My friends list is about 60% to 40% in favor of women. Not necessarily my choice. I most often accept rather than offer friend requests, so it seems I get more ladies requesting to join my circle of friends. Since I lie closer to the straight side on the sexual spectrum that works out pretty well. I do have friends of all sexual situations. It doesn't matter to me. The people I talk to the most are women. Again, that is not my choice. I'm open to chatting with anyone, if I'm available. I have one close lady friend who I speak to about four or five days a week. I speak to others more sporadically. I seldom ever speak with men, for whatever reason. I had a great buddy here but he disappeared one day and hasn't come back.
good question! when i decided to become active on lush, i had ONE intention -to get my virtual freak on. and i did. since i'm straight, my friends were all men. as with all things, the novelty wore off quickly. i then started to add men simply for the wonderful conversation, insight and friendship they could offer. that's pretty much where i am at this point. if we happen to dabble in cyber, great. if not, that's cool too.
my reason for not adding women is very different than what's been expressed here. i won't get into it, but it really caused me to shy away from sending/accepting friend requests to/from women. i tried adding a few here and there, but they didn't last. NOTHING to do with them, i just wasn't ready. in december i added a few and COULDN'T be happier! there's something special about the camaraderie that women can offer each other. it's something that i've missed and am glad to have it back in my online relationships.
(I dont know how to double quote) ,but I agree with Molly, Woman need to learn to talk to each other more and I think there wouldn't be so many problem. (And not listen to men when they tell you not to!!)
Hmmm Molly.. Maybe that is why I keep my avatars funny more than sexy!! Right now into tattoo woman, but that will soon change.
Lets all just get along!!!!!!!
The title of this thread reminds me of Austin Powers
The sex of your lush friends?
Yes please
This thread has gone off topic a bit, from 'are you friends with people you are attracted to?', to a self help forum for girls to get along better
Interesting...
Does it really matter male or female? It's the effort people put in, not the gender..... I don't want to hear one sex does this better or that..... Unless it's to pee standing or giving birth, it's about the person..... Just my humble opinion.... And if anyone asks, women do everything better js....... Lol.......
A brief encounter is not a friend.
The majority of them are guys...
The majority of them are guys...
Had to actually go look...approximately an 80/20 split, male/female. I'm very reluctant to send out friend requests, so that probably explains the split a great deal.
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The sex of my Lush friends? When I started here there was no intent to add any and I'm still determined to go at my own pace. Was still single when I joined and have since gotten back into a serious relationship, so no additions were made after that.
If you mean gender, they're all male and they all give great story. One is my favorite intellectual foil, one is hot and in the doghouse, one is hot and sweet, and one is still in the mutual avatar lust phase. But this isn't what you asked, which brings me to...
The sex of my Lush friends? Yes, they're very busy guys. Just not with me, haha.
About 40% of my friends are female. I used to add anyone that sent me a friend and this used to be mostly guys. I'm sure there are some statistics floating about somewhere of ratio of men to women and I'm sure many are in disguise...
I haven't accepted or chosen any of my friends because of their gender. Yet, on my friends list, the majority of them is female. That said, my real friends list is not the one one lush or on any other website, it's the one I carry in my heart and who's on that one, is there to stay, regardless of sex, gender and orientation.
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Hey... pssst.... that's an l (as in luscious) at the end of my name, not an i While I don't make a lot of friends here on lush due to me either not being friendly or just not making the time, the few friends that I love talking to on here are all men. I am sexually attracted to both genders but I find men are more open to my banter and I suppose I just get along with them better. I honestly would be lying if I didn't say sexual attraction was key in making those relationships but any that have lasted are entirely due to the fact that we can have interesting conversations that don't only rely on sex to carry them.
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That's really all it takes! Many people accept private messages from non friends. You don't have to join a list to be a friend. 
How did anyone not know that? 
who knew, right? 
The sex of my lush friends = often 