This is purely my opinion, and not to offend anyone!
I 100% believe you can fall in love/ find love here. BUT, I don't think it can be maintained here. For love to grow, you need privacy. I've seen the word love thrown around on here, who am I to judge- but if you're telling someone new, that you love them every week... it's probably not love!...
I found love here once, and i've said "I love you" to one person, and that was 2 years ago. We're still together now and still monogamous. I know i'm the luckiest woman to have found him. He is my first and last online love! I think if you're lucky enough to find that true love connection in a place like this, it's going to be once in a life time.
Like I said though, there needs to be privacy. Connecting outside of Lush, away from the people that would love to get between, is crucial. There is far too much drama to have a healthy relationship that stays on Lush...
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Do people really fall in love on lush?
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Love? I don't know. Hasn't happened to me personally, and it seems like Lush is romance at warp speed; I've seen friends' statuses change from "single" to "in a relationship with X" and back to "single" in the space of two weeks. That said, I can also think of a handful of friends who really are in love (or at least, think that they are in love) with someone they met here.
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This is purely my opinion, and not to offend anyone!
I 100% believe you can fall in love/ find love here. BUT, I don't think it can be maintained here. For love to grow, you need privacy. I've seen the word love thrown around on here, who am I to judge- but if you're telling someone new, that you love them every week... it's probably not love!...
I found love here once, and i've said "I love you" to one person, and that was 2 years ago. We're still together now and still monogamous. I know i'm the luckiest woman to have found him. He is my first and last online love! I think if you're lucky enough to find that true love connection in a place like this, it's going to be once in a life time.
Like I said though, there needs to be privacy. Connecting outside of Lush, away from the people that would love to get between, is crucial. There is far too much drama to have a healthy relationship that stays on Lush...
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I agree that it is possible to 'fall in love' on Lush but you only see what the person on the other end of that anonymous connection reveals to you and I always wonder if they've exhausted everyone local to them and it's well known what kind of person they really are so they turn to fantasyland where they can be anything they want.
I can see falling FOR someone on Lush but I'd guard my heart very carefully until I got to meet them in person and I don't mean just for a heated fluid exchange. LOL
Maybe I'm just old fashioned and I know that the Millenium generation see's life much differently than my generation does but making friends online isn't the same (to me at least) as true person to person love and the cloak of anonymity can hide some strange characters.
Just one (old) man's opinion.....
Here is what Dr Phil says....
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/10/01/online-love_n_5911336.html
More good advice...
http://www.yourtango.com/experts/sharon-lynn-wyeth/17-clues-how-avoid-internet-dating-scams
Or you could just cut to the chase and date a sociopath.... (the internet is FULL of them!!!)
http://datingasociopath.com/sociopath-character-traits/cunning-and-manipulative/i-love-you/online-dating-dangers/
I can see falling FOR someone on Lush but I'd guard my heart very carefully until I got to meet them in person and I don't mean just for a heated fluid exchange. LOL
Maybe I'm just old fashioned and I know that the Millenium generation see's life much differently than my generation does but making friends online isn't the same (to me at least) as true person to person love and the cloak of anonymity can hide some strange characters.
Just one (old) man's opinion.....
Here is what Dr Phil says....
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/10/01/online-love_n_5911336.html
More good advice...
http://www.yourtango.com/experts/sharon-lynn-wyeth/17-clues-how-avoid-internet-dating-scams
Or you could just cut to the chase and date a sociopath.... (the internet is FULL of them!!!)
http://datingasociopath.com/sociopath-character-traits/cunning-and-manipulative/i-love-you/online-dating-dangers/
Great minds think alike but dirty minds work together.... ;)
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Of course they can . Love can happen any time, anywhere. Why would LUSH be any different ?
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Why not .. Give a person a mask nd they wud reveal their true self .. So its like knowing a person in nd out !!
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Probably just as well or better than the 'real world' where they are probably more open and honest than meeting someone on the street
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Yes I do and why wouldn't they? they are real ppl just like the "RL" all have feelings.
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I have before and it was an amazing experience AND very eye opening. It lasted just under 3 years and I don't regret a thing except how it ended.
I do believe you have to be very careful with those who use saying they love you as a way to get you to fall for them in some sick game of feeling powerful or some such.
So if you're lucky enough to discover true love then I am happy for you but please be careful ...bc it might not be as true as you believe it to be.
I do believe you have to be very careful with those who use saying they love you as a way to get you to fall for them in some sick game of feeling powerful or some such.
So if you're lucky enough to discover true love then I am happy for you but please be careful ...bc it might not be as true as you believe it to be.
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Yes, of course they do, but I should modify that. This is a partially "new" world for us on Lush. So we fall in love within this world which is a blend of both worlds.
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Yes. I believe people can and do fall in love on Lush. Lisa and I are proof of that. I also think it's extremely rare, and most of what people call love here is mostly lust and wishful thinking. But when two people who expect more and seek more finally find each other, it's truly magical. I'm a bit of a romantic, but also quite the pragmatist. If I can see how it's possible, surely all of us can see it too.
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Slow Time 2 - The "Fuck-A-Slut RL" Game by Darkstarfish
Road Slut by Darkstarfish
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I tried something different. A poem of sorts:
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Screwloose and I have been living together nearly three years now. We met in RL fairly quickly though so I don't think it's the traditional Lush relationship of " I'm in love with someone 1000 miles away and we haven't met yet." We lived quite close. So it is possible. But the very long distance ones, for the most part, will only ever be a fantasy. But honestly, that fantasy keeps a lot of lonely people, happy.
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One doesn't EVER know if the other person is telling the truth (about anything about them) and although it MAY be possible, maybe we fall in love with the ILLUSION of someone. Someone who is very different than what we first normally thought. That's my 
. By the time we find out, it's too late.
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Of course, I've seen people meet on far stupider sites and stay together forever, some broke up after like 10 years but the rest are still together.
So as Nawaz said, only 25% of the members are real, and probably only 1% of those will meet someone on here, but it happens and well happen.
So as Nawaz said, only 25% of the members are real, and probably only 1% of those will meet someone on here, but it happens and well happen.
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yes i think it can happen a true connection between 2 people ...I have fallen in love .Having a deep love with the right person that truly meets all my needs ..Having a lushville time and enjoying it every moment.....
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I would say no.
They might get hooked to the idealistic version of someone in here but fall in love no. At least not for me.
They might get hooked to the idealistic version of someone in here but fall in love no. At least not for me.
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Oh yes, deeply and forever. In a strange way, meeting someone in virtual space means that you fall in love with who they really are without the distraction of physical appearance.
And Chica is quite right, it has to be about more than superficial attraction, but an honest sharing of everything in your life - good and bad.
And Chica is quite right, it has to be about more than superficial attraction, but an honest sharing of everything in your life - good and bad.
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Sure. Of course. I see people fall in love all the time. I've done it myself, several times. 