I HAVE & LOVED IT SO MUCH~ WE ONLY BROKE UP BECUZ SHE LOVED TO ARGUE ABOUT EVERYTHING AND OUR RELATIONSHIP HAD NO PLACE TO GROW*
I dated two. I don't see the appeal, or like the work. Having a virgin or taking virginity sounded fun in my teens and early twenties, but I wouldn't go looking for one. Now if they just wanted me to be the cure, and there wasn't some ordeal about it, then I don't mind. It's just not a conquest or worth being a braggart for.
I've never to my knowledge been with a virgin. I doubt I'd sleep with one though because if they're in my bed probably won't be a virgin by time we go to sleep. I am not looking specifically to be with one, but if I ever were, I'd go out of my way to make it memorable for her in the best possible way, preferably with multiple orgasms before penetration.
I was lucky enough to do so in my 20's. She was barely 16 and we were in love. I held off for weeks, but finally we did. We made love and then slept together.
I hope it was as memorable for her as it was for me, because it wasn't a one-night stand, but the start of a superb relationship.
I'm in my '70's now, but I clearly recall her face, her scent, sounds, taste and feel . . . . .
Did many times when I was a young man. With a number of different women, including a several-months GF who was substantially younger than me. I was highly experienced at that point, but she wasn't ready. Although I often wished she'd get ready - we had a great relationship, and she had a killer body - you have got to respect where your partner is at.
Now that I'm pushing 60, the question is almost completely irrelevant. There are almost no "virginal" women remotely near my age, and I would never sleep with a woman young enough for that to be a significant possibility. But hang on ...
* All this assumes that by "a virgin" you mean the narrow, obsolete definition, "a woman who hasn't experienced PIV sex." The semantics have evolved In modern times, both as the result of #MeToo, and also the Saddlebacking mass delusion that led millions of young ladies to have anal sex and pretend they were still virgins. Get fucking real, people. If you've had substantial, mutually pleasurable sexual activity - certainly if it was unclothed and led to orgasm - you might still be a vag-virgin, but you're not a virgin in any meaningful sense. Especially not if you've had a guy's cock up your ass.
** This also presumes we're talking about opposite-sex pairings. As a Bi male, most of my peers are still virgins when it comes to same-sex contact. I probably wouldn't "sleep with" another man who's never been with another guy unless he as looking to change that. But I would sleep with a man who's an anal virgin, and I hope he would respect me the same way. I'm a bit anxious about anal, and saving that cherry for someone I care about who'll be gentle and understanding.
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