Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage - Anais Nin.
I am sure you have the courage, so here are my stories. Important people here think they are better than most.
Little Bird - A couple and their younger lover explore what it is to be submissive and dominant. A true story.
In Heat - An older divorcee needs to understand what motivates younger men. Or, rather, what they need to do to motivate her...
The Walls Talk - A young woman with perverted fantasies finds herself lodging in a house with an over-sexed couple.
Definitely Chill Out music...albeit "chilling out" or "relaxing" might be different for different people...
For me it's "Schlager Musik", "Folk Music" & even American Country Music (the older ones or Ballads)
Example of Schlager Musik -