to the swinger’s club, I was really nervous and excited at the same time. My nerves may have been in part due to being a bit self-conscious or fearing being judged. She looked nervous as well. Would we go back out before we made it into the club?
We struck up enough courage and went through the front door, where we indicated that it was our first time. We were given a tour of the place and informed that we’d have a great time. We met a few people who could tell we were newbies just by how uptight we must have looked. I could tell the guys wanted my wife, especially the white guys who never tasted chocolate. However, we made it clear that we are not ready to play. After a few hours of mingling, we decided to go to the playroom. The moment we entered the playroom, I realized none of my fantasies had prepared me for what it felt like.
For one, it was so hot seeing my wife strip off her clothes, showing her body with her very revealing lingerie. Just seeing my wife nearly naked in front of strangers caused my penis to stiffen up a bit as it started to pop out of my towel wrapped around my waste. A couple women and men flirted with my wife, but we let them know where we stood, of which they were very cool with it. Then when we saw people fucking in front of us, we were totally turned on because neither of us ever saw someone have sex in front of us. The threesome was especially hot. My wife told me how wet she was and asked me to feel for myself. She wasn't lying; my fingers were soaking wet. Of course, my dick was also standing at attention, and my wife stroked it a few times before saying she wanted to be alone.
From there we went to a room and closed the door behind us, where we fucked by ourselves. I came so much inside her that she was leaking for hours afterwards. We got dressed and hung around for a little bit, but it was getting late, so we went home shortly thereafter.
We talked about it that night and we both thought it was an amazing experience. It was so erotic and we fucked again at home. Therefore, we decided to go back. The next visit was almost identical to the first visit. We met much of the same people and had sex in the room by ourselves. Once again, we had an amazing experience and decided we would go back for a third visit a few weeks later.
The third time was even better. This time when we got to the playroom, we were much more relaxed. We started to make out and started to dry hump. From there, I moved down to suck on her breasts and then all the way down to eat her out, in the open, in front of everyone. All the while, a few people were fucking right next to us. She then went down on me. It was such a turn on to see all the guys look at her and wish it were them with my ebony wife. After a few minutes, she got up and mounted me. We were having sex right next to a couple we got to know over the course of our visits. I then got my wife on her back, where she had a powerful orgasm.
Then the woman next to us started rubbing my wife’s arm when we were doing it. Then she started massaging my wife’s tits. This put my wife over the edge again as she had another strong orgasm. That turned me on so much that I knew I was going to cum. I then asked her to suck my dick before I nut. I told her I wanted to finish on her face and she agreed. That’s when I know she is really turned on because she lets me give her a facial whenever she gets to that point. I groaned loudly as I sent a huge load all over her face. People really loved the show and even told us how hot that was. We finished up, went downstairs and got a couple drinks. Before long, my dick got hard again, and we went back to the playroom for round two. It was so hot. I think my wife had about 10 strong orgasms that night.
Before leaving, we saw a few couples we got to know. They invited us to an upcoming get together at their house between close friends. I said we’d consider it, but my wife was hesitant due to safety concerns, as she was concerned about going to someone’s house that we didn’t really know. After a few days of alleviating my wife’s fears, she felt more at ease but told the lady organizing it that we might leave somewhat early. In addition, we still weren’t ready to play with others. She said it would only be a handful of couples there and that she completely understood. Furthermore, just like at the club, there would never be pressure to do anything that we aren’t comfortable with.
The day of the party was exciting and nerve-racking as well. We were just as nervous as the first time we went to the swinger’s club. My wife looked insanely sexy. Her dark skin looked so good in her sexy dress. Underneath it, she had on red lingerie that featured a see-through top that stayed open, and a thin thong.
By the time we showed up, there were already 3 couples there. My wife commented to me that the men were good looking. We went straight to the kitchen and she started drinking wine, while I had a couple of beers. Neither of us drank alcohol all that much, so we got loosened up quickly as our nerves faded away.
After some time chatting it up, all the couples decided to play an adult game in the living room. The lady holding the party let the other couples know how we were still newbies and only played with each other. Everyone was cool with it and reiterated it was a no pressure environment. They said if the game instructed us to do anything we weren’t comfortable with, we could do a modified version or skip entirely.
The first few rounds of drawing cards were to do things exclusively with your partner, like making out, heavy petting, etc.—nothing too crazy. I suspect that it was probably designed to let the participants ease into the game. We took a little break where I made sure my wife was okay and told her if she was uncomfortable, we could stop and even leave. She said she was having fun so far, so we got another drink and settled into the next round. This round was designed to get hotter and heavier as other couples would be involved.
The host reiterated that we might skip a few commands/challenges in the game. Everyone was cool and said we should go at our own pace. One of the first commands was all men had to strip down naked and only wear a towel. The women had to strip down to their bra and panties or the lingerie they were wearing, just as if we were in the swingers’ club. I think that made it more exciting, just to be covered up enough. Plus, it was brighter and quieter, so the environment felt more intimate.
From there, it got hot and heavy quickly. The woman across from us had to give the guy to her right (not her husband) a hand job for 60 seconds. The guy on my left had to finger the lady across from him for 60 seconds. The next command was the guy sitting to my right was to go down on the woman to my left for three minutes. While he was going down on her, her husband couldn’t resist and got up and put his penis to her mouth, where she sucked it hard. I thought someone would jokingly say he was stepping outside the game’s rules but then again, could you blame him? Meanwhile, my wife whispered in my ear how wet she was. This in turn had my head racing as a mixture of insane horniness and nerves were competing with each other.
Then we finally got into the game. The guy sitting across from us was given a card to suck my wife’s breasts. She nearly froze up as she hesitated and was unsure what to do. However, the wine had loosened her up, but she still looked at me for some sort of answer. I gave her a subtle nod to say it was fine with me, so she was okay. It was clear that she was crazy horny by now. While he was sucking on her tits, I peeled off her thong and went down on her at the same time. She was so turned on that she was moaning loudly, and her legs were shaking while I was doing it.
The guy to my right was stroking himself imagining what it would be like to be inside my ebony wife. After a few minutes, her time was up and her motor was running hot. I could tell she didn’t want either of us to stop. I didn’t either, and I’m sure the other guy didn’t want to stop as well.
After a few more rounds, it got hotter, then hotter. I was ready to explode, and I could tell everyone wanted to get busy, but the game hadn’t instructed us yet. The lady to my left was instructed to put a condom on the guy to my right without using her hands. It was an amazing skill. She then sucked him for a solid 3 to 4 minutes afterward. It was impressive all around. He was also told he had to leave the condom on until his penis went limp.
His dick wasn’t going to go limp because my wife was next instructed to give a lap dance with what she had on. At that point, it was just her see-through top because I had just removed her thong when I went down on her. The guy for his part just had a towel and a condom on.
I don’t remember the song they played for the lap dance, but it was long. At first, she felt a bit shy and a bit hesitant, but she started shaking her ass in front of him with a laugh that said, "I'm embarrassed and excited at the same time." His penis was still hard as a rock, peaking outside the towel that was barely covering him.
After shaking her ass in front of him, she slowly backed her way onto his lap. Grinding on the top of him, facing away from him as his penis, wrapped in a condom, rubbed up on her ass cheeks. After maybe 30 seconds or so, she turned around to straddle him, where she let out a nervous laugh.
His towel essentially opened wide as she gyrated on his lap as the base of his penis rubbed up against her clit. My wife moaned a little bit as it clearly felt good. He asked if he could suck on a breast, and she said yes as she let out a little moan. She stopped grinding as she lifted off his lap. She started moaning even more as it felt so good.
After like 30 seconds or so of her getting pleasure from her breast, she lowered herself down on his lap. She gyrated more and his penis glistened with her wetness. She continued to grind as the song was nearly at the end; she moved her body up for one last suck on her breast. She did it quickly and came back down to his lap, but this time his penis was flattened out, so that it was sticking between her ass cheeks, as such he said it was little uncomfortable and needed to adjust his penis. In doing so, he placed it in a spot that made it poke straight up to her vagina, as she moved back down, it accidentally slipped right inside of her. She let out a loud gasp then a louder moan.
My wife’s face showed pure terror and pleasure at the same time. They both froze with him deep inside her, as he apologized. She didn’t know what to do for a solid second. I got behind her and played with breasts while I whispered in her ear how hot this was. I then said to fuck him. That was all they needed as she fucked him by bouncing up and down on his cock. She moaned louder and louder. The music stopped but they kept going.
She moaned louder and louder and had an explosive orgasm. After a few minutes, he had her lay down on her back for missionary style. He pounded hard as her tits bounced back and forth. Her legs wrapped around him as he pumped in and out. She had another orgasm. The moaning and clapping sound made me harder than I’ve ever been. The others started pairing off, and a small orgy ensued.
He then had her get on her hands and knees in front of the couch as he rammed it inside her from behind. I’m still in a state of shock and maybe the horniest I’ve ever been. I started to stroke my cock at the erotic sight but went slowly because I was so turned on that I nearly came right then and there, so I had to stop. I then sat down on the couch right in front of her when her head was looking down, while moaning like crazy as she was getting smashed doggy style. She looked up to see my dick in her face. She started to stroke me then took me deep into her mouth.
It was the best blowjob I ever got. We got into the perfect rhythm as he banged her from behind, she naturally bobbed her head perfectly on my cock. She stopped sucking briefly when I saw her body shake, and she let off a loud moan as she had a huge orgasm. She took me back into her mouth, but I was so turned on by her orgasm that I said I was going to cum. She said she wanted me to cum on her face. That was all I needed as I pulled my dick out of her mouth and blasted white cum all over her beautiful black face. This sent the guy over the edge as well, as he said he was about to cum. To my surprise, my wife asked him to cum on her ass. He pumped a few more times, pulled out, and stripped the condom off and sent a huge stream of cum all over my wife’s back and ass. The guy’s wife complemented her husband’s huge load and then licked his cum off my wife’s back and ass. After cleaning up, she thanked my wife and I as she got off watching the entire episode.
I kissed my wife and told her how beautiful she was. We left shortly thereafter. As we drove home, neither of us spoke for several minutes. The silence wasn’t awkward. It was the silence of two people realizing that after twenty years together, we’d just discovered an entirely new side of each other. I think she may have felt a little guilty, so I assured her that I wasn’t mad but extremely turned on. In fact, I said I really wanted to do it again. We came home, showered, and fucked on our bed. I must have masturbated ten times that week with that image in my head of her getting plowed in front of everyone.
