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Her orgasm or yours?

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CarltonStJames
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Credibility is everything in this life, and the best way to build it within your sexual career is to ensure women get that nut. It's satisfying to see them get there and also, it guarantees that your name isn't dragged through the mud for being sub-par in bed.

On the flip-side, you gotta be careful because if you make her bust several nuts but she doesn't get you to bust one, it can mess with her confidence.

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JamesLlewellyn
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Quote by LarsKaiden
For me, bringing a woman to an orgasmic state is the ultimate reward in a sexual context. I have always focused on pleasuring my female partners, and I've spent many hours pampering them to this end. The more I make them scream, squeal, squirt and beg, the better. Fact is, the more she enjoys the experience sexually, the more I am satisfied mentally. Otherwise, "Jizz happens!"

Opinions?


Her orgasm > my orgasm. It's gratifying when I make her cum. I.e., huge turn on to me. But more importantly it's about making her happy.
Buster1959
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Always her orgasm !! I thrive on making her orgasm in more than one way.
Markiemark2610
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The more I give her, the happier she is. So yes, HERS.
mac57
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i'll get mine eventually but if i give to her on a grande scale, she;ll let me keep giving and she'll want to send me to the moon with her later on. definitely her first
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Personally I "HAVE" to make her cum first. It gets me super excited so that when it's my turn to cum it will be extra awesome. BUT I hardly ever get sex; so I take the situation on hand.
XAuthorX
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Her orgasm. There are few things more erotically exciting than the sound of my wife’s orgasm cry. Seeing her squirm in her orgasm, kicking her legs and her breasts jiggle as she judders in her climax is incredibly erotic.
josh2468
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I definitely want the woman I'm with to orgasm at least once, maybe twice before I orgasm. Getting her off is far more important than me getting off because I'm going to feed off her.
Jody
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If you truly enjoy sex with your wife, you should be committed to making her orgasm. Just sayin'.

darkroot50
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I'm there to give her pleasure and as many orgasms as I can. Whatever she returns to me is a bonus. Just the act of making her cum is orgasmic to me.
Shellback
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I don’t limit it to “her” my partner’s orgasm, female or male, is the most important and fulfilling thing for me.
HixMale
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Hers is more important!
Jody
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We never really thought about this, but many marriages, the woman has never had an orgasm. I always made my wife cum. She was talking with a friend who married as a virgin to a very inexperienced man. Neither of them had the full explanation of things. He couldn't last. She wasn't putting it out for him to build any kind of stamina. He would go in her pussy and just cum and within a few minutes, she was doing work. Literally a 5-minute thing. She was against letting him lick her clit. I suggested she let him lick. And talk to him while he's doing it. If he's not making it feel good, tell him where to go. Put a finger where you want it! Then have him change what he's doing with his tongue until you start to moan. They did this and eventually, they built a great sex life.

alphabeta39
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My wife is always first and most important -- even when she insists on just taking care of me. It makes my experience much better and more rewarding if I've taken care of her.