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I am usually quiet when I am under control
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Are submissives very quiet people?
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I am just the opposite. 
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Some of them are quiet. But some of my subs have been far from quiet. They have been brats too.
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I am very quiet when being dominated... It is very much part of being in subspace. However i wouldnt call myself quiet in the normal daily routine of life.
Gold hearted fun loving Aussie Angel
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Submissives come from all types of personalities and can depend on the situation and group if they are quiet or not.
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I'm big (6'4"), I'm strong (I leg press with just under a quarter of a metric tonne) and I do a lot of things which demand my intelligence and my ability to manage people in the real world. What I do at home and with my partner is nothing to do with any of the other things I do and is a way to relax and let someone else take the decisions sometimes.
He follows orders at work but then comes home and I follow His orders in the bedroom and in the rest of the house, but I am still the main breadwinner, as well as the home owner (had the house for over a decade before we got together) and as a result pretty much everything is in my name.
He says that He is only with me because I'm a strong and capable woman and that thick, ignorant or weak willed women do nothing for Him, so I do have to be careful to be sufficiently challenging for big conversations and frank exchanges of views even when I'm following orders on other things.
Just under a quarter of a metric ton for leg press is not all that impressive, but if you think that's strong and it gives you a boost of confidence, good deal. Good luck
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I first became a submissive when I was 17, except for my first year of marriage, I have been one ever sense. For the most part I'm fairly quite during a scene and speak only when spoken to or asked a question. Out side of a BDSM scene I can be very vocal. The two stories I have posted here, "My First Gang Bang and Golden Shower," are about the first BDSM party I participated in.
Brandie
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Anyone that knows me in an in sexual way would probably never have me down as being a submissive. I'm quite blunt and not afraid of boxing my opinion.
But at the same time I think that's why it makes perfect sense for me to submissive. My job involves me always being in control and on top of things and the same for my personal life. So having a man dominate me and take control is incredibly sexy and satisfying. I'm probably more shy at the start of bdsm play but buy the end the only way to keep me quiet is to gag me!
But at the same time I think that's why it makes perfect sense for me to submissive. My job involves me always being in control and on top of things and the same for my personal life. So having a man dominate me and take control is incredibly sexy and satisfying. I'm probably more shy at the start of bdsm play but buy the end the only way to keep me quiet is to gag me!
Marx Sister
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I mean, that hasn't been my experience either in or out of the bedroom, but I'm sure some of them are.
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I’m usually a pretty quiet person but not always... I’m sure some subs are quiet and some ... aren’t
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Submissives are people being themselves, just like you.
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I can be loud
annoying
naughty bratt
an idiot
funny
funloving
grumpy
nuts
all in the same day unless I am standing with my undies at my ankles getting a lecture
Marx Sister
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My experience has honestly been that the sexually submissive partners I have/have had are not at all submissive or quiet in their daily lives. Some more than others, but it is my observation that sexually submissive humans are very assertive in their family lives, jobs, social circles, or even in their romantic lives.
That's just the pattern I've noticed though - I am not asserting that there is or is not anything causal about that correlation.
That's just the pattern I've noticed though - I am not asserting that there is or is not anything causal about that correlation.
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In public? Almost never in my experience.
It actually takes a lot of confidence to be submissive.
I really haven't met very many dominant females. And the ones that claimed to be dominant, failed to meet those expectations when it came down to it. And the ones that are loudest and more dominant in public tend to be more submissive in private.
I had a girlfriend that was a Federal prosecutor who was very outgoing in public... put behind closed doors, she loved being degraded and humiliated.
When it comes to guys, I feel that a lot of men try and claim the mantle of "dom" because it is a surefire way for them to get laid. Most of these guys are old, fat, or lame. If a man is not dominant in his life yet plays the part in private, it's an act. He's simply using the female to work on his own self esteem.
And let's face it... this is the majority of "male doms" you meet on tinder or fetlife.
It actually takes a lot of confidence to be submissive.
I really haven't met very many dominant females. And the ones that claimed to be dominant, failed to meet those expectations when it came down to it. And the ones that are loudest and more dominant in public tend to be more submissive in private.
I had a girlfriend that was a Federal prosecutor who was very outgoing in public... put behind closed doors, she loved being degraded and humiliated.
When it comes to guys, I feel that a lot of men try and claim the mantle of "dom" because it is a surefire way for them to get laid. Most of these guys are old, fat, or lame. If a man is not dominant in his life yet plays the part in private, it's an act. He's simply using the female to work on his own self esteem.
And let's face it... this is the majority of "male doms" you meet on tinder or fetlife.
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In public I am a highly aggrerssive and outspoken woman. My job requires a certain level of dominant behaviour, and I've had other attorneys call me a shark, a carnivore, or even a fucking bitch as relates to how vigorously I behave while representing my clients. I'm extremely acerbic and sarcastic in conversation, and very few who only know me professionally would ever suspect that I have even the slightest bit of submissive tendancies.
Oddly enough, if someone met my wife and I in public, they might think based upon her tendancy to be more reserved and quiet that she was submissive, but anyone who makes the judgement would learn quickly in a private situation just how completely wrong they are.
Oddly enough, if someone met my wife and I in public, they might think based upon her tendancy to be more reserved and quiet that she was submissive, but anyone who makes the judgement would learn quickly in a private situation just how completely wrong they are.
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I am quite the contrary. When I get comfortable in my surroundings I can become too talkative for my own good. I like being silly and out going when ever I can be and I am also a control freak. I am only shy when my anxiety is up, which is when a lot of attention is on me or if I am in a large crowd of people I don't know. I am very self conscious but when that isn't a factor I am a wild child waiting to be tamed :P
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I am quite the contrary. When I get comfortable in my surroundings I can become too talkative for my own good. I like being silly and out going when ever I can be and I am also a control freak. I am only shy when my anxiety is up, which is when a lot of attention is on me or if I am in a large crowd of people I don't know. I am very self conscious but when that isn't a factor I am a wild child waiting to be tamed :P
Story Verifier
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If they are meant to be then I'd make a very poor submissive 
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Why should a submissive be quiet? Well im not, i love to talk with my friends, giggle a lot
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My husband is a very talkative sub. In fact, he is often so talkative that I use it as a reason to punish him.
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Sexy Seductive Siren
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Probably wouldn't qualify as BDSM submissive, but in general, I'm submissive in the bedroom. I like my man to be in charge of me. Professionally and in public, I'm quiet but will stand up and be heard if necessary.
Meagan
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I am just wondering "if you are submissive you are quiet" is bit of a myth ? Some subs I know on another forum are very vocal .