why is it so important what a woman wears to you?

6 Apr 2014

My only concern is that she feels beautiful. She can wear an evening gown or an old pair of sweats and I wont mind. The only thing she needs to wear for me is a smile.

The Wild Girl anthology need not be read in any order but does take place in the following timeframe

Wild at Heart- 1968. The story of Dani’s Great Aunt Evie.

https://www.lushstories.com/stories/first-time/wild-at-heart

Wild Oats. Part 1&2. -2021. Dani is 16 and sets her sights on her stepfather.

https://www.lushstories.com/stories/taboo/wild-oats-part-1

https://www.lushstories.com/stories/taboo/wild-oats-part-2

Wild Child. 2025. Dani is now 20 years old.

https://www.lushstories.com/stories/taboo/wild-child

6 Apr 2014

Quote by Magical_felix

What does the part about we and us deciding have to do with anything though?

And what if she wore an I'm with stupid shirt everywhere you two decide to go? Or a shirt that says my partner looks like Captain Morgan's hippy grandpa? Would you still not give a particular crap?

Because it "US" that decides it. I do not own her, she is allowing me to be there. It's exactly the same from her prospective too.

Wear what you find comfortable, anything else is putting up an image that you want people to see. Many, maybe most, hide behind their clothing. "See how important I am because I wear this wonderfully important looking clothing." That includes those who buy a new car every year because they must so people will think how important or rich they are.

One of the finest men I've ever met was worth over 100 million and wore nothing but Levi's, cowboy shirts and a bolo tie, unless he had to make others feel comfortable around him at some formal thing. He told me that once. He's dead now and I miss knowing him.

To answer your question, "NO" I don't give a shit. If she means it however, I leave and then there is no problem.

I am in absolute agreement with Malik's comment above. NOTHING else is important.

I am always a gentleman.

6 Apr 2014

Quote by LASARDaddy

Because it "US" that decides it. I do not own her, she is allowing me to be there. It's exactly the same from her prospective too.

Wear what you find comfortable, anything else is putting up an image that you want people to see. Many, maybe most, hide behind their clothing. "See how important I am because I wear this wonderfully important looking clothing." That includes those who buy a new car every year because they must so people will think how important or rich they are.

One of the finest men I've ever met was worth over 100 million and wore nothing but Levi's, cowboy shirts and a bolo tie, unless he had to make others feel comfortable around him at some formal thing. He told me that once. He's dead now and I miss knowing him.

To answer your question, "NO" I don't give a shit. If she means it however, I leave and then there is no problem.

I am in absolute agreement with Malik's comment above. NOTHING else is important.

This statement is so...........dumb.

One of the reasons people with money buy new cars every year is because the government is gonna tax their earnings no matter what. Depending on how you purchase the car, you can either give the government the money or you can buy yourself a new car. What would you do? Just hand over the cash?

Your millionaire friend that wore bolo ties and levis shirts everyday was doing the same thing you claim people with nice clothes do. "I may be rich but I swear I'm just like you guys, an everyman. You can tell by my shirt."

You then go on to say that if your wife wore the shirts I suggested that you would just leave... So if she doesn't wear clothes you like you leave. Kinda contradicts your statement about her being able to wear anything she wants. What if she felt like wearing business suits because that is what she was comfortable in? I guess you would say that she is trying to impress people?

6 Apr 2014

Quote by Magical_felix

This statement is so...........dumb.

One of the reasons people with money buy new cars every year is because the government is gonna tax their earnings no matter what. Depending on how you purchase the car, you can either give the government the money or you can buy yourself a new car. What would you do? Just hand over the cash?

Your millionaire friend that wore bolo ties and levis shirts everyday was doing the same thing you claim people with nice clothes do. "I may be rich but I swear I'm just like you guys, an everyman. You can tell by my shirt."

You then go on to say that if your wife wore the shirts I suggested that you would just leave... So if she doesn't wear clothes you like you leave. Kinda contradicts your statement about her being able to wear anything she wants. What if she felt like wearing business suits because that is what she was comfortable in? I guess you would say that she is trying to impress people?

Wow, such emotion.

Why do you want to pick a fight? It's my opinion just like yours is yours.

That is not what I said. Be careful about putting a lot of your words out restating mine. I pretty much say what I feel and think. Again, my opinion. EVERYONE else in the universe is allowed a differing one because that's all it is, an opinion.

Thank you for yours and now I'll stop.

I am always a gentleman.

7 Apr 2014

why is it so important what a woman wears to you?

Well, if it's cold out then it's important to me that she is dressed warm when she comes to me.
Or, if it's hot out she wears protective clothing to keep the sun from damaging her beautiful skin when she comes to me.

10 Apr 2014

Quote by daddysweetheart

Ding dong....lol..roflmao..

(Doorbell)

Thank you sexy Seeker for your input...

Hey, that is one of the names I have heard men use to describe their "ding dongs"!! ROFL...that is, "My Ding Dong!"

10 Apr 2014

Quote by LASARDaddy

Wear what you find comfortable, anything else is putting up an image that you want people to see. Many, maybe most, hide behind their clothing. "See how important I am because I wear this wonderfully important looking clothing." That includes those who buy a new car every year because they must so people will think how important or rich they are.

Thus say those who would beggar themselves to get said new car. "really no. I rather drive this POS. I like the clunking noises."

10 Apr 2014

Quote by Milik_Redman
My only concern is that she feels beautiful. She can wear an evening gown or an old pair of sweats and I wont mind. The only thing she needs to wear for me is a smile.

i agree

10 Apr 2014

I am one of those guys that asks this question somewhat frequently...
Normally it is when it comes up in the conversation.. not something I ask out of the blue for no reason "hi, how are you.. what are you wearing?".. nope.

Someone said it earlier and it is true that guys are visually stimulated.. that is part of it. Plus some guys, like me, are into lingerie and like just knowing what you have on for those reasons. It doesn't have to be anything fancy.. heck plain white cotton bikini panties are fine too (actually i like those for certain reasons lol).

Of course i fully understand the reality that it doesn't really matter since a woman can respond with basically anything. You can tell me you are wearing a lace teddy and it wouldn't make any difference with reality.. since you really are wearing sweats and a t shirt.. (i'd rather know the truth).

It is just fun to know though..

10 Apr 2014

so Sweetheart, what ARE you wearing ? dontknow

10 Apr 2014

or maybe the question really means what AREN'T you wearing boobieflash2

11 Apr 2014

Quote by daddysweetheart
When you ask me what I'm wearing, why does it matter so much?

It's just clothes...( or I might be naked)

I get sick of this ( sorry) and joke sometimes . ( I'm wearing pasties and a g- string...lol....I will let you know I'm joking...)

How do you know if she's telling the truth and how much would you care if she wasn't?

( if you liked her response..)

I know you're wearing something or not.....I don't ask that often what you are wearing...

You're already sexy or interesting enough for me not to know....or I can imagine.

I'd rather see your face....

Smilessss.I get sick of being asked.

I am very flattered though.

My new standard answer should be "a trench coat with nothing underneath".

And I am knocking at your door....knock knock.W762uG5QbcWOPHzb

Guys love seeing a woman dress sexy for him. Stockings and sexy lingerie make things so hot and makes it for a beautiful evening.

13 Apr 2014

I also ask this questions sometimes, but not everybody. If I trust she will tell me to truth, I ask, because it helps me to imagine better. when she proves it with a pic, then it really turns me on, otherwise it is just a question.

However, it is not important what she wears as long as I have an intelligent conversations..A good conversations is so much better than being naked. If she can't flow into my mind, it doesn't matter if she is naked, or not, or whatever she wears

14 Apr 2014

It's not important to me what she wear as long she feel good in whatever she likes smile

14 Apr 2014

Quote by Desperado
so Sweetheart, what ARE you wearing ?

I'm wearing clothes...lol.

book

14 Apr 2014

it's nice have my engine running

14 Apr 2014

I'll occasionally ask on the phone "What are you wearing?" or "Where are you?" ... The answers to these questions ... both asked and answered for both of us ... help paint a more realistic scenario. Sometimes its nice to find out that what kind of clothing is being worn that is to be "removed" Shhh

I like BUTTONS!! Embarassed

http://www.lushstories.com/stories/love-stories/exit-33-trust.aspx

14 Apr 2014

Love your sense of humor. The trench coat with nothing underneath smile

Guys who just ask out of the blue should just be ignored and maybe even blocked. I ask my lover that question because I want to envision her as much as I can. I know she's not lying.

14 Apr 2014

Quote by playsit
Love your sense of humor. The trench coat with nothing underneath

Guys who just ask out of the blue should just be ignored and maybe even blocked. I ask my lover that question because I want to envision her as much as I can. I know she's not lying.

Aww thanks..it's pretty annoying..

Very nice answer!

14 Apr 2014

I don't particularly like being asked this by random people who don't know me, or are just looking to get all excited by whatever I say. It is not my job to tickle your fancy. And to be honest, if I'm online I'm usually in comfy clothes, because I'm not going out. Be it, PJs, or t-shirt and panties. It isn't to get some random Lush tard all hard and excited. It is for my comfort.

Now, if it is someone I'm dating (and it is online) I have no problem telling them what I'm wearing. I can give him a visual of what I look like at the moment. But, really, if that is the case, we're more than likely going to be on and I can show him.

This question is just silly. (Not yours, theirs) LOL sighs

14 Apr 2014

what she wears determines if I want to take her to bed......