Being in the situation myself I was wondering what Ladies as a whole think of a guy who enjoys slipping on pretty lingerie not just for fun but under 'normal' clothes; what do you think is going through the guy's mind, would you feel jealous or no longer needed, are you disgusted or turned on, or would it not really matter to you if you are in a loving relationship? Or would you turn your friends, family and as much of the world as possible against him for being a pervert?
I love my wife dearly but she is struggling big time and I am fearing the worse. The sad story is not clear cut and very complicated without this revelation anyway.
Cheers