What is the sense of writing a story if we all can't get aroused? That's the point, right?
Absolutely! When I write, I feel like I'm in the story, having sex. I cum several times during the writing of a story.
Sometimes I read back my stories to get off if there's nobody to chat with.
If you don‘t you are not doing it right.
Most of my stories are based on my real-life sexual experiences,. So yes, the memory of those wonderful experiences turns me on powerfully.
I've written 2 or 3 fantasy sex stories, an yeah dreaming up sexual adventures that I've never actually experienced is also a turn on, else why would i have dreamed up such adventures? But maybe not as much a turn-on as sweet memories of the physical and emotional pleasure of my past sexual adventures.
I think my favorite story is the one of how i met my gf Tina 9 years ago. I told her I find her very sexy. She turned ne down, not interested in lesbian sex. But the next day, she told me she had a very erotic dream about me the night before, and she wanted to change her no to a yes. We both had some of the best orgasms of our lives that night. We are both bi. We both love cocks, BIG cocks! But we also still have regular "pussies only nights - no cocks allowed." Just the two of us. Those nights are still as magical as that first time 9 years ago.
Writing about that, those memories, especially that first time with her, are a HUGE turn-on.
I get aroused thinking about my life
Yes, it's thinking about all the details that really gets me.
Yes. It's what stopped me writing. Having to have a wank part way through made writing impossible.
Of course. I write with the intention of turning on whoever reads my stories and if it doesn't arouse me then I consider that it won't arouse others. And it also brings back memories when it's a true account and that in itself is a turn on.
The brain is the most potent sex tool... so, whether recalling the details of a true sex story or using the imagination to set the computer screen aflame, then surely some degree of arousal MUST happen.
Sure. It's one of the ways I test to see I think other people might like them. A lot of what I write comes from my own fantasies, but a whole bunch of it also comes from academic interest in something I have never experienced or even things I've never been interested in, so if I get aroused by those things it tells me that I'm at least potentially writing it well. The next step should really be conferring with my partners and close friends, but most often I just rush to the final editing and submitting phase with stuff that winds up here. You know, because waiting for the emotional validation of strangers round the globe enjoying my words is hard.
Always get hard when writing my stories. My stories are mostly based on true events so writing them brings the memory back.
Writing up the true stories is so powerful. It puts me back in the situation and the frame of mind I was in at the time. That can bring back some really strong emotions (not always good ones) and definitely get me aroused!
What I write are true experiences we lived together. It made me horny then, why wouldn't bring a rise recalling it?
