It frustrates me that even women that's considered to be overweight get sex but I don't even I'm not that overweight?

It frustrates me that even women that's considered to be overweight get sex but I don't even I'm not that overweight?

It has been 16 hours since I asked this question but nobody answered it yet but most other people's was answered!🤬😡🤬😡

It’s really hard to answer a question like this. You have no media on Lush, so nobody can tell whether you're trying to make yourself attractive to others. We don’t know you, so we have no idea if you’re pleasant to be around. Your profile only says how old you are and that you’ve never had sex. That doesn’t tell us anything about what you like/dislike. Other than this forum post, you haven’t commented or contributed to other forums. You haven’t joined any groups to try to get known and to get to know other members. There could be a lot of reasons why. People meet people on here every day. You need to put in more effort and maybe you’ll achieve your goal.

I’m not looking to meet anyone else for sex, but if you want to reach out to me via direct message, I’m more than happy to get to know you.

Ok

To be fair, you didn't actually ask a question. Just made a statement which seems to indicate you think that ability to have sex should be related to body shape?

Why don't you worry less what other people are up to and start pinpointing what it is that you want out of life.

People like BBWs. What else can be said 🤷🏿‍♂️?

A couple of days ago, she was in the Lounge chatroom. She posted exactly what is on her bio, said nothing else, then left shortly after.

'It's not fair that I'm 36 and still haven't had sex yet and that I'm a woman but I haven't had sex yet like most other women'

An average-looking guy with a few extra pounds can get laid a lot easier than an average-looking guy with a few pounds.

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A couple of days ago, she was in the Lounge chatroom. She posted exactly what is on her bio, said nothing else, then left shortly after.

'It's not fair that I'm 36 and still haven't had sex yet and that I'm a woman but I haven't had sex yet like most other women'

I reached out to her via DM but I’ve never heard back.

I dont understand how ANY woman has a problem getting sex. Very few men will pass on a bj and pussy

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I reached out to her via DM but I’ve never heard back.

Sure she appears like her kvetch needs a cwtch.

With her brief chatroom engagement, venting out in the forum followed by an impatient whinging with '🤬😡🤬😡' post for not receiving an answer to a non-question, and a two-letter response to your kind reply, why am I not surprised? Too early to tell yet I'm somehow sensing a behavioural issue instead of physical attributes.

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Sure she appears like her kvetch needs a cwtch.

With her brief chatroom engagement, venting out in the forum followed by an impatient whinging with '🤬😡🤬😡' post for not receiving an answer to a non-question, and a two-letter response to your kind reply, why am I not surprised? Too early to tell yet I'm somehow sensing a behavioural issue instead of physical attributes.

I’m sure you’re right. I just thought I might be able to help her in some way (not sex).

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I’m sure you’re right. I just thought I might be able to help her in some way (not sex).

I agree

Sounds like you either need to get fat, or it's not actually physical problem with your appearance. Although a woman is more likely to get laid than a man is, some struggle just like we do. It's wild you think you deserve to get laid, like you're owed dick, because you're a woman—at least that's what it comes off as. Your average guy who doesn't get laid much, is not gonna be that sympathetic. Change your approach, and your mindset. Go to a bar.

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Sounds like you either need to get fat, or it's not actually physical problem with your appearance. Although a woman is more likely to get laid than a man is, some struggle just like we do. It's wild you think you deserve to get laid, like you're owed dick, because you're a woman—at least that's what it comes off as. Your average guy who doesn't get laid much, is not gonna be that sympathetic. Change your approach, and your mindset. Go to a bar.

All excellent points. But have you noticed OnHere isn’t really involved in the discussion she created? Nobody is owed a good fuck. That’s not to say they don’t want one but they are not owed one. Going to a bar that’s known as a place to pickup women might be a good first step for her.

What was the fucking question?

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What was the fucking question?

Who knows. The OP hasn’t been on Lush for over a week and never participated in the discussion she started.

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I agree

It frustrates me that you won't have sex with me

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It frustrates me that you won't have sex with me

Like I said before - add some info to your profile and maybe a few pictures. That might help. Plus your profile says you’re “with someone” so why not ask them why they won’t have sex with you.

Sometimes getting laid is less about being physically attractive and more about being attractive as a person.

Might be good to ask yourself if that's something to work on.

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Sometimes getting laid is less about being physically attractive and more about being attractive as a person.

Absolutely true.

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It frustrates me that you won't have sex with me

Blimey! I'm alright, thanks. Not at my partner's expense! If the aforementioned pieces of advice don't work for you, if you're truly in need of sex just so you won't be a virgin at your age anymore, and if your 'someone' won't have sex with you, you may either be with the wrong person or the wrong mindset. Otherwise, I'm not sure if I can say this here, hire someone who provides direct-contact services. If all else fails, seek professional help with a psychologist.

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Conversely, in hindsight, it feels like we're being played at, mates. Not to threadjack this post by jumping to conclusions. This happens in many chatrooms and forums. Someone posts something like a harmless damsel in distress, in need of help, venting out about personal issues. Yet they don't engage at all, or worse, they leave abruptly before anyone could even empathise. Afterwards, they return to post the copy-pasted statement or query that was not even proofread. They often only reply to keep the comments pouring in while disregarding substantive responses, such as sound advice. It's called sympathy-baiting or sadfishing.

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As my partner used to say, 'Take (online) with a grain of salt. Give the benefit of the doubt with compassion. Just don't feed the trolls when you spot them!'