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What is the most important "life lesson" you have learned?

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that no matter what you do, you will never make everyone happy
Shit will happen and we have no control over it.
Be careful who you trust with your heart and feelings
Trust no one.
Count your blessings.
don't fuck with sprites.

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

be grateful what you have
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don't fuck with sprites.

You got that right.
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You got that right.


also, all hail the Kornslayer and praise his magnificence!

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

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also, all hail the Kornslayer and praise his magnificence!

Thank you for that, Sprite. Now let's all honor Sprite as well. Just as her rank is: Her Royal Spriteness.

ALL HAIL SPRITE, ALL HAIL SPRITE!!!!
Life is like a game of strip poker. We can't control the cards we're dealt, but we can play the ones we do get to the best of our ability.. .

That is, of course, unless 'Her Royal Spriteness' is dealing. ;)

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Wise words indeed...
There is a charm about the forbidden that makes it unspeakably desirable."

C'è un fascino per il proibito che lo rende indicibilmente desiderabile.

— Mark Twain
My Grandmother, rest her soul, told me something that I have believed since.

"No matter what the relationship, the most important person in your relationship is the other person."



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None of this will matter 300 years from now!


To be honest Bethany, most of it won't matter next week .....


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don't fuck with sprites.


OMG, for GOD SAKE, DON'T Fuck with a sprite, I still have scars .....

Ciao
There are times she is kneeling out of obedience, reverence and respect. Those are the times it is okay to stand above her. But when she is kneeling because the weight of the world is just too heavy to bear … that is when You should be kneeling beside her.

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Don't take anything for granted cause it all be taken away, and do whatever makes you happy. Live life to it's fullest!!
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My father only had a sixth grade education, but in many ways, he was a wise man. One of his favorite sayings was, "Ignorance is never a sin until you start waving it like a flag."


That was the great lesson of Socrates 2500 years ago. He knew he was ignorant.
Looking for a teacher, he sent a reliable friend to Delphi to consult the Oracle to ask
"Who is the wisest person in Athens?" The response was that Socrates was wisest!
How could that be he thought for a long time? Then the answer hit him:" he is wisest because he knows and is humbled by the fact that he alone know that he did not know! All the rest, did not even know that they did not know, and in fact, put him to death for pointing it out to them when they wanted to take over and run Athens.
Take nothing for granted. Life is very short, love every moment.
That life is a wonderful journey from birth to death. I should make some effort to make it a happy journey.
I like the way you make me feel even when I'm nowhere near...
Yes I agree with my friend AmyGray. Don't take anything for granted, but love every moment.
You can't please everyone
so you have got to please yourself.

"The Gods that smiled when you were born
are laughing now."
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My Grandmother, rest her soul, told me something that I have believed since.

"No matter what the relationship, the most important person in your relationship is the other person."





OMG, for GOD SAKE, DON'T Fuck with a sprite, I still have scars .....

Ciao



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I think the most important relationship will ever have is with yourself.

As sweet as the above sounds, it sounds like a recipe for one to have advantage over the other one.
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I think the most important relationship will ever have is with yourself.

As sweet as the above sounds, it sounds like a recipe for one to have advantage over the other one.


I agree that your relationship with yourself has to be the most important one you can have, If you are not comfortable with yourself then you can't give to someone else. I am more referring to the give and take in a relationship. If the most important person is you then you will find out that the other person will one day start feeling the same and stop loving you. I speak from personal experience.

I can see where the other person could take advantage of you if you let it get to that point, but you have to look at each situation. This is not a "power exchange" thing. I didn't say that you were to become subservient to the other person, it is meant to just tell you that you should be willing to show the other person that they are the most important thing in you life. Not that they are to control your life. If they start to abuse the idea then you have to stop for your own sake.

Thank you for your
There are times she is kneeling out of obedience, reverence and respect. Those are the times it is okay to stand above her. But when she is kneeling because the weight of the world is just too heavy to bear … that is when You should be kneeling beside her.

Daddy has a lovely family - Daddy’s Little Family … https://www.lushstories.com/stories/flash-erotica/-daddys-little-family-.aspx

He is behind the curtain - Someone’s Watching ... https://www.lushstories.com/stories/masturbation/-someones-watching-.aspx

Some childhood memories return - Memories of Daddy … https://www.lushstories.com/stories/microfiction/-memories-of-daddy-.aspx

Just a ride in the country - Afternoon Distraction …
https://www.lushstories.com/stories/microfiction/-afternoon-distraction-.aspx

She waits to keep a promise - Promises …
https://www.lushstories.com/stories/microfiction/-promises-.aspx
hard to say which one of my principles is more important than another. i didn't make these up, but i have learned that they work very reliably in a wide variety of situations and relationships
- practice gratitude
- apply the golden rule
- look for the good in others and situations
- always seek to find the win-win answer in conflicts
- have some reasonable expectation of the other person applying the golden rule in a relationship with an equal
- unconditional love can be dangerous and is unwise and unrealistic between equals. but if i really love you "unconditionally," then i will leave you if you are abusive
- the right to self-defense cannot and should not be taken away. everyone is entitled to and should act in their own enlightened self-interest- (which could include giving up your seat on the titanic's lifeboat. it is one thing to willingly give up yourself sacrificially, but different if it is demanded by someone- that's usually abuse)
- accept reality, but push on the areas you can change (same as the serenity prayer)
- give the benefit of the doubt until someone makes it obvious they should not have it
- don't jump to quick conclusions... suspend judgment until you can investigate
- love has to be given freely. manipulation is antithetical to love.
- free gifts have to be given freely. don't trust people who give to incur obligation
- a relationship with an equal should have some overarching equitable equivalency to it. you might give different things to each other, but it feels like your giving as good as you get
- be honest with yourself, be aware, be present
If you don't have to stand, sit.
If you don't have to sit, lie down.
Avoid rejection by not ever expecting anything
Sometimes you have to say sorry, even if you're not.
"A dirty book is rarely dusty"
Trust once broken cannot be regained...maybe in a million years.