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malcolm83
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Do you find the woman having financial control (or even domination) of the guy a turn on in a relationship?
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Quote by malcolm83
Do you find financial control (or even domination) a turn on in a relationship with a guy?


Absolutely not. No one would dare try to control my financial situation. Controlling when I have an orgasm is a different matter. But hell no, not my money!

EDIT: And the same goes for the guy. I wouldn't find controlling someone else's financial situation sexy.
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My wife and I manage our own joint portfolio. It is not sexy in the least no matter who does it. Quite the opposite. It can be a serious mood-killer.
Beffer
Rainbow Warrior
No, that would introduce troublesome components into a relationship.
Magdalene
Advanced Wordsmith
How do you mean? Have my husband pay me while pretending to be a whore? Or just getting off on the financial bit in general?
Liz
Scarlet Seductress
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Controlling when I have an orgasm is a different matter.


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MadMartigan
Raised on Blackroot
Lmfao. I just LOVE when a woman makes me drink her piss from a golden toilet. Nothing gets me hard like that bro.....

There ain’t nothing sexy about financial dependency or some jackass lording financial superiority over another. Well. I’m sure several creepy rich old white fucks love creating monetary dependency over young naive females but that’s another topic for another day.
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Quote by malcolm83
Do you find the woman having financial control (or even domination) of the guy a turn on in a relationship?


No.

I do the budget, pay bills, and spend most of the money. By controlling the budget I'm just controlling my own self. LOL
Meagananne1986
Sexy Seductive Siren
I'm financially independent. I own my own home outright (no mortgage or rent for me) as well my car and motorcycle. Fortunately had parents who paid for college and law school. Guess that's makes me lucky. But I'll NEVER, repeat NEVER be financially dependent upon any man. No will I EVER have a man in my life who isn't financially independent of me.
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Quickest route to a divorce I have ever heard of
Jen_
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I do like control, either way lol
FirstBlush
Ungovernable
No, I can balance my own checkbook, thank you. Purse strings aren't for me.
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Well...I kinda have 2 things to say about this topic.

In a matter of practice, my mum does take care of all the financial affairs relating to our farm,
so she does have certain control in a way that ya speak about.
But not exactly what you are referring I think.

I personally have no interest in controlling a guys money, if und when I ever marry, or have a live in boyfriend.
I may finally choose a girl as my partner anyway, but the same would apply.
I have my own money, und most times I have more self-worth than someone else I meet, or date.

I not care so much about their money, or about wealth in general,
but I do prefer that they are responsible with their money in a way that ist much different than many in today's society practice.
Living your life with dependence on "Credit" ist the most corrupt ignorance that any person can participate I think.

I have no credit cards, gas cards, department store cards at all, never have, und never will.
I have a debit card, und I carry cash.
If I want something, und I not have enough money to purchase it, then I wait until I do have the money.
I not owe loaned money to anyone, except for utilities, some required property/business/health/life insurance/taxes,
und some food items we do purchase.
I own my BMW M5, my own Haus, und everything else around me completely. Our family has always been this way.

You can save und purchase most any of the things ya need und want in life,
if ya not paying so much interest rate on money that ist not really yours, und ya haven't earned yet.

I would want to live my life with someone who feels the same, und ist not so irresponsible with money like most I see.
black1
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Me and my Mrs both have separate bank accounts. With having a banking background I would say I was better at managing money than she is anyway . And that's how its staying, separate, but we share everything else.
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No.
Kiera
Short Arse Brit
I learned the bloody hard way to be good with money. We were all young and irresponsible once, no?

I would not want to be responsible for a dumb arse who couldn't take care of his own money. I wouldn't let anyone near mine, that's for my kids and it's protected even if I die so that no one can have it but them and not until they are legally adults.
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When I got married way back in 1947, we were 21. I earned (I think) about £5 a week, my wife earned about £3-4, She was experienced with money, having helped and advised her mum with her household accounts. We pooled the money into one pot and I had no doubt at all that she was the best one to manage it. She was an excellent manager, much better than I could ever have been, and brought us through some rough times. It continued all through our life together and I think myself extremely lucky to have married someone like her. And she was beautiful too.
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Aww. Thats so sweet Frank, sounds like you got it just about right.

Cara and I share all our household bills too.

We both work full time, so we share 50 / 50... X
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My money is in my control. But we do have a joint account that's in his control.
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Absolutely not. No one would dare try to control my financial situation. Controlling when I have an orgasm is a different matter. But hell no, not my money!

EDIT: And the same goes for the guy. I wouldn't find controlling someone else's financial situation sexy.


Actually, if someone would like to take my bank card off me and stop me from shopping that would be nice #wastingmoney #shopaholic
farmerroger
The Bruiser
Isn’t controlling any aspect of someone’s life a form of domestic abuse. That includes controlling that persons wallet (apart from the bedroom)

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black1
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We. both have control of our own finances. This works for us . To relinquish control would be a complete turn off and would lead to domestic arguments.. Whilst I appreciate a D/s relationship outside the bedroom works for some,it doesn't appeal to us.
sprite
Her Royal Spriteness
Quote by sweet_as_candy


Actually, if someone would like to take my bank card off me and stop me from shopping that would be nice #wastingmoney #shopaholic


Oh! oh! let me do it! please! separate question. how do you feel about someone taking control of your wardrobe? *starts looking at latex in Candy's size*

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