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I'm not a paying member so I don't think I can. Have been a member for quite awhile. Before payment was needed! Dunno if I would for security reasons anyway plus I work in a place that employs a lot of people. Not sure that I'd want to have my photos posted Around the place. But that's me!!
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Mine is me. Just me. Mostly b/c when I realised that I needed an avatar, I didn't know that Lush had stock avis and I didn't have the patience to do a Google Image search. So I ran upstairs and took the pic that became my avatar in about 45 seconds with my Nokia 810.

As to showing my face--not in my avatar, no, but a pic of a slightly disheveled version of me is in my gallery, visible to friends.


You're lovely, so you needn't change a thing. It's a very tasteful and artfully done photo

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The upside is anyone can see your actual face so they will know you.

The downside is anyone can see your actual face so they will know you.

If you are not worried about someone you know seeing you then there really is no downside I guess. That is a decision we all have to make, Only you can make that call!
if we accept the reality i dont care what other think about me i like enjoy with real Aatar may be others hesitatew to show real there
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I have a question if anyone can answer please?

Is it true what I heard that someone here who lived in England and always kept the pics of herself updated, that someone else here used her pictures to find out where she lived and went to her home, and killed her?

I don't know of such a thing happening and I seriously doubt that it has. That being said, someone totally can track you down through your photos. It recently happened to a friend of mine on Tumblr (her and her husband would post adult selfies and videos) and while they didn't visit her in person, they sent her a message with her home address and a bunch more personal information. The way she was exposed was through the geotagging on her photos so if you want to keep your identity a secret from strangers, turning off that feature on your phone or camera would be the first step. I believe most modern devices have this quality enabled by default so make sure to conciously disable it to prevent someone from download the pictures and looking at the file details.

Beyond that, unless you have a landmark outside your window or something, I imagine that it's damn near impassible to locate someone through a selfie alone.

Oh, and congrats on the post-count milestone.

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The photo is me. I'm not a fireplug or dragon.
my pic is of my ass and its real
My avatar has always been of various parts of me. Don't think anyone would recognise me from them.
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You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

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anyone who doubts that i am actually a viking warrior does not know me well.


A omnippletent viking warrior!

Does that mean your nipples are everywhere? Or all powerful? Or...(shudders)...both?
I'm a little taller now, have rimless glasses, and a little less hair,
but he is me.
As I state in my profile, my avatar is definitely me. It just happens to be the view of me from one of the multiple dimensions in which I simultaneously exist.
I was just using a composite image from faceresearch.org.

However, now I'm using a heavily edited webcam picture. You can (barely) tell that I'm a BBW, but not much else. You can't really recognize me all that well. I prefer that. If someone does recognize me, I not only have plausible deniability (at least, if they haven't been in my bedroom, where my recliner, visible in photo, is), I can be all "What is lush? What's on it? Why are you on that site?" Best of both worlds!

In all seriousness, I'd like to keep my sexuality somewhat private, and that's why I want to not have people who don't know me well to know I'm here. I have three people who know me well enough to recognize my avy and wouldn't judge me for being here (I don't have sex with them, but nonetheless...), but literally dozens of people who can recognize my face. That's all.

I do have an X-rated gallery, but you can't see my face there, and only friends can see it.
Just because your avatar is you doesn't mean it has to be your face- like mine!
The upsides and downsides? I'm not sure. But I do know you should use whatever you feel comfortable with. People are going to ask whether it's you or not regardless
I'm a cup of tea in real life (just not everyone's).

Actually, I should probably change it some time.

Don't believe everything that you read.

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I'm a cup of tea in real life (just not everyone's).

Actually, I should probably change it some time.


You're my cup of tea

Please don't change yours. I think I might drool over your avatar more than anyone else's. That's a damn fine looking cup of tea.

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Mine is me, and was taken by a friend when some fella was holding my neck

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You're my cup of tea

Please don't change yours. I think I might drool over your avatar more than anyone else's. That's a damn fine looking cup of tea.

Hi Sweetie


Don't believe everything that you read.

I use my own photo, but without showing my face. That would open me up to the possibility of people who may recognize me knowing things about me that I don't want them to know.

I feel it's important for me to represent myself with a reasonable degree of accuracy. You never know when a hookup may become available, and I at least want people to see what body type they're talking to.

Some people have great avatars, but it's not for me. This is mine:
Yes but for professional reasons not my face.
I think it should be a must to use actual photos I am over these stupid avatars that don't even relate or come close to the person in the profile.
Why not. Show the world your face. Don't hide that your on Lush.
I have, but professionally it isn't a good idea for me. It's a shame that one has to hide due to his or her job but that is life today.

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Why not. Show the world your face. Don't hide that your on Lush.



Because anyone can steal your picture and do anything they want with it.. Then what?? Has nothing to do with hiding I’m on Lush, it has to do with people stealing your picture.
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I figure a postage stamp size avatar pic isn't at much risk of being stolen and used by anyone, so I always use a pic of myself, and have on every site I've been on for the past 13 years. In all that time only once has my pic been stolen and I made the site they used it on delete them as a fake. I reverse image search my own pics frequently to make sure they're not appearing anywhere on the net but on my sites. I also reverse image search all you guys' pics too to know who's fake here and who's not.
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I figure a postage stamp size avatar pic isn't at much risk of being stolen and used by anyone, so I always use a pic of myself, and have on every site I've been on for the past 13 years. In all that time only once has my pic been stolen and I made the site they used it on delete them as a fake. I reverse image search my own pics frequently to make sure they're not appearing anywhere on the net but on my sites. I also reverse image search all you guys' pics too to know who's fake here and who's not.


i am now so tempted to steal your avi and use it as mine. *giggles and runs*

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

Yes I do....some of the avatars are okay, lots of duplicates and some really stupid ones
just as an aside, most of my avis are not me but everyonce in a while i slip in a real one for a short time. ;)

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

My avi has never been me here on Lush. Others sites, other avis, I slip my own pix in on occasion.