What would you like him to do?

9 Mar 2017

Ok so here is the story. Just got back from taking a 6 day cruise. Met a beautiful woman and we hit it off. OK this is my story so I am telling it the way I see it. I gave her my contact information and she expressed that she would like to keep in touch after the cruise ended. That was Saturday. I haven't heard from her. Should I just write this off to an "on board romance" or should I try to find her?

I have enough bread crumbs that she gave me to find her with a little effort. What are your thoughts?

More to the story. I am divorced and did not go looking for romance on this cruise. I was open to the fact of an on board romance / affair but I did not expect to "Fall" for someone.

Your honest opinions are appreciated.

Holden

9 Mar 2017

I think Wilful answered you well in ask the guys tbh.

Personally, she didn't give you hers, and you haven't heard from her, sound like a brush off to me. If I fully intended to see someone again, I would have made sure we had each other's contact details. It's the age of mobile phones, it's simple enough to do that these days, but she didn't give you hers.

She could, of course, have lost yours but add that she didn't give you hers sounds to me like she had no intention of contacting you. If you do contact her, I wouldn't be surprised if you didn't get a response or do not get the response you desire. I could be wrong, though.

If I didn't intend to see someone again after a holiday romance, tbh I probably wouldn't be happy about hearing from them especially if I had gone out of my way not to give them my contact details, seems a bit stalkerish to me.

Good luck with it all. Big Hugs

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9 Mar 2017

I agree with Kiera, she hasn't called you, I'd leave it at that. If you contact her even though she didn't give you her details, it would appear stalkerish.

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9 Mar 2017

if i wanted to carry the affair on after the cruise, i would make damn sure you knew how to get in touch with me. if i'm not giving you my contact info, it means that, while i had fun, i'm done. simple as that. smile

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9 Mar 2017

have to say i agree with the ladies above. basically she did a more polite version of "don't call me; i'll call you". although it's true that anything could've happened, it's very likely that she has no intention of following up. take it for what it was and enjoy the memory.

EDIT: i'd also find it a bit disturbing if you were to go out of your way to find my contact information.

Say. Her. Name.

10 Mar 2017

She has your number. Give her another week. If she hasn't contacted you, then call it a nice memory and give it up. She's not that into you.