does it bother you to know about your partners previous lovers?

I have always enjoyed hearing about my former and current lovers experiences. It is both highly erotic and gives you an insight as to what they like and dislike. Most times women are reluctant to talk about former sexual experiences. I love laying in bed nude while a woman talks about her lovers as I caress her.

No, doesn't bother me.

I'd be much more interested in my partner's current lovers.

Absolutely not. The more the merrier.

With a steady experienced partner, it's nice to know that he's sown his wild oats - and hopefully, you have too. So neither of us is under any pressure to fulfill any persisting sexual fantasies (you are each other's fantasy, if anything). Nothing in either of your pasts could or should compare to what you have in the here-and-now. It's all water under the bridge, and an interesting insight into the person they've become.

It never bothered me because I was his last! 💕

why should it? i mean, turn it around - should it bother them to know about your previous lovers? if so, that's kind of a deal breaker for me, tbh.

I have always encouraged my partner to be open and honest with me, as I am with her. I would love to know the intimate details of her past, and I will share mine if I can tell that she wants to know. I’ve been with plenty of partners that did not want to know anything and didn’t share any of their past - and those closed off relationships were short lived. I don’t understand someone being jealous of someone else that they never knew or was before my time with them.

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I have always enjoyed hearing about my former and current lovers experiences. It is both highly erotic and gives you an insight as to what they like and dislike. Most times women are reluctant to talk about former sexual experiences. I love laying in bed nude while a woman talks about her lovers as I caress her.

I find it hot as hell, and I am competitive that way... 😜

I'm not at all bothered by it. Everyone has a past so it's best not to dwell on it and just use that knowledge to make life better now and in the future.

No, the past could never hold a flame to the present.

My wife hasn’t told me the whole truth about past partners. She hasn’t told me about 2 men she had bareback fucks with as revenge when we were going through a rough patch before we got married. One fucked her twice when she had two back massages from him just 2 weeks apart. One an Electrician seduced her and fucked her while re-wiring our flat. She has kept it secret but I learned about them from others. I also suspect she had sex with a man 15 years older than her who was a bit of a mentor to her, who she says ‘opened her eyes’ to the ways of the world. I read a text to her by him where he said he wanted to bend her over a table and fuck her hard. She allowed me to read it, said she never read it and that she would never have sex with such an older man. He had an open marriage and was a cuckold.

One night after making love my husband asked if I would tell him about all my previous sexual experiences as it would turn him on . I started speaking slowly of my sexual experience and how my first time was when I found myself saying we should take turns telling each other of our past before we met . I was as turned on as he was which led to us making love again . This happens every time we do this , so now we have no secrets at all and are starting to tell each other our sexual fantasies .

I not only love to hear women talk in detail about their past experiences but also recreate some of their favorite ones. Most women are reluctant to talk about their past.

It's exciting to hear about a partner's previous sex life. I'm not a jealous person, and their past is part of who they have become. If he or she has enjoyed sex with other people, then I'm more than happy to know the juicy details.

No, not at all. I know he has moved on and loves me, so it is the same as if talking about the weather 😂 women who flirt with him (often in front of me) on the other hand can evoke some mixed feelings (fear that he would like them more than me and leave me, pride that other women find him attractive and interesting, arousal as I imagine them joining us in bed).

No, not in particular. In general for the reasons many have voiced above: we are together by choice.

She has previous sex lovers as I have. So?

I have never worried about it. What the eyes dont see the heart doesn’t grieve about.

Experience is a good thing, right?

I absolutely adore listening to my little wife elaborate upon her previous sexual adventures! I want to know everything! The exception to this interest is anything that went down with other men during a time many years ago when we foolishly sepperated. She did the old, "Get Under To Get Over" routine whilst I was so crushed, that during my one attempt to pick up, I couldn't even get a semi!

Ag, sorry guys, that was so not hot! Yeah, my wife loves listening to me narrate Lush Stories, really filthy ones and I love when she tells me how hot it was when she did something similar in her unwed days!

I know she’s had more of them than me. The only way it would bother me is if she always talked about how many or if she told me i didn’t compare well with one or more of them. MY GF doesn’t do that. So no I don’t even think about it when I’m with her.

No. It would only bother me if I sensed an emotional connection, but it's been nearly eleven years so I think we're good.

I think good communication would include this info but it would have little bearing on the relationship as far as I was concerned, whether she dated guys or girls.

It would get me hard as a rock, she was a great story teller, most of the time i didn’t know if it was real or made up, i didn’t care it was hot.

No, not at all.

Why would it? They're in the past, and I'm in the present. They already lost what I've got. I'm just trying not to fuck it up and end up like them.

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Why would it? They're in the past, and I'm in the present. They already lost what I've got. I'm just trying not to fuck it up and end up like them.

My feelings exactly and well put

My wife and I have been in the cuck -hotwife scene for over 10 years so the answer for me is no.She told me in detail about her past relationships and still brings up a few every so often and I loved her even more for sharing intimate moments that had absolutely nothing to do with me. I mean I know that some men can have a hard time hearing their wife (obviously getting wet thinking about a certain man or men) talk about how hot he was, how big or bigger his cock was etc.I know I know cucks are weird and they love hear it from their wives but even the most alpha should never let it bother them because usually her previous relationships never know about you but you end up knowing private things about them. Finally never ever take for granted a woman who will share intimacy and or previous lovers with you when she could have kept it from you forever!